Wondering...

When the L word will happen with us? Its been 6 months and he is an awesome guy, all ways together, and I do mean ALL WAYS. We do everything together, sleep in the same bed every night, he bought me an antique ring, buys the food I like for me, holds doors open for me, the works! So his actions say he loves me BUT when will he put in into words? I have met his family, friends, co-workers, boss everyone. We are BOTH Cancers. He is 6/22/72 and I am 6/28/73.

Posted by djbuck1
Cancer male? I'd say he's about due.

Yep we are both Cancers...everyone tells me he is about due to say it but alas it has not been said...sigh

He's showing you he loves you right? Are 3 words going to change that? Just be patient it will come if it's supposed to. If not--enjoy the ride...

Posted by GemStar05
He's showing you he loves you right? Are 3 words going to change that? Just be patient it will come if it's supposed to. If not--enjoy the ride...

Yes I do understand that it will come with patience and if it is supposed to. No, 3 words are not going to change the way I feel for him or vice versa, but they are nice to say and nice to hear. Those 3 words HELP give you that warm comfort and feeling of security with someone. Like I said he is a great man.

Just sleeping on the same bed won't do it...you got to sex him.

Let him say it; he will. As I said before; just enjoy what's going on now.

Posted by GemStar05
Let him say it; he will. As I said before; just enjoy what's going on now.

Thank you I am enjoying it 🙂

My current guy took just over a year to say it.

When the time is right. It's taken me as long as a year to say it in my most serious relationship, otherwise I just don't say it if I don't feel it. Rather it be genuine than forced.

I agree with bethan2713. One thing I know for sure is that Cancer men fear rejection more than any other sign I've dated. I mean they literally get sick to their stomach if they put something out there and it's not returned. It can ruin their entire mood, day and week. So maybe he's scared, and waiting for you to say it. My Cancer told me he loved me after a month of dating. I returned the I Love You too. And he couldn't have been happier. Since then it has been a continual exchange of I Love You's to reassure each other

If there is empathy involved on both partners.. The sooner it will be for me as a crab to say it...But i guess hes waiting for you to say it first....

@op first off Congrats on being apart of the glorious JUNE 28 society commonly referred to as the "28 club" Such members include Pam from Martin, John Elway, Henry VIII, Frank Zane, Bobby Hurley and of course Thecontender. As the late great Bernie Mac once said," WELCOME! MUTHFUCKA! WELCOME!"

Speaking as a recovering "I love you whore" judge him by his actions. His actions are saying more than three words could ever say. From all indications he is doing things for you that plenty of people who throw those three words around carelessly don't. It doesn't take a whole day to recognize sunshine. You have a good thing going. I hope it works for ya.

Posted by thecontender
@op first off Congrats on being apart of the glorious JUNE 28 society commonly referred to as the "28 club" Such members include Pam from Martin, John Elway, Henry VIII, Frank Zane, Bobby Hurley and of course Thecontender. As the late great Bernie Mac once said," WELCOME! MUTHFUCKA! WELCOME!"

Speaking as a recovering "I love you whore" judge him by his actions. His actions are saying more than three words could ever say. From all indications he is doing things for you that plenty of people who throw those three words around carelessly don't. It doesn't take a whole day to recognize sunshine. You have a good thing going. I hope it works for ya.

Well thank you but I think I have figured out why he has never said it. I got an email on facebook from a girl 20 yrs younger than him stating has been "seeing him" and wanted to know who I was and if we lived together. I did not respond but instead confronted him and showed him the email. Now he said that she was someone he had a date with before we started our relationship and she was weird and crazy, he met her on a dating site online. He said she had been texting him and he told her we lived together. She does not live close to us, about 2 hours away or so. He is all ways with me and I do mean ALL WAYS...we have gotten into a couple of fights over this and I have told him I don't know if I trust him at this point I do feel hurt. He said he is telling me the truth and got really upset at me at said "we are all ways together, how could I see someone else"? He has a point, especally with her living so far away. He said he just wants things to go back to normal with him and I and he wants the uncomfortable feeling to go away. I told him it still bothers me and i'm upset about it still and he put his head down got a seriously heartbroken look on his face and asked me "so what are you going to do then"? I said I am not sure, I want to fix this but I don't know if I can trust this now. Now since this happend he is planning weekend things for us to do together and talking about everything with me more than he usually does. If he is going to be late getting home he calls me everytime now and I know he was so stressed out after this happened he literally tossed and turned for 2 entire nights and got NO sleep what so ever, I know this because he kept me awake with his tossing turning and such all night. What is you