to all CAPRICORN WOMEN LIBRA MAN NEEDS HELp!!!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by v s o p on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 and has 7 replies.

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ok do she love me or not we only been together for 1 month she said she want to have my baby she want to marry me she said she love me thee sex is great i guess idk but do she really love me ! i made her cry when i told her i dont love her ! because we only been together for 1 month so she was born december 31 a tru cap do she love me foreal or for play !what yall think— cap women only

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Posted by v s o p
ok do she love me or not we only been together for 1 month she said she want to have my baby she want to marry me she said she love me thee sex is great i guess idk but do she really love me ! i made her cry when i told her i dont love her ! because we only been together for 1 month so she was born december 31 a tru cap do she love me foreal or for play !what yall think— cap women only

Hmmm, usually if a capricorn (woman that is) says that she loves you, she means it.

However ... she wants to have babies with you and things like that? Really? Why so soon? :/

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Posted by Domino
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Why do you even care if she loves you or not? The bottom line is you dont, simple

Whoa, whoa, whoa whoa, in his defense I'll say this. Do you within a month say that you love someone and want to be with them for the rest of their life? It takes time to develop such a nature. He might just want to wait on it and see if she is the "one" in his eyes.

But you make a good point.

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Agreed, good point.

I think there has to be some desperation going on here because he wants to marry him, have kids and all that jazz ...and it only seems like he's been having sex with her and thats it.

I mean, I know libra guys are charming or whatever but .............

thats a little much, don't you think?

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That's not just a Cap woman thing - a lot of women equate good sex with love. Intense infatuation can feel like love. It doesn't mean she's lying, exactly. She probably absolutely believes she's in love with you. You didn't mention her age, but I'm guessing she's pretty young - not that older women don't get blindsided by things like this too LOL

But like the others here have told you; time will tell. As a Libra, you yourself know that you will be in a relationship while trying to figure out if she's The One, weighing all of your choices and options. If you decide she IS, you will fully commit and welcome her love and lavish attention. If you decide she is NOT, you will find a way to end it as painlessly as possible (and still remain friends, you Libra boys do so love to stay friends with your ex's!) and failing that, you may just pull away entirely and pull the famous Libra disappearing act. That's what gives Libra men such a bad reputation as heart breakers and playboys. But really, he's just looking for love like everyone else, and his impossible charm makes a lot of girls fall for him (and get hurt) on his way to True Love.

But do yourself a favor -- if she's talking babies and marriage already, please do what you can to make sure you don't impregnate her. Not a good idea for either one of you at this early stage. Best of luck to you 🙂

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Posted by Nefer
That's not just a Cap woman thing - a lot of women equate good sex with love. Intense infatuation can feel like love. It doesn't mean she's lying, exactly. She probably absolutely believes she's in love with you. You didn't mention her age, but I'm guessing she's pretty young - not that older women don't get blindsided by things like this too LOL

But like the others here have told you; time will tell. As a Libra, you yourself know that you will be in a relationship while trying to figure out if she's The One, weighing all of your choices and options. If you decide she IS, you will fully commit and welcome her love and lavish attention. If you decide she is NOT, you will find a way to end it as painlessly as possible (and still remain friends, you Libra boys do so love to stay friends with your ex's!) and failing that, you may just pull away entirely and pull the famous Libra disappearing act. That's what gives Libra men such a bad reputation as heart breakers and playboys. But really, he's just looking for love like everyone else, and his impossible charm makes a lot of girls fall for him (and get hurt) on his way to True Love.

But do yourself a favor -- if she's talking babies and marriage already, please do what you can to make sure you don't impregnate her. Not a good idea for either one of you at this early stage. Best of luck to you 🙂

You know a cancer buddy of mine had this issue with a capricorn woman, I forgot all about this. Actually, he's still having this issue with the cap woman.

He's an ex but with time, he and I became friends. This capricorn he had a FWB thing with was sooooooo in love with him, I mean soooooo love with him. She wanted him so darn bad, it was pathetic. She is actually the reason why he and I broke up in the first place -- I will not stick around if someone cheats on me ...

Anyway, so they have like two children together or whatever and she like uses the kids to keep him around or else she will make 'trouble'.

He and I are friends now but she doesn't trust me around him I suppose -- not sure why :/ he's my buddy, I don't want him an 'intimate' kind of way anymore. So, if he wants to see me, she can't know anything about it.

lol, thats terrible but he kind of got himself trapped with her ...

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See, he would have been safe with me 😉 I refuse to get preggy, under any circumstances and I'm definitely not going to get preggy just to have a link to some dude :/

She doesn't like me and I still don't know why ...