Libra and Cappy

This topic was created in the Libra forum by MiszUnderstood on Saturday, October 3, 2009 and has 8 replies.

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@MiszUnderstood
17 Years

I love my Libra guy.. He is romantic, sweet, charming.. but ghastly boring! Sometimes while we're on the phone I find myself so bored with him. He rarely says anything sometimes, and has no perspective or insight on certai things.. It kills me! I hardly ever know what the hell is on his mind because he hardly speaks on it, except for his never ending compliments to me. Just felt I should share that... Anyone notice such similarities in their Libra lovers?

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@Lunamistress
18 Years1,000+ PostsCapricorn

being a cap with a libra partner,—I have to say that sometimes my libra is quite boring too. But I think the main issue is he is probably more interested in something else when he is talking to you. My libra is an audiophile, that means he is addicted to good quality music and studying the stuff so sometimes when I talk to him, he just acknowledges me but never actually "listening" to what I am saying. Sometimes I act pissed and he puts on his charm and everything is perfect again. Mind you, when I am gaming, I do the same thing to him so we're even.

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@little_sparrow
20 Years5,000+ Posts

Pretty much all of my friends consider me cagey. I don't mean to be but I am. In real life, I rarely talk about myself or what I think, yadda yadda. It is even more heightened in romantic relationships where I move around my partner not the other way around.

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@capgurl81
16 Years

I personally cant do the libra man relationship thing. I mean I like them they just drive me crazy because they take to long to tell a story.

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@curious visitor
16 Years500+ PostsLibra

yeah, libras can be really boring. either accept him as he is, or prepare to move on. he probably won't change.

but he must be a lot of fun to show off to people, so i think you should just accept him as he is. keep good friends around to give you the fun conversation he can't.

if you want him to talk, bring up something. but remember, he'll take a looooong time to get to the point. and that might annoy you even more.

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@AngelicTears
16 YearsCapricorn

The problem I've had with Libras are that they want me to be the only one initiating anything. Which I dont generally have a problem with,but I like it to be 50/50 ( I like to be lead once in a while,take a break ya know?). I havent met one that has had any conversation problems though. (haha)