Abrupt change in pisces man behavior

I posted this initially on pisces board, but they seem too busy with other topics so, after 12 hours and not even 1 reply, I decided to hide it there and come here, where, hopefully, people are more willing to give me some insight and ease my agony.( talking my dramatic leo moon here.lol.)

Before I start, I know there's nothing I can do but to go on with my life, still I feel the need to vent and also to listen to some opinions.

After I've posted my last topic here I've took some days to really think if I have romantic feelings for him, if I want him to be all mine, and even with all my confused contradicting feelings, I had to be honest with myself; I want him as a friend, I see him as a friend.That's done.

I don't know what he wants, he seemed as confused as me, but we met constantly in the last 2 weeks, we laughed, we talked, he did something really cute for my birthday, we did flirt a bit, we also kissed a bit.. but all cool, lightly, innocently. And all of a sudden he stopped chatting with me, last time when he has initiated some small contact by asking me how I am was Thursday.I had to borrow something form him Sunday, he came, gave me the object, then gone; 2 minutes interaction.And he was in a very weird state of mind, like clearly something wasn't ok, then I told him he can talk with me if he has problems, but he said is nothing, everything is ok.

Yesterday I was in the neighborhood where he works (and where I used to work). I thought it would be nice to see my ex colleagues, so I sent him a message asking if he's at work, then I called him, no answer. So I decided not to go visiting.He called me 20 minutes later and I don't remember if I was the one who talked first or him, I think it was me telling him that I were in the neighborhood thinking about a visit, and next he said : "are you following me?"..I guess it was a joke, I hope so, but the truth being said it didn't sound like a joke at all.

First I was worried, but now..I don't know, I am still a bit worried and I have a weird feeling he wants to get rid of me..

He clearly ignores me, but he does it in some kind of passive-aggressive way. I just feel the push in the air.

Another very weird thing is that he's not logging into whatsapp no more, maybe once a day maximum. He's very attached to whatsapp, anyway, he was.

Now, I am feeling hurt, betrayed, disappointed, but like really bad. Because he's my friend and I care about him, and I want to talk with him, just from time to time, he's really good at bringing peace to my mind when shit's going crazy.

I have a theory/suspicion that he may be seeing someone now, a girl, and that's why he's pushing me away, maybe he still thinks I have feelings for him, because I hadn't got the chance to tell him that I want just friendship.

And if that's it, he's dating someone then I am genuinely happy for him, it just doesn't seem right to throw me out of his life.

Guys, I know I may overreact here, but that's how I am in friendships, I am more passionate in friendships than in relationships. Friendship is sacred, I will be there for you and sharing and celebrating your happy (or not so happy) moments and vice versa.

Why he suddenly got so cold and distant?

Let me clear something out, he (after our relationship ended) was always somehow distant, but wherever I've reached he would always be there, chatting and joking. The emphasis is on HE WAS THERE. Now he's no longer there. I see it, I feel it, he's not him anymore.

I don't even know how to feel right now, I feel like a fool, like I'm in some bad comedy show, which is both funny and sad in the same time.

To be honest I'm shocked, I'm looking back at past moments so I can find some clues, but nothing, everything seemed fine and all of a sudden he's like that, like he's determined to get rid of me, a silent but clear "get the fuck out of my life".

My intuition says it must be a new (or not so new) girl in his life and he simply doesn't want obstacles in his way.

The thing is, I don't want him as a man, I am not attracted to him, I just want things to be good between us; a light friendship.

Have you experienced something similar? (not necessarily with a pisces)

Thank you if you had the patience to read this huge post 🤗

Damn...this is long!! 😯😅

Posted by justlikeheaven

I posted this initially on pisces board, but they seem too busy with other topics so, after 12 hours and not even 1 reply, I decided to hide it there and come here, where, hopefully, people are more willing to give me some insight and ease my agony.( talking my dramatic leo moon here.lol.)

Before I start, I know there's nothing I can do but to go on with my life, still I feel the need to vent and also to listen to some opinions.

