Cappy girls and Moodwings

We have a lot of them, don't we? 😛

Its crazy, I swear, they give the poor cancer women a bad name ^_^. We are the ones that will fly off the handle ... then say I love right after ^_^.

Well ... a few days after but at least we say it LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes I think flying off the handle is needed, keeps people on their toes, you know 😉

Posted by C.A.P
We admit or not but we always have it for a reason

Thats one major difference I think! The fact that if we have moodswings, you better damn well believe that it was for a reason.

The Cap women I know have rather balanced and predictable moods, unless they do a good job of keeping their shift of moods very private. *shrugs*

We keep them private, even to the ones that are the closest to us sometimes have no idea what we can be like once the current shifts. Until they see it that is.

We are the only earth sign out the 3 that's ruled by water.

Many don't know that ^_^.

Posted by DewDrops
I never show my mood swings. But not really good at hiding my irritation.

im pretty similar. i definitely try my best not to direct it at anyone. when im irritated i dont talk to people and get noticably 'short' when people ask me questions. its that cap/sag cusp gift of giving off the 'dont eff with me right now' vibe... people can tell because no one bothers me unless they have to and no one ever says anything about it until i lighten up. its just like when i'm really hungry 😛 i try not to talk or interact because i'm afraid of what i might say to get a slap across the face and start a war. lol

mood swings... i try sooooooo hard not to be a 'victim' of them even if im by myself. i think im getting better at it. it's a lot of pep talk and reminders that feeling shitty will only make my goals harder to attain/slow me down.

my ex checks this site... i know for a fact he does. or did at least.

partly because he stopped talking to me after i made mention here that i was dating.

taurus actually... taurus that attempted control, manipulation and keeping tabs with me more than any scorp i've ever encountered.

Posted by C.A.P
let him check if he wants. The only thing is that i wont be as open as i was before. What if i want to come and bitch about him. I cant anymore 😢

sneak in a new sn?

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Posted by CreepyPants

sneak in a new sn?

SN as in new user name?
I have already asked dxp to delete my acc and then i will get new User id

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ahhh swift about it 🙂

i like that no one in my day to day life knows that i do this 🙂

"Hahahaha and then there was this chick right she blah blah..." and I'm like with a deadpan face " That was me."

LOL! thats good stuff.

the opinions that matter most are our own... we have to live with ourselves.

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Posted by cappysweetie
Its crazy, I swear, they give the poor cancer women a bad name ^_^. We are the ones that will fly off the handle ... then say I love right after ^_^.

Well ... a few days after but at least we say it LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sometimes I think flying off the handle is needed, keeps people on their toes, you know 😉

I dont think so that we are so much of a problem. I think we are not treated as well as we deserve sometimes and that causes out atleast my mood swings. People take our dedication or strenth granted but there is a limit to our patience right?

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Yes, there is certainly a limit to my patience -- I usually don't continue something if its going no where -- i.e. I can see someone is using me. Now if I don't see it, then I can be fooled, but once I detect it, I'm done.

I've notice that many people tend to be more forthcoming than myself -- once I'm done with someone or something, it takes a while for me to get back involved, if I ever do.

I feel wounded once I take a chance on something that I left alone, only to be disappointed again? I'm like an iceberg then ^_^.

I guess I have very, very, very little tolerance for bullshit ... that along will bring a bunch of mood swings out of me.

Posted by C.A.P
Yeah 😢

hahaha, a few of my friends do it and so does my mom and step-dad. Don't worru C.A.P., sometimes we fall into habits and then we are like, how did this happen? :/

Posted by DewDrops
So what crazy things have you guys done during your mood swings?

hmmm, well ... hahahaha ... do you really wanna know?

Actually, there was a recent incident that occurred about 3 weeks ago -- I think around the week of Oct. 6

My roommate and his best friend invited that girl back to the loft. It was the girl that the two of them and another guy 'trained' weeks ago -- I think failed to mension that the girl used my toothbrush, that was another thing. Well, apparently, they shared her amongst just the two of them this time -- I'm not really sure what happened because I actually asleep this time haha.

When I woke up, I saw her coming out of the bathroom, I knew who she was, she looked exactly the same.

I never got a chance to confront her about using my stuff -- so I got my chance to let her know that she needs to use commonsense when she in an appartment shared with someone else.

