Libra male with an Cap/Aquarius female?

I've been reading around this site for awhile and I feel a little afraid to move forward with this Libra that I am liking at the moment. We have been friends for awhile, but recently we were physical and I'm a little confused. I like to run on spontaneity, and that's how I ended up getting together with him, but I'm not sure if Libras really appreciate that or not. He has admitted to believing we are compatible, and has told me he likes me before, but I never really thought much of it. I got up the guts to just ask him if he'd like to go out for coffee or a bite to eat, nothing too scary like "be my boyfriend!" or anything and he said yes. However, he seems a bit less ..how can I describe it? He seems less interested now that I made a move. Now I'm kind of wondering if I should go ahead and seem less interested myself. Sounds manipulative and mean, but I figure I should give him the opportunity to keep ME interested, too! But, yeah, I'm a cusp..a Cap/Aquarius and I have always felt more Aquarius than Cap. I have read that Aquarius and Libra make very fine matches.

So..what do you think? Is he interested or just messing with my brain, and should I back off to let him think?

go for it

libra and aquarius mostly make a perfect match

Posted by MargotLovesRed
I've been reading around this site for awhile and I feel a little afraid to move forward with this Libra that I am liking at the moment. We have been friends for awhile, but recently we were physical and I'm a little confused. I like to run on spontaneity, and that's how I ended up getting together with him, but I'm not sure if Libras really appreciate that or not. He has admitted to believing we are compatible, and has told me he likes me before, but I never really thought much of it. I got up the guts to just ask him if he'd like to go out for coffee or a bite to eat, nothing too scary like "be my boyfriend!" or anything and he said yes. However, he seems a bit less ..how can I describe it? He seems less interested now that I made a move. Now I'm kind of wondering if I should go ahead and seem less interested myself. Sounds manipulative and mean, but I figure I should give him the opportunity to keep ME interested, too! But, yeah, I'm a cusp..a Cap/Aquarius and I have always felt more Aquarius than Cap. I have read that Aquarius and Libra make very fine matches.

So..what do you think? Is he interested or just messing with my brain, and should I back off to let him think?

MLR: At the moment, I'm going through the same predicament myself. I'm an Aquarius and been keeping in touch through e-mails with a Libra man for almost two weeks now. He sounds just the same as you described your (friend). After communicating everyday (for the past 2 weeks), I finally got fed up and asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime in the coming week. He felt that we were ready to go to the next step and said yes. I didn't want to make the plans and left the ball in his court, and still haven't gotten a response on where/when/what we are doing etc... So I've read that Libran's can be indecisive sometimes... If I don't get a response, soon (like tomorrow), I would hate to pull the reins in this relationship and take the intiative. I'm not sure what to do now. I don't want him to back off, because we have a lot in common!! 🙂 Below is a sample of both our chart stats:

Me:
Sun: Aquarius
Moon: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Sagittarius
Ascendant: Gemini
Chinese: Fire Tiger

Guy:
Sun: Libra
Moon: Leo
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Scorpio
Ascendant: Not sure at the moment b/c I don't know what time he was born...
Chinese: Earth Horse

Posted by MargotLovesRed

So..what do you think? Is he interested or just messing with my brain, and should I back off to let him think?

Well I would say back off and let him think. He is definitely not messing with your brain. If anything your relationship with him might be going somewhat faster than he would like to? Explore every aspect before continuing on.

Posted by Butterfingers
Aqua-Libra good match,Capri-Libra disaster.

WHAT? No way, hahahaha

Back off and let him think...creating the chase comes natural to us aquas 🙂

You never know what you will get with libra guys...one minute they are soooo into you and the next minute there gone. They definitely like the chase though as do most guys. Difference between aquas and libra is: aquas always keep you guessing there interest and intentions from the very beginning....libras like to snatch away your comfort right when you least expect it, because a sudden wave of indecision takes over after they've come off the high of the chase.

Oh and they respond even better to less kindness. 😉

Posted by AquaDash

MLR: At the moment, I'm going through the same predicament myself. I'm an Aquarius and been keeping in touch through e-mails with a Libra man for almost two weeks now. He sounds just the same as you described your (friend). After communicating everyday (for the past 2 weeks), I finally got fed up and asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime in the coming week. He felt that we were ready to go to the next step and said yes. I didn't want to make the plans and left the ball in his court, and still haven't gotten a response on where/when/what we are doing etc... So I've read that Libran's can be indecisive sometimes... If I don't get a response, soon (like tomorrow), I would hate to pull the reins in this relationship and take the intiative. I'm not sure what to do now. I don't want him to back off, because we have a lot in common!! 🙂 Below is a sample of both our chart stats:

Me:
Sun: Aquarius
Moon: Aquarius
Venus: Aquarius
Mars: Sagittarius
Ascendant: Gemini
Chinese: Fire Tiger

Guy:
Sun: Libra
Moon: Leo
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Scorpio
Ascendant: Not sure at the moment b/c I don't know what time he was born...
Chinese: Earth Horse

OMG, what a night I'm having. My goodness, I've finally managed to get the guy to go out. We've finally booked a night for the week of July 20th, but wait for it...he's still unsure if that week might be good for him. UGH!
I'll keep you guys posted if anything else develops. For the time being, I'm still keeping my fingers crossed...🙂

Posted by Lady_M

Oh and they respond even better to less kindness. 😉

Lady M- I was a total biotch to him tonight, believe me. But I got him where I want him lol. 🙂