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P.S. I'm scorpio myself. So yas, dear cancers, even scorpio finds you smothering LOL 😄
No..definw clingy and smothering what is that exactly?
Ive dated all the air signs and they seemed more clingy and smothering. For example calling back to back if i dont answer right away, become possesive and jealous, they need attention and time, like being spoiled etc etc. These arent my traits yo me that is clingy. Me on the other hand ill make sure ur ok, have ur food ready, clean the house, make sure ur ok financial, give u hugs and kisses...not too much. I dont question u i let u breath etc. I think thats normal healthy rel stuff and not clingy or smothering maybe nurturing and loving.
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
Yeaah we are ,talk to him about him,if hes mature he will understand and give y more space
God this virgo LOVES her cancer when hes all clingy, its a cuddleheaven.
Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*click to expand
P.S. Don't get me wrong- I'm not here for advices how to deal with that 🙂 When things get too smothering I simply tell them to get a life and turn a cold shoulder on them. I'm here for opinions if clinginess is a general cancer trait 🙂
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*click to expand
Why do you allow this? Why aren't you putting up your boundaries. If you're leading on the most sensitive sign then blaming them for having their feelings when you are not putting your boundaries out sounds desperate for attention and pretty narcissistic.
Nope. My Virgo is clingy with me.
Cancer thing
I have a cancer younger bro and a cancer older sis and a cancer male co-worker and a cancer friend...
Case of the crabs; I know. *nods slowly*
No I'm not clingy, Scorpios are clingy they want to know what you are doing all the time they like to keep tabs on you I'm not sure if its their insecurity or ? Crab men or myself like our freedom I don't like having somebody keeping tabs on me wanting to know what I'm doing.
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*click to expand
Ok true just talk to him etc. I think all signs r clingy when they feeling someone and all of us can be cold and distant when we not feeling u. So yea maybe this is true for some.. he likes u alot it seems like. I dont do or show anything if i dont like u and im sure alot ppl did this to me and i thought they were clingy because i didnt 100 like them like that. When two ppl r into eachother they dont notice clingy or smothering. Im sure there r alot of women on cancer board who would love for their cancer man to just show them affection and call back...
No clingy is not a general trait for only cancers...ive met anyone who was 100 into me have these traits of wanting to be 100 mine but i didnt care 4 them like that. And vice versa for someone who wasnt feeling me. Its human nature not a particular sign. He must really like u thats all. If u read all cancer posts its alot of cancer men who go running and play games
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
Why do you allow this? Why aren't you putting up your boundaries. If you're leading on the most sensitive sign then blaming them for having their feelings when you are not putting your boundaries out sounds desperate for attention and pretty narcissistic.
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I meannn, sigh. Narcissism of the highEST degree
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
Why do you allow this? Why aren't you putting up your boundaries. If you're leading on the most sensitive sign then blaming them for having their feelings when you are not putting your boundaries out sounds desperate for attention and pretty narcissistic.
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I agree sounds like he like her alot and just trying show he care. Soon as he stop thats when they want love attn affection. Its like u be a gentlemen then ur clingy but act cold and distant u be like 95 percent of the women on here complaining about how cancer men is cold distant when is he coming back etc. If u dont want a rel tell him to back down take it slow thats all
This is why I have no female Scorpio friends or Pisces even. I even find my Cap Sun Cancer Moon friend a tad too sensitive at times. As a cancer I need my space so much, my Aqua complains most times, so imagine that.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Gosh why are Scorpio women so fecking annoying
Thank You!
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*click to expand
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
@Op -Not really I just like strong arms wrapped around me during movies or after sex as it is intense for my soul. Which COULD make me clingy OR ALWAYS want to be around you more, but I more motherly and nurturing, and can cook too so I'll let you do your thing but make sure you can back home. I have air moon/cancer rising..
Posted by LillyPetal
Cancer thingI have a cancer younger bro and a cancer older sis and a cancer male co-worker and a cancer friend...
