my cancer woman did something damaging to me --- she told other people something negative about me (because i did something she doesn't like/wasn't expecting, so i guess from the heat of the moment when other people are asking her about me she just said something negative about me to exonerate herself from her feeling of being pressured by other people's questions to her about me) i already told her a lot of times that i forgive her and i'm not mad at her for it but she doesn't want to be near me or talk to me because of what other people think about me that she created and she's blaming it on me. but before that, we were lovey-dovey... what should i do to get us back to normal?
