we Scorpios build walls...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by semi-charmed life on Tuesday, July 3, 2007 and has 37 replies.

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@semi-charmed life
19 Years

to see who cares enough to break them down, and seperate them from those who don't.
i don't see why others don't do this... they just openly let assholes into their lives

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@scorp23
19 Years

"to see who cares enough to break them down, and seperate them from those who don't."

wow... that's true. unfortunately, I have learned, though, it may be a little bit too much to ask. I understand what you are saying but I think that approach to things can scare pple off and also lead to misunderstandings... Thus, the relationship is over before it started...

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@scorp23
19 Years

"yeah....but sometimes u guys exceed the limit of trying someone's patience..."

Unfortunately this is true. I have learned that myself... I have had to work on being a little bit more relaxed about things. In the process I have had some real assholes come into my life, but all i need to do is learn that about them and send them on there way. I have learned that it is better to weed out the bad ones that get in, rather than let in only the pple that are trying to break "these walls". In building walls you can really miss out on a lot of good people. I have had to learn this the hard way!

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@GEM*TWO
20 Years1,000+ Posts

i haven't heard anyone say that here. It was new when i visited...i learned wanker, and for an object wanky, LOL. and i didn't know Bloody was considered a "badword"

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

GA: "But people do seem to have enough patience."

Exactly we don't ask you to wait..bugger off if you don't want to..nobody got a gun to your head..

::delightful mood I am in::

Hey G!

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@scorpiochick
19 Years

"GA: "But people do seem to have enough patience."

Exactly we don't ask you to wait..bugger off if you don't want to..nobody got a gun to your head..

::delightful mood I am in::"

Ah yes, those walls... I carry my masonry tools in my purse. Helps keep the creeps, losers, and non-serious people out. If the wall fails, then there is always the stinger.

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@missmorals
20 Years10,000+ Posts

GA: "Howz U doing MM ? Any updates on the Trans-Atlantic rhapsody ?"

Yeah I am doing good thanks..trans-atlantic rhapsody could refer to two things:
Job - great, going again in either July/August
Man - Fine. Although you were right about them being on a different emotional level..lol..but his job will take him to distant lands now so god knows what will happen..this is MM's life you are talking about..where things never sail smoothly

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@VAL
20 Years500+ Posts

building walls wastes to much energy, to much time, and obscures the view.

The opposite tactic is 10 times more powerful:

Let them in swiftly so they become overconfident, drop their guard, and show their true colors.

building walls is for cowardly,and insecure oversensitive types who are afraid to challenge their own instincts.

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"To become easily offended or annoyed; ill-tempered or belligerent for a period of time, due to a situation which has triggered an uncomfortable emotion."

Just being himself then?

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"pig-dogs

- i like the way that rolls off the tongue..."

I love hyphenated insults. Bitch-whore, shit-waffles, etc.

"I robbed it from Monty Python"

Using Monty Python lines?? I am aghast.

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@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"pig-dog is the only one that makes me hungry though..."

Well, you should obviously read my posts more carefully:

"I love hyphenated insults. Bitch-whore, shit-waffles, etc."