what would you do?

hi cancers (: well I need some advice: so there's this guy that im cool with and he likes me ALOT! when I say a lot I mean ALOT!!! he called me at 12 am Saturday night to confess his love for me.(we've known each other 2 months) my face was just like > 0_0 I tried to be nice about it & let him down easily but he just doesn't seem to get im not interested. I even told him you don't love me you don't even know me he just replied I don't care I love what I know about you & blah blah blah. long story short I've tried being nice and letting him down I've ignored him nothing is getting through im starting to get creeped out. cancer ladies & gents how would you handle this situation? we cancers are known for our sweet caring nature but im ready to snap lol.

@cluelesscancer setting him up with someone else ? lol i never thought of that lmao maybe that just might work

Posted by CluelessCancer
*Ignore all contact
*set him up with a friend.

I'd say only no contact. Most guys I know take ANY sort of communication as a positive sign. Cut him off. You aren't being mean; you are showing him kindness by not playing with him!!!

@Taylor now watch when she does that, then he'll come running to this board asking "Cancer Girl disappeared on me, what should I do" lol. Mark my words. What his sign anyway cancerpersonality? He sounds like a scorp or maybe a pisces they are the only ones I know that hold on for dear life like this.

Posted by pinklibra
@Taylor now watch when she does that, then he'll come running to this board asking "Cancer Girl disappeared on me, what should I do" lol. Mark my words. What his sign anyway cancerpersonality? He sounds like a scorp or maybe a pisces they are the only ones I know that hold on for dear life like this.

Ha! You are probably right. If he is a scorpio, I think he will eventually go away but check in every 6 months or so.

See there, that's not going away. -_- lol. My leo friend's baby father is a scorpio and she often describes him as border line stalkerish. If she doesn't answer his calls, or ignores him, after a while he'll pop up at her job or house. O_0

Posted by pinklibra
See there, that's not going away. -_- lol. My leo friend's baby father is a scorpio and she often describes him as border line stalkerish. If she doesn't answer his calls, or ignores him, after a while he'll pop up at her job or house. O_0

But that may be as much as he's going to go away. I guarantee you, no contact will create least amount of involvement on his part.

ok drum roll please...... he's a Leo lol

Hmmm I??ve never read about this couple together. However he is King of the Jungle, therefore most likely feels there is nothing he cant have. lol

Have had a relationship with a leo before. Trust me. Cut. Him. Off.

My leo stuck around, then did the 6 month check up (do NOT respond) twice, but went away after that. Every so often I get a creepy feeling he's watching me, but he hasn't bothered me in years. Leo's have a lot of pride, once they are truly rejected, their pride doesn't let them hang on.

lol yea I get that feeling from him. I mean he comes on way too strong & wont take NO for an answer comes off real stalker-ish. I was coo with being his friend but im not sure about that. i haven't heard from him since that night so that's kinda good I guess lol.

On the plus side I have a new crush on a guy lol we talk from time to time he's a Leo also but he's really coo & attractive (:I love the fact that he's 2 years older than me (tired of dating guys my age & younger)only problem we're in 2 different states >_< other than that its all good lol

Humph. I had a thing for a Gemini and he stayed in another state. I was excited about where it could go because that means no one knows him and no one knows me, which means less people in our business. I loved that he stayed in another state. We would talk all day, and all night planning what would do the next time we saw each other. absence makes the heart grow fonder girl. It could be fun he could fly you to his state or yall could meet half way in another state, very spontaneuous. I'd love it.

@pinklibra I hope I helped you with what you needed (:

Sure. Check your inbox 🙂

i checked it & i didn't get anything idk whats going on with my inbox O_o

@pinklibra i want him to come out here or go out there sometime. we talked last night & with the 3 hour time difference we end or conversations early on my side while its late on mine. idk where its going but so far im happy lol

hmm I checked mines too, for some reason it didn't send earlier it should be there now though I can see it from my sent folder. But about you and the long distance dude, i'd say go for it. Share your thoughts about going to his state. Take some friends ask him to round up his, and make it fun. That's what me an the gem were gonna do. I was supposed to get my own room though and he would stay with me, but eventually it never happened. But still I will never forget him. He was so fun, and i'll never forget the peace of mind I had due to him staying in another state. I didn't have to worry about hearing "Oh him, girl he old news, my cousins cousin homegirl slept with him. Or that's my sisters bestfriend baby daddy." -_- smh.