@Gemalit
8 Years
Pisces men often show interest through gentle conversations, emotional connection, and subtle flirtation like kisses or winky faces. Their romantic signals can be soft and sometimes hard to decode. Rejection may make them more reserved, but they tend to remain sensitive and caring. Understanding Pisces behavior helps clarify their intentions and feelings.
aha i have a gemini man on me atm, and i think mutables are good at picking up vibes. to be brief, i don’t wanna be with him but i am attracted. i hang around him a lot and purposely annoy him. geminis are fun so i would say as a pisces, feeling comfortable around you is a great sign. and comfort allows me to flirt but also not flirt and tell you assertively i’m not attracted to you.
me personally i don’t write extra shit in messages (like kisses) unless i explicitly wanna communicate that but i am aqua mercury. to me it seems he’s into u. invite him out somewhere fun and get drunk
So....how do you know a Pisces is interested? And what if you rejected them once? Would that make them less forward? I may like this Pisces guy but I friend zoned him a while back because well there was reasons. And none of them were to do with him 😖. So fast forward and we’ve now sort of been pushed together and well he’s been messaging me outside of that? But it’s normal conversation, a few kisses at the end and some winky faces but ...I fear I have, “they’re nice to me so they like me” syndrome 😖. I suck at reading men. 😫
But even if this is nothing I am curious about Pisces as two of my best friends are Pisces to, yet they keep their romantic side secret and never really talk about it 😱.
U rejected him once now u want him😂😂😂
Shallow girl,people aren't toys for u to play with them
click to expand
Times change though and so do people. But I am shallow in some things and I won’t deny it, however I’m still learning. But, one thing I’ll say is I never play with people that are genuine. Hens why I rejected at the time, there were things that were complicated and it just wouldn’t have worked. Now is the future and things have changed.
The one I dated was definitely a straight shooter and was very upfront about his interest and persistent in pursuing me for awhile. I think that any men that are interested in you will be, in most cases. You having said that you friendzoned him before makes things more complicated however.
For me, pisces men can definitely mentally stimulate me more than the other 2 water signs, and I really have enjoyed dating them in the past. I dated one I guess I would say "seriously" once upon a time, but tbh I think we both would have been too flakey. Just based on my experience. What I mean by that is that we eventually both "got busy" and fell off the face of the earth for like 6 months. I also questioned his loyalty. He and I stopped dating, I moved away, and then he got into a relationship with a taurus. I moved back and we met up once as what was supposed to be platonically, and he was trying to kiss me lol uhhhh. He was one of the smartest men I knew. Hilarious, successful, kind of an asshole. You know... all things I like in a man 😆😆😆
Hmmm, I could defo see the flakiness happening 😅. As for the loyalty thing... people do strange things, especially if it’s an ex that they’re not fully over. Doesn’t excuse it but helps you understand them a little better maybe? Or he could just be a cheater 🤷♂️.
And aha the asshole bit, It’s the most annoying yet desirable quality a man has that attracts us 😂.
Thank you for replying btw and a sharing your experience ☺️.
aha i have a gemini man on me atm, and i think mutables are good at picking up vibes. to be brief, i don’t wanna be with him but i am attracted. i hang around him a lot and purposely annoy him. geminis are fun so i would say as a pisces, feeling comfortable around you is a great sign. and comfort allows me to flirt but also not flirt and tell you assertively i’m not attracted to you.
me personally i don’t write extra shit in messages (like kisses) unless i explicitly wanna communicate that but i am aqua mercury. to me it seems he’s into u. invite him out somewhere fun and get drunk
See I’m the same with the extra stuff in messages but I’ve learned not everyone is like that, however when we went through a slight...dry? Period he cut out the kisses, and now they’re back. So I feel like he’s the same but I’m just cautious. It’d be nice if he liked me back though ☺️. As for the flirting thing... I do think Pisces and Gemini has that natural flirty ness that comes out, especially when we’re around each other.