After I've posted my last topic here I've took some days to really think if I have romantic feelings for him, if I want him to be all mine, and even with all my confused contradicting feelings, I had to be honest with myself; I want him as a friend, I see him as a friend.That's done.

I don't know what he wants, he seemed as confused as me, but we met constantly in the last 2 weeks, we laughed, we talked, he did something really cute for my birthday, we did flirt a bit, we also kissed a bit.. but all cool, lightly, innocently. And all of a sudden he stopped chatting with me, last time when he has initiated some small contact by asking me how I am was Thursday.I had to borrow something form him Sunday, he came, gave me the object, then gone; 2 minutes interaction.And he was in a very weird state of mind, like clearly something wasn't ok, then I told him he can talk with me if he has problems, but he said is nothing, everything is ok.

Yesterday I was in the neighborhood where he works (and where I used to work). I thought it would be nice to see my ex colleagues, so I sent him a message asking if he's at work, then I called him, no answer. So I decided not to go visiting.He called me 20 minutes later and I don't remember if I was the one who talked first or him, I think it was me telling him that I were in the neighborhood thinking about a visit, and next he said : "are you following me?"..I guess it was a joke, I hope so, but the truth being said it didn't sound like a joke at all.

First I was worried, but now..I don't know, I am still a bit worried and I have a weird feeling he wants to get rid of me..

He clearly ignores me, but he does it in some kind of passive-aggressive way. I just feel the push in the air.

Another very weird thing is that he's not logging into whatsapp no more, maybe once a day maximum. He's very attached to whatsapp, anyway, he was.

Now, I am feeling hurt, betrayed, disappointed, but like really bad. Because he's my friend and I care about him, and I want to talk with him, just from time to time, he's really good at bringing peace to my mind when shit's going crazy.

I have a theory/suspicion that he may be seeing someone now, a girl, and that's why he's pushing me away, maybe he still thinks I have feelings for him, because I hadn't got the chance to tell him that I want just friendship.

And if that's it, he's dating someone then I am genuinely happy for him, it just doesn't seem right to throw me out of his life.

Guys, I know I may overreact here, but that's how I am in friendships, I am more passionate in friendships than in relationships. Friendship is sacred, I will be there for you and sharing and celebrating your happy (or not so happy) moments and vice versa.

Why he suddenly got so cold and distant?

Let me clear something out, he (after our relationship ended) was always somehow distant, but wherever I've reached he would always be there, chatting and joking. The emphasis is on HE WAS THERE. Now he's no longer there. I see it, I feel it, he's not him anymore.

I don't even know how to feel right now, I feel like a fool, like I'm in some bad comedy show, which is both funny and sad in the same time.

To be honest I'm shocked, I'm looking back at past moments so I can find some clues, but nothing, everything seemed fine and all of a sudden he's like that, like he's determined to get rid of me, a silent but clear "get the fuck out of my life".

My intuition says it must be a new (or not so new) girl in his life and he simply doesn't want obstacles in his way.

The thing is, I don't want him as a man, I am not attracted to him, I just want things to be good between us; a light friendship.

Have you experienced something similar? (not necessarily with a pisces)

Thank you if you had the patience to read this huge post 🤗

Uh, we Pisceans do NOT tell you our play by play...in other words if you know there is something wrong and you ask him this question, a Piscean (esp a male) will NOT tell you what is wrong. We tend to find the solution ourselves or "wait". You need to read up on Piscean zodiac sign.

If he's not on the app; then so be it. We tend to be consistent in our daily routine. I myself play spades on line and sometimes I forget to log in and play (too busy, sick, or fell asleep); so be it. I think if he's not on the App that means he has someone he's seeing; and she's taking his time. We grow cold and distant when when we think you're a pest (or stalking us). You're feeling his fin slapping you as we speak.

Again, go and read upon the zodiac sign for Pisces; for there are two fish swimming on opposite directions; enough said.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by HeartofTopazz

How long were you together?

...2 (intense and messy) months, but then, for the next 3 months, we were friends.

