Are Cap Men Most Hateble To Women

Hi,
I just wanna know that u all women really hate us or like us... I mean.. I m confused. I agree that we cap guys are very complicated people, but we are not that bad. Once u know our typical weird nature I dont think so there will any problems. And I must say that this message board is really discouraging to us CapGuys. How many
of you gals really love your Cappys for whatever weird kind of person he is?

Thanks branh01913

No cappyguy, many of us love cap men, but some of us have had very bad experiences with them, now perhaps they were just committment phobes but the 2 cap men i loved, one very very much i loved with all his quirks etc. unfortunately one of his "quirks" was that one women was never enough for him...but...he would never let me completely go. He'd come back and back after his little rendevous declaring how stupid he was and what a jerk, that i was the best thing that's ever happened to him and everything would be wonderful wonderful for a couple, usually three months, and then...someone else would catch his eyes and off he'd go. we went back and forth for almost 4 years until i could not take it anymore. The rubberband man i called him. and he would leave when everything, and i mean everything, spiritually, emotionally, mentally and physically was the best it could be, he admitted it himself. no one loved him like i did, with no smothering, no fighting, no yelling, no emotional outbursts, but he NEEDED someone emotionally unstable. he admitted that also, because that made him feel more stable. So Branh, it's not just women who are trainwrecks. and the other cap was the same way, the more women who adored and depended on him the better, all the better to keep you unsteady my dear. So that is what some of us have experienced with cap men. Just don't be that way and women will love you for who you are, respect and trust go a long way

Cappyguy,

I like Caps. I get along very well with them, male and female. My dad is a Cap and probably the nicest guy I know. And my current love is a Cap, who I love dearly. You won't hear any complaints from me. I do think that the ladies here could use more insights from Cap men. That would be very helpful and might cut down on some of the complaints.

I like rocks in my life and maybe apw is right about the stable/unstable relationships, sounds a little like co-dependency, or maybe just that if a woman knows she has soft spots and he is able to shine by providing strength (some may call stubborness) and she can provide the support and unconditional love, then who is to say there is anything wrong with that. I'm happy for anyone that finds they are needed and loved in return. If a couple is happy with who they are apart and together, then I say they are lucky in love.

Maybe you have struck on something here apw, you are infatuated by cappies, but they won't change for you so you are broken hearted and ask them to bend to your ideals so that you can love them, and it will not happen. I see plenty of men who respond to demands (why men love c**kiemonsters speaks to this), they seek it and are happy to please their woman. But there are women respond when they see a man who is strong is happy to let him be who are and find their stability erotic.

My cap is yummy, yummy, mmmm mmmm good. I know I have my faults and inadequacies, and he has his, and I'm AOK with that. It's all about what your needs and wants are and if you constantly demand perfection, you'll either find it, force it, or walk away alone.

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No, I adore my cap, he is just really, really quarky sometimes. Being able to vent on this thread helps me beyond words. I am 29 and have dated many men, my cappy is the best, but he is a handful (which is why I like him so much). Cap guys just try not to run away, withdraw and test us, then things would be ok!