So....how do you know a Pisces is interested? And what if you rejected them once? Would that make them less forward? I may like this Pisces guy but I friend zoned him a while back because well there was reasons. And none of them were to do with him 😖. So fast forward and we’ve now sort of been pushed together and well he’s been messaging me outside of that? But it’s normal conversation, a few kisses at the end and some winky faces but ...I fear I have, “they’re nice to me so they like me” syndrome 😖. I suck at reading men. 😫
But even if this is nothing I am curious about Pisces as two of my best friends are Pisces to, yet they keep their romantic side secret and never really talk about it 😱.
U rejected him once now u want him😂😂😂
Shallow girl,people aren't toys for u to play with them
Times change though and so do people. But I am shallow in some things and I won’t deny it, however I’m still learning. But, one thing I’ll say is I never play with people that are genuine. Hens why I rejected at the time, there were things that were complicated and it just wouldn’t have worked. Now is the future and things have changed.
Idk you,i was too harsh
U are Free to do in your life anything u want
click to expand
Thank you 🙂
If you friendzoned him that means you need to make a move. He was interested and you shut it down so you gotta stick your neck out now.
If you friendzoned him that means you need to make a move. He was interested and you shut it down so you gotta stick your neck out now.
I think that’s why I’m being so cautious now... I’d like to say I’m making it obvious but then I’m a huge coward where stuff like this is concerned... I’m still trying to sus out what’s going on. Just kinda dipping my toes in, then a foot and we’ll go from there haha.
So....how do you know a Pisces is interested? And what if you rejected them once? Would that make them less forward? I may like this Pisces guy but I friend zoned him a while back because well there was reasons. And none of them were to do with him 😖. So fast forward and we’ve now sort of been pushed together and well he’s been messaging me outside of that? But it’s normal conversation, a few kisses at the end and some winky faces but ...I fear I have, “they’re nice to me so they like me” syndrome 😖. I suck at reading men. 😫
But even if this is nothing I am curious about Pisces as two of my best friends are Pisces to, yet they keep their romantic side secret and never really talk about it 😱.
I wouldn't worry about people's intentions. It's up to them to make themselves clear.
And, be yourself. If you're confused, so what. Have fun with the suspense of it all at least.
Don't blame him for being gunshy after a failed 1st attempt.
But, what I'm really reading is that you're still not sure. So, you better hope and like the fact that he's not being direct. Buys you some time to figure out whether you wanna be in this or not.
So....how do you know a Pisces is interested? And what if you rejected them once? Would that make them less forward? I may like this Pisces guy but I friend zoned him a while back because well there was reasons. And none of them were to do with him 😖. So fast forward and we’ve now sort of been pushed together and well he’s been messaging me outside of that? But it’s normal conversation, a few kisses at the end and some winky faces but ...I fear I have, “they’re nice to me so they like me” syndrome 😖. I suck at reading men. 😫
But even if this is nothing I am curious about Pisces as two of my best friends are Pisces to, yet they keep their romantic side secret and never really talk about it 😱.
I wouldn't worry about people's intentions. It's up to them to make themselves clear.
And, be yourself. If you're confused, so what. Have fun with the suspense of it all at least.
Don't blame him for being gunshy after a failed 1st attempt.
But, what I'm really reading is that you're still not sure. So, you better hope and like the fact that he's not being direct. Buys you some time to figure out whether you wanna be in this or not.
click to expand
That’s so true, I think at this point I just want to know whether it’s mutual and continue flirting from there, I don’t necessarily wanto jump in all guns blazing ,There’s still a few things that could complicate it to so it’d have to be talked about. I like the friends buildup (with flirting). Any other way doesn’t quite work for me and usually puts me of.
(Example: a few months back when a gem male full force went for it when we went clubbing, scared the bajeebas out of me) (even though I liked him, turned out he only liked me when drunk “properly “ 😂).
