Between The Two (—?)

It's the Scorpian verses the Virgin

What am I going to do? For as long as I've been in my 20s, I've never been intensely attracted to two guys before.

They are both very different and I'm attracted to each guy for very different reasons!!!!!

Okay, the Scorpio Guy:
-Intelligent
-Kind
-Humorous -- he get be so goofy 😛
-Ambitious (he is about as busy as I am)
-Warm (He seems so sensitive, yet very strong ... OHHHH MY ...)
-I feel that he will be the type of guy to fall for a bitch because he is so gentle and kind. He is strict and stern, but mean ... never. I can tell that his schedule gets to him at times and he needs someone to share his thought with. He seems so eager love and protect and that energy he gives off drives me crazy.


Now, the Virgo Guy:
-Reserved, in a cool way
-A dark and sarcastic sense of humor -- I like this kind of humor too
-He can be really affectionate and playful
-He will tell the truth regardless -- he doesn't care if you don't like it.
-There's this wierd physical attraction a feel towards him -- and I can't seem to shake it! I know it's terrible -- but don't worry, I can control myself. I will not give in. Plus, there's a HUGE barrier stopping anything potential happening.
-He acts really tough, but I can see deep down that he is very different -- like the image he projects to people is false.

Oh dear, but I'm alone and I have neither of these guys and I don't know if either would ever be attracted to me. However, I cannot deny that I like both very different reasons and I don't know what to do about. I'm afraid to concentrate one because I may get my heartbroken into a million pieces. But you know, if I could pick the one I really want it would be .... ***hold that thought ***

Well, I guess it wouldn't be fair because the virgin has the barrier -- and this "barrier" is a huge deal that I refuse to mess with.

I'm torn, what should I do? Maybe I should just crawl in a hole ...?

"Doesn't the virgo guy have a GF?"

Yeppers! That's the HUGE barrier I was taking about. He and I are kinda cool with each other for now -- I'm don't want to date him because he has a girlfriend. Now, if he was single, it *could*, but since he's not, there's no way a relationship beyond friendship with evolve. Although, I will admit that there is an attraction there and he can get a bit friendly -- I just laugh it off because we are friends and it will stay that way until further notice.

Right now, we have an okay friendship and I want to keep it that way because he is unavailable.

Hey Blink 😄

Don't worry, I have a different plan for his virgo guy. He's going to be like a "case study", for me 😉 I've found out a few things about him that are NOT very flattering -- trust me, there's nothing worst then a spoiled virgo. However, I feel that there is some major issues underneath the surface ... and I plan on seeing if I can bring them to light.

Is there a method to my madness? Sure it is 🙂 -- he acts really tough and sort of like he's above everybody -- I want to see if I can bring him to his knees a bit 😛

Just to see if I can do it. Its hard to explain ... but I will try.

He comes off as the type of person who doesn't need anyone but himself, but I can clearly see that that so not the case. He keeps a ton of stuff bottled in and I think it would be good for him to let it all out.

Most of his associates, view him as an asshole -- sure, he can be, but I feel like that he's puting on a huge front.

I don't know, I just feel the need to "pick his brain" a bit -- you know, to see why he feels he needs to be a hard ass all the time instead of just being himself.

Hmmm, okay maybe I don't want to quite "bring him to his knees" but I just want to see whats going on inside that brain of his ... I just feel the need to do so. Maybe its because we are friends and I'm concern about his metnal state, I don't know.

What do you think Blink? Is it a bad idea?

The Virgo sounds like a definite NO because of the girlfriend, his attitude, & his issues. Playing therapist to the Virgo sounds like a waste of time. Its not your job to bring his issues to the surface, maybe he wants to keep his skeletons hidden.

The Scorpio sounds like a dream guy! Plus he's available. I wouldn't worry about the age thing too much. If he sees you are mature that could change his mind. I also would start dressing feminine & sexy (in a classy, professional way) because that will make you feel more confident. When you look your best, you'll feel good. A bonus effect is he'll see how great you look when you're not dressed as a Tomboy & like it. Scorps are into females that dress feminine & sexy with a natural look or natural looking makeup.

"IMO, Pretty much."

Aww you're no fun ... JUST KIDDING 😉 Okay, I'll just be his friend and not do what I was going to do orginally -- I was only going to do it because I became intrigued by all the stuff thats going on with him.

The Virgo sounds like a definite NO because of the girlfriend, his attitude, & his issues.

The Scorpio sounds like a dream guy! Plus he's available. I wouldn't worry about the age thing too much. If he sees you are mature that could change his mind.

Okay, so far the scorpio is winning -- alright, you all don't have to tell me twice.