cap / aries moon / venus in acq

i really this cap girl but shes very aloof and non committal.

we have had on n off relationship over 3 years, she used to be attracted to me but since im

aries/ cancer moon, Venus in Sagittarius, i am very caring maybe that turns her off.

when we do take a break she disappear, no communications, just cold n distant

i think my only option left is to move on but my cancer moon emotions stirs me

any advice would help thank you

I'm with an Aries..9 years 🙂

IMO, she's not that into you OR something is holding her back. ASK. Most of us are brutally honest and we don't string people along.

We can be aloof and not physically affectionate all the time..more so in our younger years. Older years, we are the complete opposite! However, we have our moments, if we really love and trust you, we are clingy and affectionate.

Posted by blazinkn1ght
i really this cap girl but shes very aloof and non committal....we have had on n off relationship over 3 years, she used to be attracted to me but since im...aries/ cancer moon, Venus in Sagittarius, i am very caring maybe that turns her off. ...when we do take a break she disappear, no communications, just cold n distant...i think my only option left is to move on but my cancer moon emotions stirs me...any advice would help thank you

i find that this is true.
this cap girl i know is exactly like yours: cap, moon aries, venus aquarius.
and i also have cancer in my moon.
and she's as you describe: aloof and uncertain.
but she's quite warm and caring when its on her terms.

Posted by jules69
I'm with an Aries..9 years 🙂...
IMO, she's not that into you OR something is holding her back. ASK. Most of us are brutally honest and we don't string people along...

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is this true?
because i find the opposite.
her communications have been very confusing and uncertain.
i could never tell if its a "yes" or if its a "no".

Capricorns are very direct people. My best conversations are with other Capricorn males, or Taurus males. I will admit that sometimes I wouldn't answer my Cap male friend when he asked me a question wanting me to go somewhere with him because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, but he would tell me directly...just say "yes" or "no" and I would say "no" and I think he appreciated that.

I really like Taurus males because you can be direct and say what you want to say without having to worry about their feelings, and they'll even make a joke about it, which I love.

If you all are getting uncertainty from a Capricorn, that can mean she's concerned about what you may feel if she says what she feels. If you can't tell what her answer is just ask, is that a "yes" or "no" and most likely, she'll tell you.

yup most of the answer here are exactly what i am experience. i think it is because she is young and never had another boyfriend that makes her feels this way.

i think thats really holding her back because we get along well and when its on, it feels like she is very caring and understanding.

but also, since she is a capricorn, her career tends to stress her and that would make her feel she dosen't really want to be obligated and committed.

i read so many comments on venus in acquerius and i just got to face reality and go out their and experiment like aries should be, but cancer moon is killing my sense of adventure

and fear of insecurity. it kinda sucks though but seems like many posts with capricorn tend to be like this.