What should I do to if I wanted to go on a date with this very shy cancer when I'm shy myself?

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americanono
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I have this cancer crush. He works at a coffee shop I regularly visit.

He knows I like him. We never really talked but he gave me his number through a friend of mine and he has my number. He texted me one time, we chat a tiny bit and that's it.

Today I came to that coffee shop and he's there. I was expecting him to at least greet me by name since well we did talk over texts but he didn't. He just stood there.

I wanted to greet him first but I was too shy.. he did go back and forth near where I sit and kept glancing at me. My friend said he looks like he wanted to talk to me but hesitated, guess he's just as shy as I am.

I wonder if you guys think he likes me too hence being nervous and stuffs...? or is it just cancer thing to get nervous at just anyone?

If he does like me, what should I do to make him ask me out? Not that I don't wanna be one to ask him out first but the words just couldn't come out of my mouth, heck I couldn't even say hi to him. Help me.
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Posted by SentimentalCrabby
That's really adorable.
If he was trying to get a glimpse of you constantly and trying to be around you then I surely do think he likes you.

The fact that you both are shy, make things a bit complicated to handle. One of you has to make to make the move to say something, waiting for the other to make a movement will take a while...

He couldn't find the courage or the confidence to approach you. They make a big deal and sort of over-react to the situation wondering how they could keep their cool.

If anything, just smile at him when you make eye contact. If you look away, he might get the wrong idea at some sorts.
Just smile, and if you find the confidents to say hello. Just do it.
I did try to make the first move but only as far as asking my friend to tell him that I like him, she did tell him that and he gave me my number and asked mine.

I also tried staring at where he stood and smiled a little. But that's probably the only thing I can do. If I go anything further than that I might gonna do or say something stupid out of nervousness...

Oh btw, I went there with a friend yesterday, is it possible that is partially why he hesitated to greet me? I plan to go there all by myself tomorrow, maybe that way he will have the courage to come and talk to me.. right?