My ex crush cancer deleted me from fb! But then he contacted me on Viber... WTF?

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by TaurusMarine on Sunday, March 13, 2016 and has 19 replies.

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

That happened when I told him I'm over him and he begged me through his actions to be with him. I'm not mean, btw.Those who remember my thread know he used to be a real douche with me.
So I told him we're not right for each other and he is still keeping silent with his response logging out of Viber.
What's up with cancer guys? Again your famous insecurity thing? Why not be a man and agree that we want different things in life and move on? Why always this drama?!

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

Posted by Westsidekodak
He is unsure of what he wants. Just be polite and tell him goodbye in a nice way. Don't waste time with people who don't know what they want

Oh I did move on. Maybe I'm still not 100% indifferent but I desided sharp he's not right for me.

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

Posted by Westsidekodak

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Posted by Westsidekodak
He is unsure of what he wants. Just be polite and tell him goodbye in a nice way. Don't waste time with people who don't know what they want

Oh I did move on. Maybe I'm still not 100% indifferent but I desided sharp he's not right for me.

I'm a cancer j know. He's going to bring headaches till you crack. Just tell him you have no interest in talking to him.

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I did tell him. He said he hoped for proper relationship... Cancer guys are unbearable for my healthy mind...seriously. He used to say one thing did another. Yesterday he came round to my house and asked me to go out to talk to him..hm with flowers and in a suit. I told I'm busy. Today he deleted me from fb 🙂

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

Posted by sagiluv

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Posted by Westsidekodak
He is unsure of what he wants. Just be polite and tell him goodbye in a nice way. Don't waste time with people who don't know what they want

Oh I did move on. Maybe I'm still not 100% indifferent but I desided sharp he's not right for me.

I'm a cancer j know. He's going to bring headaches till you crack. Just tell him you have no interest in talking to him.

I did tell him. He said he hoped for proper relationship... Cancer guys are unbearable for my healthy mind...seriously. He used to say one thing did another. Yesterday he came round to my house and asked me to go out to talk to him..hm with flowers and in a suit. I told I'm busy. Today he deleted me from fb 🙂

Cancer are very sensative you must of hurt his feelings. They can hold grudges.

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That's him who really hurt me so deeply in the past... so much actually that despite beeing mad about him I still decided to move on.
So "That you were once unkind befriends me now" (W.Sahkespeare Sonnet 120)

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

He's may be chasing/dating another chick that has access to his fb so he unfriended you so that she's not aware you exist.

But he's still looking to hit that pussy hence the viber contact.

Stay strong. Delete his ass from your life.

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

he has always been a complete Asshole to me. I could forgive him If he apologised every day all year. I just doubt this man is that's strong for me.
Now I strongly doubt everything written about high compatibility between taurus and cancer is right.

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@Pearls
11 Years

You are definitely not over him.
The compatiility between Cancer & Taurus is right but they forgot to mention one main attribute about this relationship:
Taurus likes Cancer more than Cancer likes Taurus.

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

Posted by Pearls
You are definitely not over him.
The compatiility between Cancer & Taurus is right but they forgot to mention one main attribute about this relationship:
Taurus likes Cancer more than Cancer likes Taurus.

Of course I'm not! I'm Taurus. I'll be completely over in years. But I'm glued to my opinion.
Hope we'll swap roles very soon.

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@kissmygrits
14 Years5,000+ PostsCancer

My exes are annoying but I don't think I hate them. I'm a special July 9ther that would rather go eat pizza or a Cuban sandwich than kill someone. It's too messy, you have to dispose evidence, then you have to get a lawyer too much trouble for just a derp I can ignore out of my life.

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@Pearls
11 Years

Posted by Finbuff

Posted by Pearls
You are definitely not over him.
The compatiility between Cancer & Taurus is right but they forgot to mention one main attribute about this relationship:
Taurus likes Cancer more than Cancer likes Taurus.

Not sure I agree with this. I've seen it go both ways.

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Really? Because that's completely impossible.
I already stated the absolute terms of this relationship.

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@Pearls
11 Years

Posted by TaurusMarine

Posted by Pearls
You are definitely not over him.
The compatiility between Cancer & Taurus is right but they forgot to mention one main attribute about this relationship:
Taurus likes Cancer more than Cancer likes Taurus.

Of course I'm not! I'm Taurus. I'll be completely over in years. But I'm glued to my opinion.
Hope we'll swap roles very soon.

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That's true. I keep forgetting that about Taurus.

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

Gladly report )))) I'm over this guy and feel so relieved, happy, fresh and inspired!!!
I'd just want to thank this cancer for he was useful to me in understanding what I really want in my life and what I will accept or not in relationships.
So thank you all, immature cancer dudes! Your impact can be really awesome 🙂 😉

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@TaurusMarine
10 Years

Posted by Cancer Lady
He still cares about you.

I don't care. I just woke up today realising it's been a year sharp today since I have been worrying, secondguessing, playing detective, being hurt by his moods, disinterest, lack ofaturity etc. I have been trying to persuade myself he's a nice guy just maybe not ready. But you know what? I have wasted whole year focusing on someone who didnt return that focus to me. I've wasted so many chances. That's a pity it took me a year... but better late than never.
Still cares? Maybe it's time for him to learn how to care not to break someone elses heart in the future.
I'm so done. Amen)