attenhut all cas i need ya help

I have been seein a virgo for 6months..he stands me up like how women do men sometimes...lately I been feelin like y should I feel so considerate about what hes goin thru,casue he aint handlin me how I wanna be handled...as a cap u know we crave attention and lots of it..not 24/7 but just when we want it..him bein so similiar to me I tought things would get better by now,and that I could deal with it but I actually see this is not gonna be workin...how do any of u just move on from someone when u know u really love em...im sll about standin by my man but for a whole week it has been nothin but him tellin me ill be there tommarrow,and tommorrow never comes.im feelin like the fuckin lil orphan annie......i know he cares but he aint showin it...he tells me im negative for pointin out the realistic about what ever...only thing that came ti mind was he has to be jugglin plenty more women to not come to his supposed to be woman to chill... Please cap family yall know how we are and I want to make it work but im tired of waitin for tjis coal to turn to a diamond and it may just be charcoal

I don't have much to add, but that this is why I don't think I could date a compatible sign. It probably feels close to heaven when things are good, but it seems one or the other takes advantage of that comfort and things turn sour.

You are probably going to give him more chances then you've given anyone else just because you know so much potential is there. Another thing with Caps is we like to be adored, in a way, and appreciated. I think other earth signs want that too, and the similarity we have prevents the
"He/she is so special" thoughts and feelings from developing a lot of the time. Its usually he/she is a lot like me, or I know what he/she is doing.

Just try sitting down and talking to him, but in a way where he can see his actions. I know we can get pissed quicker than anything which Will make him become defensive and make him think he had the right. Put it in a way where him becoming defensive won't happen, along with him playing victim with "oh, you know I've been going through so much" blah blah blah. Nip all of that by letting him know that he still has a responsibility if he wants to be in a relationship.

In a nutshell, always make sure you talk it out to keep your behind covered, if there is an end. This doesn't sound like something you'd want to leave in a puzzle, so make sure you are always communicating to him. There is always comfort in you knowing you did your part. Overtime you will start to see if he's worth all the effort or not.

That makes a lot of sense ..I actually understand what you mean ...so much potential that everytime I say I am tired it gets better then we are back at this point . . so i have been tellin him how I feel, but earlier today my cousin and i had talked with my brother , he put it all in a nutshell too...men want us to talk like they are with their hommies, dont rush em into the convo, so I realized maybe that is why we have had some issues, cause my attitude towards or my emotional side either comes out then ...so now I decided to not put into so much effort to voicce either just have a convo, say whatever let out what I have on my brain but all feeligs aside about it ...you know how caps are though, we will be bashful for one, then it does come out sort of kinda mushy anyways ...so ill try that out to see if it helps any