Cap Guy..Libra woman...WTF?

Hi All,

I am looking to pick the wisdom of some of the very wise people here. I am a Capri guy who's been dating a Libra girl for the past 6 years and I think I've never really know what's going on inside her head...or it just keeps changing

First things first, My Natal Chart: -

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 11.13 Ascendant Virgo 12.10
Moon Scorpio 18.28 II Libra 9.09
Mercury Capricorn 11.58 III Scorpio 9.24
Venus Sagittarius 18.02 IV Sagittarius 11.16
Mars Aquarius 1.24 V Capricorn 12.58
Jupiter Libra 9.34 VI Aquarius 13.30
Saturn Libra 9.31 VII Pisces 12.10
Uranus Scorpio 28.27 VIII Aries 9.09
Neptune Sagittarius 23.06 IX Taurus 9.24
Pluto Libra 24.11 Midheaven Gemini 11.16
Lilith Scorpio 0.21 XI Cancer 12.58
Asc node Leo 11.08 XII Leo 13.30


Her Natal Chart: -

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Libra 7.37 Ascendant Scorpio 15.53
Moon Pisces 14.07 II Sagittarius 15.17
Mercury Libra 9.57 R III Capricorn 16.10
Venus Virgo 28.51 IV Aquarius 18.33
Mars Sagittarius 7.40 V Pisces 20.45
Jupiter Scorpio 11.36 VI Aries 20.13
Saturn Libra 23.02 VII Taurus 15.53
Uranus Sagittarius 1.45 VIII Gemini 15.17
Neptune Sagittarius 24.28 IX Cancer 16.10
Pluto Libra 26.06 Midheaven Leo 18.33
Lilith Capricorn 11.21 XI Virgo 20.45
Asc node Cancer 8.41 XII Libra 20.13


Now a little bit of background. I met while she was dating my best friend (an Aquarian). He and I shared a place, and later she moved in. Within 6 months of moving in with us, she told me she was in love with me and began seducing me. I resisted initially, coz she was dating my best friend. But she always complained and cried about how rude he was to her and how he mistreated her. I developed sympathy for her and began caring for her. Before I knew, one night she got all over me and we ended up having sex. Thereon, she kept dating me and him and me. She and i later moved to UK and began living together. Now, after 6 years, she's been sleeping with me...having a claims she still has feeling for the aquarian

Promised us both marriage, but recently had a complete breakdown with the other guy. I finally thought he was behind us and she and i can have a future, but! She now tells me she hasn't loved me since the last 1 year...and that she has lost all feelings. Now she's bloody found her self a Taurean guy at her work place and has started seeing him!!!!

WTF?

I looked up her chart and stuff with the little i know about astrology and she seems to be going through a Uranus - Venus Opposition transit right now....but then 6 years...i just don't understand this woman? What do i do? should i try to win her back? wait for the transit to be over? or accept that she's not going to change!

Btw...she's seeing this new guy she claims is her future...but she's still sleeping with me :S

I don't understand anything!!!

Posted by PurpleDiamond
Oh and once that transit is over there's a good chance her and the Taurus guy could be married. The Uranus transit thats going on now will continue for the next 7 years...

Hmm..thanks for your insight. I am a bit confused now. Everywhere i read about the Uranus Venus transit, it states that any relationships formed within this phase only last till the transit is over. They all say that once uranus is in opposition transit with venus, one gets into relationships that one would usually not go for and when the transit is over, they realise the mistake and regret/repent.

This is a Uranus-Venus opposition transit if i did not make it clear. please see below.

http://www.astrotrends.net/newsletters/negative/uranus-venus-neg.html<BR>

i am not saying what you are saying cant be correct, it's just that everywhere i've looked, its been the opposite 😢

Posted by PurpleDiamond
Also his Sun is in her 7th house which is a indication of true love. There's no stronger attraction than Sun in 7th house placement.

I am sorry, but where did you see that? His sun?

please explain.

Posted by PurpleDiamond
Uranus is in Aries right now which will last for 7 years, so although the Uranus - Venus Opposition transit won't last for 7 years Uranus in Aries will which is hitting her Ascendant in Scorpio which governs the 7th house of true love. Which also explains why it is a Taurus she has fell in the arms of because his Sun is in Taurus which is the sign that rules her 7th house. Everything in this connection points to true love when you consider the transits that are taking place in her chart.

Sun 7th house
The placement of the Sun in seventh house of a partner's chart is highly significant in terms of cooperation in a partnership. Although this position can produce competition, generally, it gives a wholesome perspective on the important issues and a balanced give and take relationship. There is a strong mutual attraction and this placement is found in many marriages and close personal friendships. There is sexual attraction, as well as a mutual enjoyment of each other's company.

hmm..thanks..i appreciate your taking the time to explain.

PurpleDiamond: i tried to use your method to my chart, but i don'T understand it. Can you explain to me? I get it that we should look when transiting Uranus makes an aspect to a planet, and after that. What is the difference if it makes a conjunction, sextile, trine etc? For example my Uranus will soon make a sextile with my natal Venus (Aqua) what is the meaning of that?
And how can i know if the relationship will be longlasting? Sonner or later Uranus touch something in every people's chart since there are long lasting couples who live happily every after.

May i ask you to explain it?

Sorry for the Off, Capriguy1981!

Oh, do you love this girl? Do you really want her, could you imagine your lifw with her? Do you feel your relationship is progressing instead of devolving? I understand that you are in a very cruel situation right now. That's why i think that maybe for a start start to think about your feeling and not about hers. I hope you the best! I hope we can read more happy posts from you in the future.

She is a SLUT, thats all...face it, she is done with you now and she wants another man or wants another recipe...