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by justlikeheaven

I posted this initially on pisces board, but they seem too busy with other topics so, after 12 hours and not even 1 reply, I decided to hide it there and come here, where, hopefully, people are more willing to give me some insight and ease my agony.( talking my dramatic leo moon here.lol.)

Before I start, I know there's nothing I can do but to go on with my life, still I feel the need to vent and also to listen to some opinions.

After I've posted my last topic here I've took some days to really think if I have romantic feelings for him, if I want him to be all mine, and even with all my confused contradicting feelings, I had to be honest with myself; I want him as a friend, I see him as a friend.That's done.

I don't know what he wants, he seemed as confused as me, but we met constantly in the last 2 weeks, we laughed, we talked, he did something really cute for my birthday, we did flirt a bit, we also kissed a bit.. but all cool, lightly, innocently. And all of a sudden he stopped chatting with me, last time when he has initiated some small contact by asking me how I am was Thursday.I had to borrow something form him Sunday, he came, gave me the object, then gone; 2 minutes interaction.And he was in a very weird state of mind, like clearly something wasn't ok, then I told him he can talk with me if he has problems, but he said is nothing, everything is ok.

Yesterday I was in the neighborhood where he works (and where I used to work). I thought it would be nice to see my ex colleagues, so I sent him a message asking if he's at work, then I called him, no answer. So I decided not to go visiting.He called me 20 minutes later and I don't remember if I was the one who talked first or him, I think it was me telling him that I were in the neighborhood thinking about a visit, and next he said : "are you following me?"..I guess it was a joke, I hope so, but the truth being said it didn't sound like a joke at all.

First I was worried, but now..I don't know, I am still a bit worried and I have a weird feeling he wants to get rid of me..

He clearly ignores me, but he does it in some kind of passive-aggressive way. I just feel the push in the air.

Another very weird thing is that he's not logging into whatsapp no more, maybe once a day maximum. He's very attached to whatsapp, anyway, he was.

Now, I am feeling hurt, betrayed, disappointed, but like really bad. Because he's my friend and I care about him, and I want to talk with him, just from time to time, he's really good at bringing peace to my mind when shit's going crazy.

I have a theory/suspicion that he may be seeing someone now, a girl, and that's why he's pushing me away, maybe he still thinks I have feelings for him, because I hadn't got the chance to tell him that I want just friendship.

And if that's it, he's dating someone then I am genuinely happy for him, it just doesn't seem right to throw me out of his life.

Guys, I know I may overreact here, but that's how I am in friendships, I am more passionate in friendships than in relationships. Friendship is sacred, I will be there for you and sharing and celebrating your happy (or not so happy) moments and vice versa.

Why he suddenly got so cold and distant?

Let me clear something out, he (after our relationship ended) was always somehow distant, but wherever I've reached he would always be there, chatting and joking. The emphasis is on HE WAS THERE. Now he's no longer there. I see it, I feel it, he's not him anymore.

I don't even know how to feel right now, I feel like a fool, like I'm in some bad comedy show, which is both funny and sad in the same time.

To be honest I'm shocked, I'm looking back at past moments so I can find some clues, but nothing, everything seemed fine and all of a sudden he's like that, like he's determined to get rid of me, a silent but clear "get the fuck out of my life".

My intuition says it must be a new (or not so new) girl in his life and he simply doesn't want obstacles in his way.

The thing is, I don't want him as a man, I am not attracted to him, I just want things to be good between us; a light friendship.

Have you experienced something similar? (not necessarily with a pisces)

Thank you if you had the patience to read this huge post 🤗

Uh, we Pisceans do NOT tell you our play by play...in other words if you know there is something wrong and you ask him this question, a Piscean (esp a male) will NOT tell you what is wrong. We tend to find the solution ourselves or "wait". You need to read up on Piscean zodiac sign.

If he's not on the app; then so be it. We tend to be consistent in our daily routine. I myself play spades on line and sometimes I forget to log in and play (too busy, sick, or fell asleep); so be it. I think if he's not on the App that means he has someone he's seeing; and she's taking his time. We grow cold and distant when when we think you're a pest (or stalking us). You're feeling his fin slapping you as we speak.