She acted like it wasn't a big deal ... and that pissed me off. So as a result, I told her to get out. She thought I was out of line of course, but I told her that 50% of this damn loft is main and at the moment she was in my 50% and I wanted her out.

She went to my roommate's best friend, thinking he could do something, well he couldn't -- unless you pay rent, you have no say in what goes on. My roomie tries to play it out that I was just kidding and that I was tired and wasn't thinking straight.

I said that she either cleans the bathroom that she just came out of or she gets the hell out of here.

Long story short, all three of them left.

I felt 0.01% guilty that I was a bit over the top, but I got over it. I'm actually shocked that my roomie went along with it and didn't fight for them to stay.

His friend and that chick haven't been back since *shrugs*

Posted by DewDrops
why would you use someone elses toothbrush? She should just pack a bag if she is going to stay over so often. Everyones happy that way.

She doesn't come over often, thats my roomie's virgo girl that comes over (well, now came over) often. The first time I saw that girl was in september.

I guess the best friend liked her so much that night, he wanted her again, and of course my roomie had to be in on all the fun too.

Anyway, they were all gonna eat breakfast, so I guess that should have made me feel bad ... the fact that they didn't get a chance to.

I will admit, maybe I went a bit overboard, but at least I got my point across. 50% of everything from the the doorknobs down is mine and I considered her being on my part and I wanted her out. Made perfect sense I think. If she didn't act like it wasn't a big deal, I probably would have put her out but sense she did, I felt compelled to.

Now, as far as other things I have done when it comes to swinging from one mood to the next, lets see ...

well, lets just say that my emotions get the best of me when I don't keep my intensity at an even level

Posted by DewDrops
well do the other girls use your stuff?

Only once, it was a female personal item. One of his girls used on -- I know it because I remember having 3 instead of 2 of them.

So now I keep them in my room. I figured it was the virgo-libra girl but seriously, it could have been virgo#2. I don't know who so I just keep that stuff in my room. I know it wasn't virgo#3 because if she needed something, I know she would have asked for it.

You see, he's seeing 3 virgo women, so I have to number them. hahahaha, terrible isn't it? lol.

Posted by DewDrops
I meant is that is if she does alot of sleepovers she should just keep a bag packed with necessities in her car.

I'm practical.

Right! I know what you mean. virgo#3 use to stay the night because she had class the following morning -- plus my roomie wanted to use her car because his wasn't working at the time.

She bought stuff to use.

About two weeks ago -- he threw her out for doing something without his permission (its a long story but basically he threw her out for nothing, the dick). So I'm keeping her body wash in my room ... it would suck if another woman used it, so I'm keeping it there until she comes to get it.

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Posted by CreepyPants

sneak in a new sn?

SN as in new user name?
I have already asked dxp to delete my acc and then i will get new User id

ahhh swift about it 🙂

i like that no one in my day to day life knows that i do this 🙂

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I like the privacy, just because certain aspects of my life are private. Everyone that I know doesn't have to know where I am and what I'm doing 24/7. That would give me the creeps.

Posted by DewDrops
Where do you meet people like him?

Does HE use your stuff? Because that would gross me out even more.

HAHAHAHA! If I could answer that question, then I probably figure out the true meaning of life.

There are alot of dudes like him actually, I just never thought I would live with me. He was bloody clever to hide most of his flaws until we became roommates -- yep, he was good, a saggie-capricorn after my own little heart hahaha, alittle dark humor there.

He and I do share certain things but no personal items.

This song may sum up a capricorn woman's darkest moodswings:

I Think so anyway

OMG, I love Adam's version.

I can't stand the original by Tears for Fears.

lol, sorry lol

I mean it good but to me, Adam sung it better ^_^.

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Posted by cappysweetie
This song may sum up a capricorn woman's darkest moodswings:

I Think so anyway

Hey tell me about it. That song youre referring too is sad. But romantic.

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Thank you, it one of my favorite remakes.

I can see why DewDrops likes the original version, its a tad more upbeat.

Posted by deb963
Hey weve never met , Only one time at the cancer board (remember) ha ha Glad to meet you cappy.
You sure know, How to strike up a coversation.

Yeah, I remember. You were looking for Tasha

Posted by deb963
Yep, IM feeling sick too hangover, headache. Partied too much I hope you feel better. OHH Happy Halloween too.

THANK YOU! 😄 Happy halloween to you too. I feel terrible because I have a party to go to but I feel like crap.