All you need is patience

Met this Capricorn awhile back (has no idea he was, didn't bother to ask really) and I developed a bit of a crush, nothing serious. He's my age, is extremely intelligent (engineering major), well rounded, and other great qualities (such a great catch it hurts, ugghh).

During a casual conversation, he was asked what song would he dedicate to a girl and coincidentally, he said Guns N' Roses - Patience. Very interesting lyrics.

Ugghh...I guess patience is a huge factor in bagging one of you guys *sheds tear*

Here they are to save you guys time.

Shed a tear 'cause I'm missing you
But I'm still alright to smile
Girl, I think about you every day now
'Was a time when I wasn't sure
But you set my mind at ease
There is no doubt you're in my heart now
Said woman take it slow
And It'll work itself out fine
All we need is just a little patience
Said Sugar make it slow
And we'll come together fine
All we need is just a little patience
(inhale) Patience...

I sit here on the stairs
'Cause I'd rather be alone
If I can't have you right now, I'll wait dear
Sometimes, I get so tense
But I can't speed up the time
But you know, love, that there's one more thing to consider
Said woman take it slow
And things will be just fine
You and I just used a little patience
Said Sugar take the time
'Cause the lights are shining bright
You and I got what it takes to make it
We wont fake it
And never brake it
'Cause I cant take it


...little patience, mmm yeah, ooh yeah,
I need a little patience, yeah
Just a little patience, yeah
Some more pati... (ence, yeah)
I've been walking these streets at night
Just trying to get it right (Need some patience, yeah)
It's hard to see with so many around
You know I don't like being stuck in a crowd (Could use some patience, yeah)
And the streets don't change but maybe the name
I ain't got time for the game
'Cause I need you (Patience, yeah)
Yeah, yeah well I need you
Oh, I need you (Take some patience)
Whoa, I need you (Just a little patience is all we need)
Ooh, All this ti- me....

Holy crap bluelilac.

You know what's funny rocking, is that my cap (not this one) was the first one I ever dealt with and I thought it was confusing and a waste.

Second time around (and meeting this cap), it all begins to make sense. I'm not even resentful anymore.

This new cap said he will only get into an exclusive relationship after knowing the female for at least 6 months (straight from his mouth).

Waiting isn't even the problem anymore. It's proving to them that you are the type they should commit to.

*I don't want my cap anymore as hardcore as I did but I'm just saying folks.

Have some patience (in my case, have known him since 2007 and have talked for almost 8 months total) and they WILL unravel.

Then you'd start to wonder why you worried in the first place.

I like my cap. He has a good heart.

HELP? For the past few months I have enjoyed the company of my Cappy and according to him he has enjoyed being with me. He initiated telling me how much he deeply loves me and wants to be with me and that he cant wait until we are together permanetly (we live about 2 hours away). We shared the holidays (Thanksgiving, and Xmas) We were to be together on the week of New Years but things came up with me and we could not.

Both of us are single and in our 50's . His birthday is this weekend and we are to be together. We get along wonderfully, no arguments, no disagrements-all good.He has an Ed problem which he says is new to him-but Ok he says he hasnt been in a relationship in a while-so OK. Everything else works out fine-we go to plan B-and we are both open to the continued intimacy on this level. PLAN B or "V" and "P" and it fine. He now has tried medication for the ED so we are fine-I got it for him.

He tells me a lot that I am too good for him and he does not deserve me. On one occasion he said he loves me so much but is not sure he can give me all that I ened in a man,

Well to jump ahead, I have not heard from him in nearly a week-he wont call or return calls. I am a Scorpio, and I hae not pushed him into anything. I dont call everyday and when I do I leave the same kind of message as always, nice and friendly. However, I am not inclined to put up with this for long.

I dont want to jump to conclusion about him, that all of a sudden he has decided that he does not want to be with me or be in the relationship. I need dialogue as for I dont understand why he has pushed me away or even what this really means for our relationship. HELP!!!

Ahh, c'mon. Make your own topic. STOP WITH THE HIJACKING, NEWBS!!!

there really should be a cap/scorpio board. really.

i'm worried, i keep hearing a lot of "he hasn't called in..." or "he hasn't responded in..." and it's only been like a few days.

i guess time is relative, but it's starting to look like dudes don't care about time as much as the ladies.

you best have all the time in the world if you want a cap. we will tell you anything if you ask, but you'll never figure us out...we're always growing/improving, trying to be better than ourselves. if you like complexity, good. but i don't see what's the big deal about having "figured someone out". then what? and if you rush it, you're left with what? what's the hurry?

i can't begin to understand, empathize or sympathize with the joys and pains of having a uterus but i don't think someone should be written off just because of that. if you care enough, do something about it. it's a two-way street.

i hope this helps, a little:

"Some Capricorns marry and rush into family life early, but that's usually because they are either looking for fathers or trying to play fathers. Most take a long time to make a real commitment. If you're in a hurry, pick another sign. Yet this isn't a bad way to be. Capricorns place more value on deep respect, duty, loyalty and the power of the family bond than on a few months of wild passion. Not that they turn their backs on passion. This is an earth sign, and the sexual drive is often strong. But many Capricorns keep this side of themselves out of their serious relationships, because they often don't trust their passions."

and this:

"A Capricorn will always try to take charge in a relationship. He isn't interested in submission, dependency or abdication of power. If you hurt his pride or take away his self-respect, he won't forgive or forget. Because of that earthy, controlled nature, he may also find it hard to express love and affection spontaneously. Sexual attraction, yes; but love can make him vulnerable. The Capricorn partner may love you deeply, but you may never hear it said. Yet he's deeply drawn to those who can loosen him up a bit."

he's deeply drawn to those who can loosen him up a bit

he's deeply drawn to those who can loosen him up a bit

he's deeply drawn to those who can loosen him up a bit


















































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he's deeply drawn to those who can loosen him up a bit

sorry about the outburst...it's been particularly slow at work and i'm taking my frustrations out here. :o

Warholian, I'd like to know where you got those texts from.

When it comes to sex, my cap is very mundane, reserved, and to my shock, a hell of lot more self-conscious than I am (I lost my virginity to him and he had been with previous girls, what the hell?!?! He dims the lights, guys!!!).

And on top of that, he wants to converse more than we have sex. I'm pretty sure he likes me but c'mon. He actually said, "Let's talk, hang out. What could get any better than that?" We chat for 2 hours and have sex for about 20. STOP IT!!!!

I forgot to add minutes.

Oh wow...what a day

"there really should be a cap/scorpio board. really."

really, there should lol

"When it comes to sex, my cap is very mundane, reserved, and to my shock, a hell of lot more self-conscious than I am (I lost my virginity to him and he had been with previous girls, what the hell?!?! He dims the lights, guys!!!)."

see: "This is an earth sign, and the sexual drive is often strong. But many Capricorns keep this side of themselves out of their serious relationships, because they often don't trust their passions."

Try bossing him around in the bedroom. It'll help.

"Let's talk, hang out. What could get any better than that?" We chat for 2 hours and have sex for about 20 min"

Why not do both at the same time? :-)

You DO need patience with a Cap Guy
However it can still be fun, patience doesnt have to be dreary

But we're not in a serious relationship, someonespecial. It's very casual.

atstro.com is where i got the text.

you won't get that passion until he's gotten to know you better. remember, we were just talking about patience. usually time is involed. lots of time.

that is so dead on! patience is ESSENTIAL with them.