Again, go and read upon the zodiac sign for Pisces; for there are two fish swimming on opposite directions; enough said.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Thank you for your reply 😊

The funny thing is I wasn't stalking him at all, yes I do open whatsapp 2 times a day, and yes, in the past couple of days I do look at his status, but I haven't done this in the past.

That's why everything is so mind-blowing for me, I haven't see this coming, I was detached and fine, doing my things, and when I tried to friendly reach to him he wasn't there.

I figured something is wrong, he was absolutely always was there..I guess this is the end and I should accept that I cannot force someone to be my friend.

Posted by justlikeheaven

Posted by EvatheDiva52

Posted by justlikeheaven

I posted this initially on pisces board, but they seem too busy with other topics so, after 12 hours and not even 1 reply, I decided to hide it there and come here, where, hopefully, people are more willing to give me some insight and ease my agony.( talking my dramatic leo moon here.lol.)

Before I start, I know there's nothing I can do but to go on with my life, still I feel the need to vent and also to listen to some opinions.

After I've posted my last topic here I've took some days to really think if I have romantic feelings for him, if I want him to be all mine, and even with all my confused contradicting feelings, I had to be honest with myself; I want him as a friend, I see him as a friend.That's done.

I don't know what he wants, he seemed as confused as me, but we met constantly in the last 2 weeks, we laughed, we talked, he did something really cute for my birthday, we did flirt a bit, we also kissed a bit.. but all cool, lightly, innocently. And all of a sudden he stopped chatting with me, last time when he has initiated some small contact by asking me how I am was Thursday.I had to borrow something form him Sunday, he came, gave me the object, then gone; 2 minutes interaction.And he was in a very weird state of mind, like clearly something wasn't ok, then I told him he can talk with me if he has problems, but he said is nothing, everything is ok.

Yesterday I was in the neighborhood where he works (and where I used to work). I thought it would be nice to see my ex colleagues, so I sent him a message asking if he's at work, then I called him, no answer. So I decided not to go visiting.He called me 20 minutes later and I don't remember if I was the one who talked first or him, I think it was me telling him that I were in the neighborhood thinking about a visit, and next he said : "are you following me?"..I guess it was a joke, I hope so, but the truth being said it didn't sound like a joke at all.

First I was worried, but now..I don't know, I am still a bit worried and I have a weird feeling he wants to get rid of me..

He clearly ignores me, but he does it in some kind of passive-aggressive way. I just feel the push in the air.

Another very weird thing is that he's not logging into whatsapp no more, maybe once a day maximum. He's very attached to whatsapp, anyway, he was.

Now, I am feeling hurt, betrayed, disappointed, but like really bad. Because he's my friend and I care about him, and I want to talk with him, just from time to time, he's really good at bringing peace to my mind when shit's going crazy.

I have a theory/suspicion that he may be seeing someone now, a girl, and that's why he's pushing me away, maybe he still thinks I have feelings for him, because I hadn't got the chance to tell him that I want just friendship.

And if that's it, he's dating someone then I am genuinely happy for him, it just doesn't seem right to throw me out of his life.

Guys, I know I may overreact here, but that's how I am in friendships, I am more passionate in friendships than in relationships. Friendship is sacred, I will be there for you and sharing and celebrating your happy (or not so happy) moments and vice versa.

Why he suddenly got so cold and distant?

Let me clear something out, he (after our relationship ended) was always somehow distant, but wherever I've reached he would always be there, chatting and joking. The emphasis is on HE WAS THERE. Now he's no longer there. I see it, I feel it, he's not him anymore.

I don't even know how to feel right now, I feel like a fool, like I'm in some bad comedy show, which is both funny and sad in the same time.

To be honest I'm shocked, I'm looking back at past moments so I can find some clues, but nothing, everything seemed fine and all of a sudden he's like that, like he's determined to get rid of me, a silent but clear "get the fuck out of my life".

