What does this cancer man means " I want you to be happy?"

Hi guys, i will appreciate if anyone give me any advices...

I meet this cancer man 4 months ago, and we have been went through rough time due to my health issue and after 2 weeks he came back to me.
He texted me few lines a day by saying hello and if i don't initiate more conversations, it would be just hello and i said hello, he said how's everything, i said all good. then went quiet for a long long time or till next time and received another hello then same situation keeps repeat. I am a leo, i can't stand for it and I felt awkward, so i told him that i want to sort it out. I want to know where should we go otherwise i want to end it up. Then he disappear for few days until i initiate him and he won't mentioned anything about my concern. Till i asked him to meet on the weekend, then he didn't answer my message for 5 hours. I got frustated and throw out temper, i said i am sorry this is too hard. then he text me back in 15 mins and said don't be upset.
then i text him more what i want to know about us.... he went quiet and sent me a sweet dreams at midnight.

And the whole weekend i couldn't get contact with him, he won't reply any of my messages..... i was upset and sad..... after 3 days he texted me " morning 🙂" after i had broken heart. I didn't know how to face to him as i already decided to let him go in my life. then he suddenly showed up. so i didn't reply his message for 3 days till i calm. then we start text again. he said he was worrying about me, i told him i am fine. he said hope you are okay. then i told him. don't worry about me, i am fine. find your happiness..... then he texted me back " i want you to be happy. I asked him what is that means? then he gone quiet again. until i changed topic. I am so confused and i don't mind to finish it but i would like to have a closer but he has never confront with me.
I had a long road trip last weekend and i texted him guess where i go and he asked so he was curious but i didn't tell him straight so he asked again next day. after he knew i had a long road drive 12 hours return, i need to get some fresh air. He sent me a message on Monday night " hope you got home okay." he was care about me.... lol


Does anyone understand him or have similar experience?? help me, please!!!

Should i give up and move on??

To me, when a guy says "I want you to be happy", or "I wish you well", that's the closure.

Been there.

Thanks everyone who left comments, i do appreciate it.

I was asking a closure but he never confront with me and he probably will never anyway. so i should move on, i am trying slowly.... 😢

I sent my cancer man messages and told him that i want to see him and talk to him like friends, i miss him. He texted back he has to go to a meeting so he is not sure when will it finish. It turned out he texted me after the meeting finish but it was late about 9pm. so i asked if it is too late for him to catch up, he said up to me. I was tired and sleepy after the whole waiting and texting communicate.... it was 10pm. even if i was thinking to offer him a lift but it is 1 hour return and i just don't feel right to do it ... after a long day work to talk about shit... and probably get emotional .... so i decided to not to meet him at that night and teasing him unless you want to see me. then kind of saying good night. Then he texted me that he want to see me!! I told him i miss him and he said me too. I am so confused. i asked him why do you miss me? He said miss my smile and hugs. Cancer man knows what to say, don't they?!
It's just hard to move on when he is not rejecting me and being nice to me. but i know he is not into me anymore.... so i have to adjust self and move on. It's just hard.... 😢

Sorry that you are having this hard time. It can be really confusing, and I have been in and are in some sort of same situation myself and I think the best to do is go by your intuition and feelings. Do you really want this cancer man? Then I think you should not give up but of course you have to be open for the possibility to get hurt, that's just how it is with everyone, not only with Cancerians. There will always be a risk and I always take the risk. It has given many good experiences in life, but also bad. That's life and you need to know yourself first, know what you need, know what you can and cannot take etc. If you feel that there is not a possibility that you will get what you want, now or in the future, then maybe you should stop trying. And if you feel that you cannot be happy with this man, is that something you want? Also I try to keep focus on Canerians ( and people in general) actions instead of only words - what has he done for you, notice every single thing and I am sure you will know in your heart what is the right thing to do.

Thanks for that lovely comment and it helps.

I feel we don't get enough time to get to know each other and i can't communicate through text messages and i don't like it as he didn't talk much through messages.
He is not putting me on his priority, hardly make anytime for me on the weekend, only week day and he is always busy, it makes me anxious and try to find out where are we badly.

Maybe he is not the person i want, but i got feeling to him. I will let go if he is not interested so i have tried to talk to him face to face but he seems avoid me. otherwise he is very busy.
I also understand that we are two different person but we have many similar parts as well, i need to figure out with him, if he doesn't want to then i have to let go and stop torch myself.

I already texted him a lot and don't know what to say anymore, i feel i am talking to myself and never get respond seriously. I give him chance to decided to be friends or stranger or get back together, now just wait for his respond but i will move on, no matter what he decided and be brave. 🙂 Even if he is not responding which is very likely will happened. lol

To update my situation for who has cared about my situation and kindness gave me some real good advice.

I had a chat with my cancer man, he said he likes me, i am a good person. then said we are both happy now.

When i tried to state some issues, he said OK, then i asked him what are you okay for? he said I don't know. lol

Then he said, don't worry anything, just take things slow. I asked him what do you mean by taking things slow..... he replied just from the previous relationship, he wants to take thing slow.

He is a busy man, he is a hard worker, working at financial area, and he is a manager, he has meeting all the time and after work, he still has meeting sometimes or with his colleagues. on the weekend he has his leisure, he go diving ( that's his passion, i think that's great) then meet his parents and clean up house.....

For me, seeing someone means to spend time with each other, i am not asking much, once a week, but it seems really difficult to achieve.
I like him but i can't stand for he has no time for me. Therefore, i text him and tell him what i want from him, i want to see him regularly, once a week is slow enough for me and i want to take thing slow to get to know him as well. , and asked him to tell me what he wants as well. then used i miss you for the ending of the message.

He only replied i miss you too. xoxo and avoid all my concern, it has happened so many times.

He doesn't look like a playboy and he is a good person too. but the way he treats me just make me feel he is not respect me that much.

I texted him again said i have tried my best to communicate with him, if he has no words for me, then we should leave it for good.

He apologised that he got a busy day and started to text me but still avoid all my concern and said he wants to see my new haircut. but never make plans. even if i make the first move, he is always busy. I told him I don't know what to do with him, he is avoiding my concern. and i joke maybe he thought i am practise my english... lol
Then he replied he wants to practise Mandarin with me. ( he is weird ... isn't it?) lol
I texted: how?
He replied next day..... I can be your student.

I think he just wants to be friend with me. i don't understand him at all. And i already give him so many chance to make plans with me but he never takes it.
always says but no actions. he says, i miss you. but nothing followed up. He said he wants to see my haircut.... but nothing followed up. then he said i want to practise my language with me. it has been second times already. but no plan applied. Does he wants me to make plan? Does he want me to chase him? I did before then he think i move too fast or i am bit too push.... Cancer man is so difficult. 😢 I just want to be myself.