I’d say I can be impatient but I am also a patient creature. As long as I’m given attention I can continue like that for weeks-months. My impatience comes when a certain line gets fuzzy and then I want know why . But for now it’s talking back and forth, let’s see what happens (usually nothing so I think I do something wrong at this stage). But we’ll see. 😅
What’s everyone’s thoughts on Pisces men? I’ve very recently been speaking to one and he seems really interesting, however my best friends a Pisces and I know how easily they succumb to depression and stuff. And I just don’t wanna judge, but what’s all your thoughts on them? Are they a good match for Gemini’s? (I have cap in my 7th house).
What’s everyone’s thoughts on Pisces men? I’ve very recently been speaking to one and he seems really interesting, however my best friends a Pisces and I know how easily they succumb to depression and stuff. And I just don’t wanna judge, but what’s all your thoughts on them? Are they a good match for Gemini’s? (I have cap in my 7th house).
First ask the Cap to get out of your house before going after the Pisces lol.
If I had to date a water sign, it would be pisces. The one I dated briefly wasn't very depressed, but he did succumb to drugs and alcohol. When I realized that, it was a no for me.
That’s my only issue, all the Pisces I know have some negative coping mechanisms and This guy seems like he has a lot of issues, he’s lovely though from what I can tell.
I’ve been married to a Pisces for 4 years.
I’d say the hardest part for me is being sympathetic to his emotions. But I usually just give him space. We do bicker sometimes but for the most part we get along really well. And we makeup super easily.
I think that it’s probably the easiest match of all of the water signs because they aren’t overtly possessive like Cancers or Scorpios and they don’t place a ton of expectations on you like those signs as well. So that makes me feel free and accepted and I don’t have to worry about playing a role to be loved.
I think that the one downside (not of my husband but of other Pisces I’ve dated) is to make sure you are their “dream girl” or “fantasy”. That’s a really big thing for them. They want you to be the one they’ve thought about for years. If you aren’t authentically their fantasy then they don’t have the same buy in. Having been the girl and not been that girl I can absolutely see the difference.
Also, if you get one with a lot of Aqua they will be a lot more easy to handle.
If they are heavy fire or water it could be more difficult depending on your chart.
Both signs are friendly but need space and like to go things together and so it’s really just making sure there is chemistry and an emotional connection. I think even when there are ruts or dull moments neither stays particularly bored with each other. Also don’t really stay mad at each other unless someone does something really bad.
Yeah I understand that, A Pisces I know at work is a serial cheater with his girlfriend, he even admitted he’s just with her to feel loved. Which is all kinds of wrong. My best friend also has a lot of expectations and if they’re not met he’s leaves instantly.
Ugh .i am constantly with gems..but i have so much aqua in my chart i guess it works? Pisces arent all sullen sad saps...yea we feel deeply but so what. My experience is you guys are so fickle its hard to put any expectations on you at all..
I’m kinda buzzed rn in the Lyft home and I for some reason just saw this thread.
But wow, hello. Hi.
Pisces here with a gem. Your opposite.
We were just tripping out the other day that 4 years is around the corner. How did that happen? I don’t even know.
I still get butterflies when I see him.
Maybe it’s cause we don’t live together. Idk though. We lived together for 2 months. Shouldnt the magic be gone by now? I hope it’s always like this...
I blinked and we are here.
I’m kinda buzzed rn in the Lyft home and I for some reason just saw this thread.
But wow, hello. Hi.
Pisces here with a gem. Your opposite.
We were just tripping out the other day that 4 years is around the corner. How did that happen? I don’t even know.
I still get butterflies when I see him.
Maybe it’s cause we don’t live together. Idk though. We lived together for 2 months. Shouldnt the magic be gone by now? I hope it’s always like this...
I blinked and we are here.
Oh wow, it’s sounds truly amazing
I once dated a gem and it was quite interesting. We were quite a super couple untill she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. I never understood her she was quite elusive and charming.
I have a lot of air signs in my chart, I think they are 3rd or 2nd dominant, with 4 (Mars, Jupiter, Rising in Gemini and Chiron in Libra) appearing in the chart.