My intuition says it must be a new (or not so new) girl in his life and he simply doesn't want obstacles in his way.

The thing is, I don't want him as a man, I am not attracted to him, I just want things to be good between us; a light friendship.

Have you experienced something similar? (not necessarily with a pisces)

Thank you if you had the patience to read this huge post 🤗

Uh, we Pisceans do NOT tell you our play by play...in other words if you know there is something wrong and you ask him this question, a Piscean (esp a male) will NOT tell you what is wrong. We tend to find the solution ourselves or "wait". You need to read up on Piscean zodiac sign.

If he's not on the app; then so be it. We tend to be consistent in our daily routine. I myself play spades on line and sometimes I forget to log in and play (too busy, sick, or fell asleep); so be it. I think if he's not on the App that means he has someone he's seeing; and she's taking his time. We grow cold and distant when when we think you're a pest (or stalking us). You're feeling his fin slapping you as we speak.

Again, go and read upon the zodiac sign for Pisces; for there are two fish swimming on opposite directions; enough said.

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Thank you for your reply 😊

The funny thing is I wasn't stalking him at all, yes I do open whatsapp 2 times a day, and yes, in the past couple of days I do look at his status, but I haven't done this in the past.

That's why everything is so mind-blowing for me, I haven't see this coming, I was detached and fine, doing my things, and when I tried to friendly reach to him he wasn't there.

I figured something is wrong, he was absolutely always was there..I guess this is the end and I should accept that I cannot force someone to be my friend.

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We (Pisceans) CHOOSE (very carefully) who are friends are. We only have a "handful" (five can fit in my hand) because we've been hurt in the past (be it lending money and not getting paid back, or any reason; as you can fill in the blanks); thus why we "choose our friends carefully".

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

I am so confused as to why people fight so hard for friendship. Literally try to beat people into friendships.

If someone dont want to be your friend, go be someone elses friend.

I also think you need to stop being passive aggressive yourself. Stop doing drive boys. Its coming across stalkerish.

The man is allowed to see who ever he wants. As someone who only wants friendship, why do you even care who he is seeing. That's his business. All these scenarios you're creating. For what?

Hes grown cold n distant because the relationship is over.

It's done. A wrap. Finito.

Start being real with yourself.

You can beat people into Submission. Just like you can force people to answer your post and berate them for not responding. They dont owe you anything

Posted by ValleysofNeptune

Honestly, from this thread and that other thread you made a couple weeks ago, I kind of get the sense that you don’t really like him or care about him as much as you claim to, and you just want him around at your convenience so you can dump your problems on him when nobody else wants to listen to them.

“Now, I am feeling hurt, betrayed, disappointed, but like really bad. Because he's my friend and I care about him, and I want to talk with him, just from time to time, he's really good at bringing peace to my mind when shit's going crazy“

According to that last thread you didn’t even like him from the beginning, but he put in a lot of work and sacrifice, and then you broke up with him and tried to make him jealous because of an argument. Then you didn’t even seem that willing to try and apologize and show you really care about him, and hoped he would just magically have the same feelings toward you. I could be wrong, I obviously don’t know the full situation, but he’s probably tired of putting energy into things for no reason and doesn’t need to be reminded that he’s a third place consolation prize to you that you’ve blessed with the opportunity of being your therapist shoulder to cry on at your convenience. It probably hurts him since it seems he really liked you in a way that was more than that and it was never really fully reciprocated

Feelings change, people change, people don’t always want you want unfortunately

...I don't know how to show my care.

But yeah, I may be guilty of wanting him because the way he makes me feel, how he listen and understand what I am going through.

Right now I am going through a very bad period in my life, I wouldn't say the worst but close.

I think karma or Saturn try to teach me a lesson.

I need and need and need, but I don't offer nothing in return, not only with him, but in general.

I claim I am your friend, but I don't think I act accordingly.

I expect, I want, I need, I have to, they have to - translation: I am a weak person.

You have open my eyes. Honestly. Thank you ! 🙂

Stop communicating on whatsapp

Get the digits