Why—

Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
Can Someone explain to me why am I attracting the wrong "signs', Libras seem to be attracted to me rather than a scorpio or a pisces ( which are cancers best matches).. The Libras chase after me, and then they play their "hot and cold" act, and then i get confused and say it to them, and they get depressed because of it and ignore me for ages, and I try my best to win them back, but they just wont forgive me. Does this have to do something with my venus or moon,which both are in gemini,and my mars in aries? I just don't know, pls help me to understand..😢
Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
U are right, I read it now , it doesnt make a lot of sense, i just wanted to make a long story short..😛 It just i feel attracted to signs who am not Compatible with, and they are attracted to me aswell, but the problem arise when we get serious, then I can see why we are incompatible. Earth signs are not my favorites, i find them boring.. I just wanted to know is the combination of my signs the reason why I attract the air and fire signs?
Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
Wow, I never thought about rising sign before, I looked it up because u said it,and my rising sign is : gemini.. I really love astrology 🙂 I am more gemini than a cancer.My moon, venus and rising in gemini. They always say that cancers are homebodies and likes to talk about emotions,and have a very negative attitude towards life, I really got confused, cause I HATE to talk about feelings, i will rather joke about it, and hate staying at home ( feels restless).... and not at all negative, more like too optimistic..😛 But does this mean that I must find a air or fire sign? I have lot of friends who are pisces and scorpios, actually they are my bestfriends, but the problem is I could never date them...Scorpios are too negative about everything, and pisces has moodswings..I like optimistic people...Like me and my sister ( a leo) Get along very well, we are the most closest sisters, she likes to makes decisions, and is fine with me.. but my mum ( a taurus) and me fight alot..And I understand my dad ( a libra) more than my mum does..

Sorry about ur scorpio...There is this scorpio guy who likes me, but I find him not compatible with me, we would just fight if we got together,he is too negative..i hate that...He never sees things on the positive side, I have told him a lot of time that he should start to see things from bright side,but he just keep on complaining about his miserable life ( which is not but at all, i mean there are people who has it worse)
Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
Haha, Then I must say something else we have in common, I also had an earth sign bestfriend who backstabbed me, but she was a capricorn though...She went always behind my back and talked shit about, she didnt want me to be friend with anyone else than her, and when guys asked about me she would say that i am stuck up and wont even bother to talk to them, I am not like that at all...I didnt talk with her for a year, than I recently contacted her ( I hate to be enemy with anyone, especially people who I have cared about ) and she was like a sister to me, our whole family considered her like that.. But its her loss, I think its the same with ur friend, its her loss that she bactabbed you..I think the earth signs have a tendency to be backstabbers, I never had many taurus in my life, but I have had capricorns and virgos, and virgos especially irritates the crap out of me...

I am also like u, I like to talk boys better than girls, cause I can be a little shy in the beginning, and is easier for me to open up for guys than girls,easier to flirt with them,guys accept me for who I am , its harder with girls, u can not flirt..and girls dont seem to like me either..dont know why..

Yeah, that scorpio with venus in libra and aries sound compatible with me, the one scorpio that I talked about has venus in scorpio and moon taurus ( yuk!!) But Maybe I should find a leo, my sister tells me this all the time..😛 The one leo I had feelings for long time ago had moon and venus both in cancer. But I have a thing for libras,I know I should stay away from them, but it is so hard, they seem so real...and oh so charming! 🙂
Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
Haha, I really like water elements like friends, I mean i think we have the most craziest humor 😛....Me and my friends talk about the most inappropriate things infront of people just to freak them out.. I have a cancer friend who says random things which are not true at all, but people believe her, except me though, They will be like: seriously—? And I just stand there and shake my head and smile...And she just start to laugh ...When I think of it, she does also have a moon in gemini, I read in one of the posts that people with moon in gemini has a madness ( i dont know what kind of, but true though! )

And you deleted facebook—? Is it to stay away from the scorpio? Did it work..? I just have deleted mine for 2 days ago, it kind of feels good though, he can move on and I can move on, I dont i will, but if he does than it is easier for me to do the same thing..
Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
Haha, mass text...that is funny 🙂

Well, I am back on facebook 😛 I don't wanna loose contacts with my friends because of him...I sent him a message yesterday, just a video that i thought was funny. But he hasnt replied...And I saw him comment on my friends profile picture today, I think They have a thing going on, and she is like my "best friend "( a virgo, thats why i hate earth signs, such a backstabbers..) I wouldnt get mad if he said that he was interested in her, but seriously TELLL me, dont keep me hanging on...But seriously I am done, this is enough...he doesnt deserve anything..I have been too nice to him...

Good that you feel much better,you will get over him, hun...just see! ANd flirt with some mutual friends or something to piss him off, i would do that 😛
Profile picture of ninjamu
ninjamu
@ninjamu
16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2999 · Topics: 75
hey, ur not the only one! i'm a leo typically attracted to earth and water (libras too though and not because of charm). pretty much NEVER attracted to other fire except as friends. for some reason i don't get to meet a lot of air. it seems they don't like the music industry as much perhaps?

so earth signs (taurus especially) tops my list but i realized that they must have a strong fire or air influence for anything to pan out. i dated a double taurus and, yeah, boring as hell. he was pretty smart but would never talk to me when alone. still dating this taurus, with cap rising, for almost a year now but his aqua moon makes a world of difference!

i've heard the moon, because it's feminine, affects females more significantly but i find it to affect both sexes equally. many a man have come in my life i pegged as being their moon sign. my good leo friend acts like his cancer moon. passive & introverted. 2 of my taurus friends act like their dramatic leo moons. all males. go figure!
Profile picture of CancVenusGem
CancVenusGem
@CancVenusGem
15 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 59 · Topics: 3
Tasha: I was once in love with a leo with venus in cancer haha... WE were too young, so none of us made anything out of it.. But I do think of him sometimes though, He made feel something I never felt before. There was so much chemistry between us.. We went to school together, after the school we lost touch. He is a musician now, plays in the band and stuff, and has a girlfriend (an aqua )... So maybe venus in cancer might be my guy 😄

I dont know any aquas actually, just bunch of libras...I would suggest you to try, why not? no harm done...But be CAREFUL with the libras, they might say things they dont mean... The libra even fooled me, I never believed in stuff he said, until he said that he loves me...( as a joke ?) I was never sure about him, he was so hot and cold ( still is), and when I told him stop playing games with me..He said sorry for leading me on, and he was joking all the time..I was like ok... fine with me... So be careful with them...

ninjamu: You seem like my sister who is also a leo ( venus in libra and moon in taurus) , used to attract earth and water signs, but they were not good for her..She used to date a taurus ( i dont know his placements) for 5 years, it was a hell...But now she has found a libra, and she has never been happier..🙂 I seem to attract men with venus in water signs mostly, the libra guy that I like he has his venus in scorpio ( intense ) and moon in capricorn..