Is it worth to wait?

well after all those years waiting these cap men to open up, is it worth finally? Being with a cap man is not a easy work, we need to put a lot of effort, time, dedication, and yes lots of love. Is this paid off?

From my first experience with my ex cap, he finally opened up to me after 2 years. But, after the following couple of months, we both screwed up the relationship. The ending was not pretty at all. I regretted we both would have stayed as friends instead of getting serious.

So are you guys contented with your caps after waiting and waiting which seems it takes forever them to pull their guard down? I'm now seeing another cap and he seems really into me and going well right now. My new cap is also a typical cap man and he takes things slowwwwwwwly.. Since I'm a leo, don't want to wait and we want to know where things going. But, based on my experience with my ex, I've learned a lot how to handle these cap but yea still learning. I'm still afraid of getting hurt again by another cap and also since these caps are so sensitive and such an adorable kinds, I also don't want them to get hurt. Well these are just thoughts. I would like to hear some of your thoughts as well.

Read some of the other posts,
However Yes, a bit controlling however, the rewards R worth the wait, if You don't like being controlled. However, just throw it up on the regular and let him know that U R up with the control issues and make him notice them, then yeah after 10.6 years it is worth it.

krobe.. seems like you've got a hold on your cap. You're the only one who can handle those controlling cap man for so long I've seen on this borad. Keep up with good job!!!

Are you a leo, aren't you? I've read somewhere that says leo and cap relationship seems volatile at first, bur over time things are getting better and surprisingly cap feel safe to be with us finally. Hope mine will work out and worth to wait.

My experience with my ex-cap (my childrens father)of 9 years on and off wasn't worth the wait, it actually was only good when we lived together for (4 1/2 years) and were engaged, I still have a small amount of faith in him that he still has a lot more growing to do at 30, but for now he's made life a living hell for me and our kids for the past 7 1/2 months, because we broke up, I wouldn't marry him (I didn't feel he was really ready for the right reasons) and because he feels I gave up on him.

Hey leovirgocusp,

Hey this is krobe. Yes I am a Leo. I have my Capricorn tamed 2 the T. It was not all roses in the beginning, however, I just started doing more stuff with my life like working 2 jobs and going 2 college full time so I could just have a distance, I will C U when I get home relationship. Right now he is really emotional. He senses something. Probably because I am all over the Cancer boards talking about a Cancer male that I have met. However, he stated the other day that we R just finally starting to get a real one on one feel 4 each other after 10.6 years. And he wonders Y I am so distant! However, he provides me with everything I want and everything I need even though I really don't need it. I have great independency, so I guess I can say, more money in my pocket!

ithelle,
Hello! How R U? What's up? LOL!

Hi Krobe,

I've read some of your posts about cap man.. and do what you advised on the borad! You said that wait till they want to talk to you and make them play hard to get us.. Well, I did the same as you suggested and it works!!! Sometimes I wanted to talk to him and but seems like he's not in the mood or whatever. I couldn't guess. But well I waited till he come up to me.when he get back to me, he's such an adorable one.. This new cap likes me a lot and opens up to me in such a month. Krobe, keep posting about cap men and yes, we all need those valuable suggestions to tame these cap men. LOL.

krobe03,
I just doesn't tame Cap men, it tames them ALL! LOL! I guess I am a natural cookiemonster. However, I believe the resist behavior will keep him around forever. LOL! Just resist everything he does and don't show to much appreciation. Whew! gurl! U talking about a man showing his emotions. Hey email me though, I don't like selling all my secrets on these boards. LOL!

Yes, I think it's worth the wait. What's the hurry anyway?

I agree, I know we R on borrowed time and life is not promised 2 anyone. However, if it is meant 2 truly B in this lifetime, it will happen regardless of any other forces in your life.