7 months in. Hmmm I dated one last year too. Can be pretty selfish and lost. Very mutable.
Really really good in bed though. I'd say for the men of this sign that's their strength.
They can make decent partners and can be very patient.
I’ve been married to a Pisces for 4 years.
I’d say the hardest part for me is being sympathetic to his emotions. But I usually just give him space. We do bicker sometimes but for the most part we get along really well. And we makeup super easily.
I think that it’s probably the easiest match of all of the water signs because they aren’t overtly possessive like Cancers or Scorpios and they don’t place a ton of expectations on you like those signs as well. So that makes me feel free and accepted and I don’t have to worry about playing a role to be loved.
I think that the one downside (not of my husband but of other Pisces I’ve dated) is to make sure you are their “dream girl” or “fantasy”. That’s a really big thing for them. They want you to be the one they’ve thought about for years. If you aren’t authentically their fantasy then they don’t have the same buy in. Having been the girl and not been that girl I can absolutely see the difference.
Also, if you get one with a lot of Aqua they will be a lot more easy to handle.
If they are heavy fire or water it could be more difficult depending on your chart.
Both signs are friendly but need space and like to go things together and so it’s really just making sure there is chemistry and an emotional connection. I think even when there are ruts or dull moments neither stays particularly bored with each other. Also don’t really stay mad at each other unless someone does something really bad.
Yeah I've never met a clingy pisces
I’m kinda buzzed rn in the Lyft home and I for some reason just saw this thread.
But wow, hello. Hi.
Pisces here with a gem. Your opposite.
We were just tripping out the other day that 4 years is around the corner. How did that happen? I don’t even know.
I still get butterflies when I see him.
Maybe it’s cause we don’t live together. Idk though. We lived together for 2 months. Shouldnt the magic be gone by now? I hope it’s always like this...
I blinked and we are here.
This is so fricking cute
click to expand
Kinda cringe in the light of day. I’m not one to gush 🙈
I’m kinda buzzed rn in the Lyft home and I for some reason just saw this thread.
But wow, hello. Hi.
Pisces here with a gem. Your opposite.
We were just tripping out the other day that 4 years is around the corner. How did that happen? I don’t even know.
I still get butterflies when I see him.
Maybe it’s cause we don’t live together. Idk though. We lived together for 2 months. Shouldnt the magic be gone by now? I hope it’s always like this...
I blinked and we are here.
This is so fricking cute
Kinda cringe in the light of day. I’m not one to gush 🙈
Embrace it! True lahv will do that to ya ~
click to expand
Lol but what if it isn’t true lurve and is just dickmatized-ism?
I’m kinda buzzed rn in the Lyft home and I for some reason just saw this thread.
But wow, hello. Hi.
Pisces here with a gem. Your opposite.
We were just tripping out the other day that 4 years is around the corner. How did that happen? I don’t even know.
I still get butterflies when I see him.
Maybe it’s cause we don’t live together. Idk though. We lived together for 2 months. Shouldnt the magic be gone by now? I hope it’s always like this...
I blinked and we are here.
This is so fricking cute
Kinda cringe in the light of day. I’m not one to gush 🙈
Embrace it! True lahv will do that to ya ~
Lol but what if it isn’t true lurve and is just dickmatized-ism?
Gorl, it's been nearly 4 years!
You'd know by now
But holler, in love AND dickmatized? Getting the best of both words
click to expand
He’s ruined me for any other man 😭😭
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
So....how do you know a Pisces is interested? And what if you rejected them once? Would that make them less forward? I may like this Pisces guy but I friend zoned him a while back because well there was reasons. And none of them were to do with him 😖. So fast forward and we’ve now sort of been pushed together and well he’s been messaging me outside of that? But it’s normal conversation, a few kisses at the end and some winky faces but ...I fear I have, “they’re nice to me so they like me” syndrome 😖. I suck at reading men. 😫
But even if this is nothing I am curious about Pisces as two of my best friends are Pisces to, yet they keep their romantic side secret and never really talk about it 😱.