@americanono
10 Years
Should I ask this cancer man out or not?? Help.
Should You Ask the Cancer Man Out or Wait?
Based on his behavior and hints, asking him out directly could be effective since he appears shy and interested. Being clear and confident may help him feel more comfortable. However, consider his personality and your comfort level to choose the best approach. Patience can also work if you prefer to proceed slowly and build more rapport.
DO IT
You wont scare him away, just be firm friendly and polite, jeez, he likes you lots, what you got to lose x
Posted by piscespoppy
You wont scare him away, just be firm friendly and polite, jeez, he likes you lots, what you got to lose x
Thank you! I'm just afraid he'll rejected and I have to go to some extent to avoid meeting him after that..
Posted by MagicMona
just dont come back here complaning about cancer man this and cancer man that. seems to be a lot of that on this site nowadays.
Uhhh.. I'm not complaining, I'm genuinely asking
Posted by piscespoppy
You wont scare him away, just be firm friendly and polite, jeez, he likes you lots, what you got to lose xThank you! I'm just afraid he'll rejected and I have to go to some extent to avoid meeting him after that..
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Rejection will happen in your life over and over, it's not to be feared, but rewarded by a resilient mindset to do it all over again.
Go for it, what are you waiting for?
Cause the sun will still rise tomorrow despite what you do.
Posted by piscespoppy
You wont scare him away, just be firm friendly and polite, jeez, he likes you lots, what you got to lose xThank you! I'm just afraid he'll rejected and I have to go to some extent to avoid meeting him after that..
Rejection will happen in your life over and over, it's not to be feared, but rewarded by a resilient mindset to do it all over again.
Go for it, what are you waiting for?
Cause the sun will still rise tomorrow despite what you do.
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That's very reassuring. Thank you so much!
Posted by piscespoppy
You wont scare him away, just be firm friendly and polite, jeez, he likes you lots, what you got to lose xThank you! I'm just afraid he'll rejected and I have to go to some extent to avoid meeting him after that..
Rejection will happen in your life over and over, it's not to be feared, but rewarded by a resilient mindset to do it all over again.
Go for it, what are you waiting for?
Cause the sun will still rise tomorrow despite what you do.
That's very reassuring. Thank you so much!
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When all else fails, trust your gut. Challenge what you think and just go for it!!
: )
You've got nothing to lose by asking him out. Worst case scenario is he is not interested or already taken. Either way asking him out can save you from further investing
Posted by Illuminati
You've got nothing to lose by asking him out. Worst case scenario is he is not interested or already taken. Either way asking him out can save you from further investing
Thank you! I will do. I mean I have this feeling that I would really regret it if I didn't try at all.
Just ask him out. But not very straightforward like asking a friend out. Sincerely.
Good luck!
Posted by Illuminati
You've got nothing to lose by asking him out. Worst case scenario is he is not interested or already taken. Either way asking him out can save you from further investingThank you! I will do. I mean I have this feeling that I would really regret it if I didn't try at all.
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Good luck with that.
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I'm a Pisces been crushing on cancer man for a while now. We see each other on regular basis but barely talked to each other. We followed each other on IG and other social medias.
He dropped subtle hints that he's interested in me. His friends went on and on about him likes me so I think he does. I mean his face turned red whenever I attempted to casually talked to him. His friends said he lost focus whenever I'm around.
As most cancerians, I knew it would be impossible to get him to ask me out so I told his friend to tell him to go watch a movie together.. I mean like double date with his friend. He agreed at first but then caved in because he said he's too shy.
I was about to give up but then a friend told me to just straight up ask him out myself. He may be feel more comfortable to just meet me instead of with other friends. I plan to ask him out watch a movie next week.. is it the right thing to do or should I just wait and move slowly instead?
I mean.... Is it really okay to just bluntly ask him out? I'm afraid I'll scare him away :/