@CrabNextDoor
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Pisces male
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most Pisces men don't like to talk about feelings / can't handle them
After a week?
You could be scaring the poor fish
😳🐟
How do you know it stems from jealousy? It's only been a week?
We’ve talked about it kind of; I went to the movies with a male friend and he said it was a date and he didn’t want me doing that anymore.
After a week?
You could be scaring the poor fish
😳🐟
Like not trying to ask him to marry me or anything just to make sure like he still likes me and that I’m pleasing him... nothing like do you love me and stuff like that
After a week?
You could be scaring the poor fish
😳🐟
Like not trying to ask him to marry me or anything just to make sure like he still likes me and that I’m pleasing him... nothing like do you love me and stuff like that
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Even so, after a week?
Give it chance....
i have a march 8 birthday. you probably really like him, while he is still gauging how much he likes you. he KNOWS he likes talking to you, and him saying that he doesnt want you to see other guys (id say thats a little immature.. girls have guy friends and vice versa), but that makes him feel threatened. you didnt do anything wrong but that shows a little bit of possessiveness over you regarding feelings he doesnt even understand.
what you should do is just be flirty with him for a while without bringing up a relationship. he may be slow on the up-and-up about his feelings for you but if you can show him that he will be accepted no matter what (NOT TELL HIM, SHOW HIM. that takes a whiile), he will realize that he does in fact like you and does not want to lose you. he will come around if you can handle how crazy it makes you feel sometimes.
the only way he'll tell you if he doesnt like/want you is if you corner him. imo I dont like hurting someones feelings that I dont know that well so used to try to tell them without telling them. nowadays ive learned that in order to spare someone pain, let them know how I am feeling and then have them decide what they want to do.
plus, like one of the other users said, its only been a week. it seems you really like him, but you need to give yourself a chance to see WHO he is to you, not WHAT he is to you.
Give him time, he will come around. I also run away from women who chase me around, try to court me. Coming from a third decan Pisces.
After 7 days you are trying to push an emotional convo. Seems needy and insecure. Just chill.
Go with the flow.
To clarify, I’m not calling you needy or insecure. Just saying that’s what it comes off as.
In my experience, a pisces will lead if he's into you. So let the poor fish lead... and unless you guys established exclusivity, you do what you want.
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I recently met a Pisces his birthday is March 8th and we’ve only been dating about a week. I just wanna know more about pisces... whenever I text and say something involving feelings like trying to gage where we stand in our relationship he will not text me back. And if I ask him in person he’ll dodge the question. I know it stems from jealousy, we’ve discussed this. So I just need to know the do’s and don’ts and all of that. Thanks!!