Crabbies o crabbies..

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by aquaglass on Tuesday, March 26, 2013 and has 9 replies.

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@aquaglass
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Hi cancers.

Its funny to found out that i sorrounded by a lot of cancerians here in my life.

The closest people i almost always talked to and interacting with everyday are cancerians, and theres 13 crabbies with me here, they're awesome.

Just don't have any idea of why is it easier to find cancers around me and get along with me, comparing to other signs.
Don't know why.

I'm an aqua, but not really typicaly tho. I have a lot of earth and water in my chart.
Any thoughts, guys? 🙂

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@aquaglass
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Well, i dated two of em tho, theyre great but i didn't know how to handle the relationship with them in the dating level.
And the 11 of them are my besties, my family members and my co workers which i certainly won't ever date them :p

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@MidwestGirl
13 YearsPisces

I have tons of them at work I hang out with, in fact one of my best guy friends is Cancer sign. They can be very emotional and over the top sometimes but I always have a lot to talk about and relate to. Im curious though...there is a Cancer older female I would like to date but dont know how to approach it and want to know what Id be getting into. What is SO different when in a relationship as opposed to friends?

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@MidwestGirl
13 YearsPisces

That worksfor me I love boobs, food and making food and I may be slow to open at first but once I know you are worth it I throw everything into my relationships or friendships. In fact idk if there is a shift or something but this is the most amount of cancers Ive had in my life ever. My favorite people,at work are,the Cancers because they are funny have similar outlook as me and even if they dont want to admit it are very caring. The thing about this lady though is she is a very powerful/influential person within the community so she can be very diplomatic and powerful looking/acting but then at the same time is darn adorable and very funny/nerdy. Its such a funny combination. Does the same thing that works for men(the boobs) work for the lesbians/bisexuals? I have to admit she has a great set...its difficult for me sometimes to keep my eyes up, I sit there thinking dont look down! We just have so much in common, things we want to accomplish and she is very intelligent and great sense of humor....she because of this can be intimidating...not intentionally you just end up thinking God that can be a lot to live up to she must get asked out a lot. Even though she is about 10 to 11 years older than me she still seems the girl you could take home to mom and she wouldlove her. I should specify if I have not already we are both openly bisexual women....

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@truecancer
13 YearsCancer

Easy to please in a relationship. Love us let us know frequently how much you love us and then let us the reigns. We aim to please others more than ourselves. And no w always love our partners more than they love us. In our minds at least

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@MidwestGirl
13 YearsPisces

@blackindian ...I think why I attract a lot of Cancers as well as keep them as friends so much is because I already do these things for them already but funny enough have not dated one yet. I would never let a work relationship jeopardize my job which is why the one the older cancer lady I like is at is not my main source of income...in fact its volunteer in politics soooo.

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@MidwestGirl
13 YearsPisces

So what would you say then as to why a Cancer woman in her late 30s (bisexual) has never been married, no kids but likes kids, and is single as far as anybody knows is still single? Too focused on career, too picky and not found the right one? I mean she has to be asked out all the time.....my friend told me it is probably because she is more on the lesbian spectrum and we live in a not as progressive area.