Mess with the devil....

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ScorpioSweetie on Tuesday, July 17, 2007 and has 7 replies.

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@ScorpioSweetie
20 Years

You get the horns.

Hey Ya'll. Question. What do you scorps do when you know you are digging in, as in taking something too far? Like say, you know someone has lied to you in some way, its a gut feeling. Plus, circumstances dont add up. So you start to get alittle suspiscious.

Sometimes I have a bad habit of acting like a pitbull with a bone, lol.

This has caused some ugly circumstances in my past. But I think I am realizing it and trying to overcome this.

Any suggestions?

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@cappysweetie
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Pitbull with a bone huh? Well ... yes, scorpios have a tendency to do this. When I lied to my ex about something I did't want him to know about (he found out anyway AHHHHH!!!!) I literally needed to run for the hills -- ironically, this is when our relationship started to come apart. Yes, there were other major issues too, but that temper was one of them.

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@missmorals
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Just don't speak to them ever again.....It leaves them baffled...I can't be arsed with people like that seriously...once my suspicions have been aroused...thats it..finito...not even a second chance...then I just sit back and wait to be proven right..

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@ScorpioSweetie
20 Years

Hi DB,

Yeah, relationships. Another Libra! God help me.....

I am just watching and waiting. But something seems off between us now because now I feel all guarded and stuff. It doesnt feel the same and now I dont know what will happen. Usually when I start to feel like this its the beginning of the end.

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@ScorpioSweetie
20 Years

Good thoughts DB, thank you.

Well, as far as cheating, mmmm....I would have to say no. I dont think that. I mean, technically, we havent had that convo yet....I want to take it slow. Im unsure where if I want to keep him in my life, so I am waiting on that decision.

But, he might have told a little white lie because he wanted to hang with his boys, or he wanted to spend time with himself. Or maybe he really was sick, who knows, either way, it just set off a trigger in me cuz one my ex's use to use that excuse, and I know he cheated.

Whatevs, its not necessarily a "this boy" thing. Its a thing with me in general that I would like to work on. Sometimes people deserve the sting. I dont like to be taken for stupid or disrespected. I throw people out of my life and act like I never knew them. But, in growing alittle older, I have softened a bit. By choice. So, sometimes people dont deserve the sting or worse yet "the interrogation" lol.

I know this libra likes me. Then again, all my libra ex's liked me....and we arent together anymore....ya'll can figure that one out! lol

Libra's seem to be the only one's so far to break thru the ice. But then the very things I like about them at first, come to annoy me in the end. Blah.