Case of the crabs; I know. *nods slowly*
Badump tish! 😄
I am the polar opposite of clingy, in fact people seem confused by my lack of clinginess often. Though sometimes If I feel myself wanting to cling to someone I pull back right away and keep that trait in check! I love my earth signs and have often found this characteristic in them, but they keep me grounded so please cling on at will! 🙂
Cancers are very sweet, caring. But sometimes I find them to b very mean. Also my bf is very lazy. Personally I like men who r fit n tough n protective. Im Aquarius. Taurus men r really good that way.
Nice
I am cancer with a scorp. We both like affection but need our space. He get his space through work. When he wrap up into work he get into a zone. I need to go hide and think when i need alone time.So I really think both signs do the same shit but the timing can be off. Like when he's not getting my attention I sware he act like a dam kid. Not all the time but it happen. I talking about all over me ,bitching ,jealousy ,and being manipulative. I have to tell him that I need space to think which don't take me long. And he usually leave me be for awhile
.when I don't get my affection I go in my shell and he come off cold. I learn that both signs handle things differently. I think scorp can be selfish and have issues with saying things the way it is. They come off so secretive.
Now in this case I think the op just not being honest with the cancer because scorp want this cancer to be all over them. If it's a sex thing then say it to the cancer but I think you not making it clear to him because you found power into the situation.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
Does this bytch want a cookie?
If "This bytch" are cancers and me "a cookie" - yep, without a doubt.
Posted by butterfly30
I am cancer with a scorp. We both like affection but need our space. He get his space through work. When he wrap up into work he get into a zone. I need to go hide and think when i need alone time.So I really think both signs do the same shit but the timing can be off. Like when he's not getting my attention I sware he act like a dam kid. Not all the time but it happen. I talking about all over me ,bitching ,jealousy ,and being manipulative. I have to tell him that I need space to think which don't take me long. And he usually leave me be for awhile
.when I don't get my affection I go in my shell and he come off cold. I learn that both signs handle things differently. I think scorp can be selfish and have issues with saying things the way it is. They come off so secretive.Now in this case I think the op just not being honest with the cancer because scorp want this cancer to be all over them. If it's a sex thing then say it to the cancer but I think you not making it clear to him because you found power into the situation.
It's not a sex thing and we have/had NOTHING that would remind bf/gf relationship from afar. They are/were my friends (I had in mind several cancers I met though my lifetime, not one particular case) so n.o.p.e. But nice try 🙂
You sound like a dick. Wait until you're in trouble. A crab will be there while the rest will scatter.
Posted by QueenOfPentacles
is it just me who happens to meet cancers that become clingy and smothering or it's a general cancer trait? Thoughts?
Yes, they can become smothering.
Yeah it can be a crab trait
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Does this bytch want a cookie?
If "This bytch" are cancers and me "a cookie" - yep, without a doubt.
nobody wants your ho azz.
girl please. go rub your ego somewhere else.
crabs don't give a fuk
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Ego? Lmfao were u born stupid or developed this trait over time? I asked simple question. That's the first thing. AND I never asked any cancer to be clingy or imagine that I want to be with them by any means. That's the second thing. I am not responsible for their thoughts and stop pretending that I am. Oh poor cancer utti putti baby got hurt. If they don't want to get hurt they should stop living in their fantasy world. And yes cancers are angels without wings- so saint. It's everyone else who's nasty and damage gentle cancer's soul. Oh well.
*facepalm* *facedesk* *faceground*
Cancers are really fucking clingy.
I find it hilarious how many emotional cancer bitches this board has,
Whatever you fucking do, don't tell an emotional cancer they are an emotional cancer, I guess.
This thread is such a great example of why I dislike cancers, and avoid them and am deeply ashamed of any cancer in me.,
LEO LEO LEO!
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Cancers are really fucking clingy.
I find it hilarious how many emotional cancer bitches this board has,
Whatever you fucking do, don't tell an emotional cancer they are an emotional cancer, I guess.
