Advice on Dating/Relationship/Experience with a Capricorn Male

I have a question for anyone who has/or in a relationship/Dating a Capricorn male and what to expect with them.

- How they communicate

- When to give them space

- What NOT to do

- Anything you have Experience that could help

So i have been posting here for awhile about myself and the Capricorn i have been seeing. Last time I Post was "What to do when a Capricorn says "I Love You"? there's a whole story behind that and i got some advice. 2 days after i posted that he contacted me and we were supposed to watch a movie that night but his friend was having a bad day and needed to be distracted and get things off his mind so they played Rocket League - Which he invited me to watch on Steam and we talked through the game and it was fun. During that time (3hrs) he asked if we could watch the movie and hang out the next day and i said that would be fine we never end up watching the movie.. Soooo 2 weeks later (Sunday Dec 3rd) he got on Teamspeak to play some Minecraft with our group of friends and it was really fun to hang out with him even in a group setting. During that time he went to put up his Christmas Tree with his family and he had told me his sister's boyfriend was like "Attack that guy!!" (which was me) and he said "That's a girl, but okay" and he told me he felt bad about it xD awe so cuute!

Now, I would like some advice on dating a Capricorn and what to expect?

yeah any helpful/experience in dating/relationship/friends/other would be very very helpful and much appreciated

*this is all online*

I'm an Aries sun/Gemini Moon and Venus my rising is Libra.

He is Capricorn Sun, Aries Moon and Sagittarius Rising.

All I know is after a year with cap is that they like what they like.

I spent everyday with my cap straight for like 2 months.

They are homebodies sometimes and love to be loved. My cap personally liked quality time and words of affirmation with a hint of acts of service. They also like gifts but thoughtful ones.

Honestly

Whatever you think you shouldn't do, do that and a lot of it. It took a while for him to warm up and open up to me. He still is. So much so that he left to spare his feelings. They are loyal to a fault and expect that same in return.

I like to fight for what I believe in and even if that means with him. He seems to enjoy a good argument often. So don't let them get bored. And be genuine they can sense fakeness.

But I'm full of love and since they are pessimistic by nature, keep your love tank on full. Don't hold back any emotion I mean that. And whatever you need he will provide. Because he'll know how u feel about him.

They are a lot of work though he's like a 3rd job. They like security as well. So don't be wishy washy in the love department. And he'll be so loyal to you.

Seriously there are no laws with them. I do what I want but love him even if he don't act like he notices. I show my fire and put my foot down whenever. They are like kids and need guidance. Tell him no and always be up for a debate.

They like spirituality too so brush up on religion.

I studied the Bible both Christian and satanic for years before I met him.

How to keep a cap? Be mature and act like it. Carry yourself like an adult, have yourself in check as good as possible and don't be a childish drama queen 😎 Doesnt mean you have to be perfect!!! Although we are talkin about caps here - he doesn't need miss perfect. He needs miss "I'm trying my very best for us and myself" - that makes you perfect in his eyes.

@UnicornSag

Back in June/July/Aug he started to talk to me, he was the one who approach me i didnt know who he was either then we are in the same group of friends but at the time he wasnt apart of the group.We hang out once or twice before anything really started so i dont know if he started to have interest in me before. I didnt have any thought of dating anyone in the pass 2 yrs until he started talking to me and hangout, asking questions etc etc This is all online.So the distance is difficult to do anything either then talking, playing games on Steam or watching movies - when GOT was out we would always watch it ever sunday together.

The first thing he said to me was "You're my favorite person!" and this was at the very beginning. When we did a question game he asked me "What is the most desirable quality of mine?" his anwser about me "1. You are absolutely stunning! 2. Such a cute personality 3. Cares so much for others"I told him he thank you for being so kind to me! (no one has never said anything that nice to me before-Guys especially) then he said "Something i wanted to tell you for awhile.Q game helped

@UnicornSag

he had also said im "Precious to him" this was after a disagreement sorta he felt like i didn't talk much and i had told him i get really nervous talking to him and he knew about my pass dating experience wasn't the best so he messaged me a looong message saying that i'm precious to him and he doesn't want to hurt me in anyway.He cares about me a lot, thinks as me as his favorite person to talk to and hangout during the week. He loved getting Good Morning messages from me to start his day... etc etc

Please tell me that doesn't seem like he is not interested in me at the start, cause i would never have thought someone would like me as more than a friend.

I have never dated before so this is a whole new experience for me and im super awkward,shy and i get nervous. I dated another Cap 2yrs back and it lasted 7months until i found out he was seeing someone and ended up in a relationship with her (LD) I found out on my own, he didn't tell me for 5 months and i had asked him a few times if everything was alright and he said yeah everythings good. But he never told me we weren't dating anymore. I would think a guy would tell the person you were seeing for 7 months that we should be just friends.He never did.I removed him from my life.Because he didn't want me in his.

So you can see why i question alot and i get nervous and put up a wall. I have been hurt, so the past 2yrs i didnt have DATING on my mind more foucs on myself and my health. I am anemic so i do go in and out of the hospital every few months It gets tiring and stressful but i go on with my life.

I am confused rather or not i should talk to the Capricorn about what the heck is going on!? >.<

sorry long post...

@UnicornSag

wow small world haha xD He was the one who came up with Question Game too lol I am 26 yrs and he is 23.We are 3 yrs and 3 months apart

- I'm April 18th and he is Jan 18th.

That's really funny how we are similar, and understand each other situation. I forgot to mention when i told him i like him more than a friend/romantic feels he did say he was thinking about being in a relationship but at the same time never done an online relationship before (neither have I, the other cap wasn't my boyfriend we were dating but not committed yet) So we both agreed to take things slow.

@RooSagicorn

We do talk through Teamspeak (voice chat) that's mostly where we have are conversations and where we hang out in the Gaming Community we are both apart of with our friends.We also use Snapchat sometimes but rarely only because i dont really like snapchat...

@UnicornSag

We are in Canada only less than 1000 miles Timezone is 1hr ahead for him so it not to far like the last Cap i was seeing 2yrs he was 3hrs ahead so it was a lot difficult to really spend time together and he did come visit for a few days but he ended up with someone else without really telling me and I finding out later :/ that really hurt me since it was my first experience with Dating anyone.But i got over him very quickly lol

I would love to have him visit maybe sometime next year prefer in the summer only because i do have foreign exchange high school students living with me(mom's place) so there are no empty rooms until the summer...lol

yeah i'm going to see what happens this month, hopefully he would like to talk and spend time with me when he isnt busy since its December everyone is busy so xD and he is on more now hang out in the group the pas 3 days which im really happy he is slowly joining the group again we all miss him lol me especially. I almost told him I missed him but heisted and didn't say it.

Haha don’t even get me started on my cap love story.

You have to be VERY and i mean VERY mature to handle them. Need to keep your feelings in check and always try to keep the relationship MOVING forward.

I will definitely do that, and asked. When ever I do get to talk to him privately hopefully when we finally watch the movie we were going to watch 2wks ago..lol I was going to asked a few things but didn't get to. So gotta wait and see what happens this month.



Thanks for replying and giving your insight - and to everyone else who has replied to my post thanks again. I will definitely keep you posted when something happens 🙂

Happy Holiday's 😄

@MoonshineLeo I would love to hear some Cap Love Stories 😄