Can his words be 'empty'?

OK, so again with my cap guy. I need to be sure of what I'm getting myself into because if he's been shady the entire time, although I doubt this because he seemed so sincere and genuine and even said he wouldn't mess with someones emotions that way, I would repay him ten-fold and really do damage. Anyway, if this means something, please say so...


Three weeks after we met(back in September), he told me he liked me and at the time told me there had been a girl who was interested in him but he wasn't sure about her anymore since meeting me. Before this, out of the blue he asks me if I was going to be the same person in a few months. I said, "Yes, why?" and he replied with, "Because people change." What does this mean, since he's given me mixed signals. Actually, only on some occasions but he usually seems really interested, even approaching me out of nowhere "just to say 'Hi'." But then again I could be wrong. I'm not desperate but he's so indirect it makes me over-analyze.

"What does this mean, since he's given me mixed signals"
What mixed signals? Has things changed since September?

From what you wrote, I can say that he is into you. We tend to give mixed signals because we are passive-aggressive. Once we say we like you, we feel vulnerable. Strong feelings make us feel a lil out of control (because feelings are hard to control, especially love). So we back off a bit in order to observe you (this is also a test to see if you come pursue us). Caps are kinda complicated when it comes to the early dating stage. Once we verbalize our feelings (which is hard for most of us), we hope you will open up and tell us you feel the same. IF we really like you, we love for you to pursue us & show us directly how you feel. Since you're an Aqua you might have to reveal your feelings more and tap into your romantic side. Don't give off those annoying detached vibes that air signs are notorius for & you'll be fine.

I'm even more detached since I have a cap moon. I REALLY want to tell him how strongly I feel for him. I almost did, on two occasions, but didn't have the courage so I let it go.

The first month he did, with his weird tests ( and trust me, they were actual 'tests', besides the 'disappearing, reappearing' thing). Things went smoothly after October and didn't seem to change, other than him being more distant.

And I hate being romantic!!! Is it bad that he's had to force me to show him affection a few times, because he has. I mean literally had me give him hugs and cuddle with him. Threw me off a little. It's going to be an issue. He's even asked me while I pull away from him.