I would sign under every single word you said. Preach !!!
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Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Cancers are really fucking clingy.
I find it hilarious how many emotional cancer bitches this board has,
Whatever you fucking do, don't tell an emotional cancer they are an emotional cancer, I guess.
I would sign under every single word you said. Preach !!!click to expand
That's it go and exploit a self-effacing comment from a true cancer, you flip it to cushion your overinflated ego bent on leading crabs on and on and on, then calling them clingy, attempting to crush their emotions and then appeasing your selfish vanity over someones feelings. Your a piece of work.
Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
This thread is such a great example of why I dislike cancers, and avoid them and am deeply ashamed of any cancer in me.,LEO LEO LEO!
Your birth date is wrong...You're a Leo, planets in virgo, gem and..... fill in the rest..
A whole new you. Now, please love yourself.
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This thread is such a great example of why I dislike cancers, and avoid them and am deeply ashamed of any cancer in me.,LEO LEO LEO!
Your birth date is wrong...You're a Leo, planets in virgo, gem and..... fill in the rest..
A whole new you. Now, please love yourself.
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aww bless you luv lol
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Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Cancers are really fucking clingy.
I find it hilarious how many emotional cancer bitches this board has,
Whatever you fucking do, don't tell an emotional cancer they are an emotional cancer, I guess.
I would sign under every single word you said. Preach !!!
That's it go and exploit a self-effacing comment from a true cancer, you flip it to cushion your overinflated ego bent on leading crabs on and on and on, then calling them clingy, attempting to crush their emotions and then appeasing your selfish vanity over someones feelings. Your a piece of work.
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cocokat
It wasnt easy to do but i had to come to the realization that it was also my responsibility to learn the signs of when to walk away, and walk away.
Just because us cancer fags are easily lead on by ego stroke needing assholes, does not mean we dont have our own responsibility to guard our heart from being used.
Owning that is very freeing.
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Posted by CancerLeoDynamite
Cancers are really fucking clingy.
I find it hilarious how many emotional cancer bitches this board has,
Whatever you fucking do, don't tell an emotional cancer they are an emotional cancer, I guess.
I would sign under every single word you said. Preach !!!
That's it go and exploit a self-effacing comment from a true cancer, you flip it to cushion your overinflated ego bent on leading crabs on and on and on, then calling them clingy, attempting to crush their emotions and then appeasing your selfish vanity over someones feelings. Your a piece of work.
cocokat
It wasnt easy to do but i had to come to the realization that it was also my responsibility to learn the signs of when to walk away, and walk away.
Just because us cancer fags are easily lead on by ego stroke needing assholes, does not mean we dont have our own responsibility to guard our heart from being used.
Owning that is very freeing.
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Aaghh I just saw this now. I do agree, taking self responsibility is key and you seem to have good self awareness, but its such a shame that there are some unevolved people who try and vampire off of others emotions for their own benefit. Cancer emotions are so authentic and real it bothers me to see people try and exploit them.
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
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Exactly its all fun and games till someone falls in love and want b serious. Sounds like they r just trying ve serious about u.
Posted by sunkisses26
I am a cancer and yea ...i can be really really really clinging with out meaning to ....(my bad lol) but hey!!! celebrate this means your cancer loves you!!!!! is it annoying why yea...and if someone did me the same way i would probably freak out lol
He's not MY cancer LOL, but thanks anyways 🙂
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
Exactly its all fun and games till someone falls in love and want b serious. Sounds like they r just trying ve serious about u.
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Thank you 🙂 Yep it sounds like this and most likely that wanting seriousness I see as being clingy. My bad.
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Posted by lovely77
What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
Exactly its all fun and games till someone falls in love and want b serious. Sounds like they r just trying ve serious about u.
Thank you 🙂 Yep it sounds like this and most likely that wanting seriousness I see as being clingy. My bad.click to expand
No need to feel bad even as a cancer i met ppl who i thought were toooo much...why because i wasnt feeling them just yet or wanting commitment. Then the ones i really wanted badly i showed them the world amd they probably thought I was clingy but i was just showing them i cared and i want more. We all do it to ppl. So tell me as a scorpio woman if u really really want a rel and like someone what do u do?
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What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
Exactly its all fun and games till someone falls in love and want b serious. Sounds like they r just trying ve serious about u.
Thank you 🙂 Yep it sounds like this and most likely that wanting seriousness I see as being clingy. My bad.
No need to feel bad even as a cancer i met ppl who i thought were toooo much...why because i wasnt feeling them just yet or wanting commitment. Then the ones i really wanted badly i showed them the world amd they probably thought I was clingy but i was just showing them i cared and i want more. We all do it to ppl. So tell me as a scorpio woman if u really really want a rel and like someone what do u do?
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Ughhh good question LOL. I can't tell u as a scorpio woman, because the person I ever truly wanted was my Twin Flame and it's karmic stuff so it doesn't depend on my sign. But I was hella controlling and jealous (that quietly jealous type that stares. Like touch-my-man-and-your-whole-family-to-your-ancestors-will-be-dead jealous 😄 ) at the start hahahaha 😄
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What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
Exactly its all fun and games till someone falls in love and want b serious. Sounds like they r just trying ve serious about u.
Thank you 🙂 Yep it sounds like this and most likely that wanting seriousness I see as being clingy. My bad.
No need to feel bad even as a cancer i met ppl who i thought were toooo much...why because i wasnt feeling them just yet or wanting commitment. Then the ones i really wanted badly i showed them the world amd they probably thought I was clingy but i was just showing them i cared and i want more. We all do it to ppl. So tell me as a scorpio woman if u really really want a rel and like someone what do u do?
Ughhh good question LOL. I can't tell u as a scorpio woman, because the person I ever truly wanted was my Twin Flame and it's karmic stuff so it doesn't depend on my sign. But I was hella controlling and jealous (that quietly jealous type that stares. Like touch-my-man-and-your-whole-family-to-your-ancestors-will-be-dead jealous 😄 ) at the start hahahaha 😄click to expand
Lmaooo damn. Im sorry about ur twin flame. I hope i find mine one day or maybe i have
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What is he or she doing thats clingy and smothering? Im a cancer i dont like that.
They often want me to be "theirs" even if I am not even in a deep relationship with them. They are very quick to dive into relationship (that exist in their head and their head only) and give themselves away and then be all over me and they become moody when I become distant. Duh *rolls eyes*
That's not clingy. That's wanting commitment. If your not prepared to give it set the lil crabs free!!!
Exactly its all fun and games till someone falls in love and want b serious. Sounds like they r just trying ve serious about u.
Thank you 🙂 Yep it sounds like this and most likely that wanting seriousness I see as being clingy. My bad.
No need to feel bad even as a cancer i met ppl who i thought were toooo much...why because i wasnt feeling them just yet or wanting commitment. Then the ones i really wanted badly i showed them the world amd they probably thought I was clingy but i was just showing them i cared and i want more. We all do it to ppl. So tell me as a scorpio woman if u really really want a rel and like someone what do u do?
Ughhh good question LOL. I can't tell u as a scorpio woman, because the person I ever truly wanted was my Twin Flame and it's karmic stuff so it doesn't depend on my sign. But I was hella controlling and jealous (that quietly jealous type that stares. Like touch-my-man-and-your-whole-family-to-your-ancestors-will-be-dead jealous 😄 ) at the start hahahaha 😄
Lmaooo damn. Im sorry about ur twin flame. I hope i find mine one day or maybe i have
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No surprise he ran away Rofl 😄
And I too hope u'llfind yours. It's amazing experience even if it's painful. Worth every moment. 🙂
Posted by QueenOfPentacles
is it just me who happens to meet cancers that become clingy and smothering or it's a general cancer trait? Thoughts?
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is it just me who happens to meet cancers that become clingy and smothering or it's a general cancer trait? Thoughts?