Cap male/Pis female.

I have been In love with a Capricorn for 5 months now, it is long distance at the moment but hopefully we will be meeting soon and making plans to move if things go well (: I'd like to hear experiences, advice or anything else.

if you love him then go to him

did the 2 of you meet online?

You are in love with someone you've never met?

Smdh

Posted by truecap
You are in love with someone you've never met?

Smdh

Welcome to 2015.
Haven't you heard of eRelationships?
Fall in love over the internet then eventually meet them in person.

There really needs to be a news article or video on these types of relationships.
They are more common than people think.

Friendship, yes. Infatuation, yes. Fantasy, yes. Love, I can't comprehend. You can't feel the chemistry, the electricity of touch. You don't get to actually see their actions or how they interact with other people. What if it's an online persona and not their real personality? What if it's a scam? They can tell you anything and it not be true.

Not saying it can't happen, but I couldn't call it love until I've had several face to face encounters.

But that's just me.

Posted by Damous
Truecap, you're assuming they don't cam

Still, that's not in person, can't physically touch someone.

Hey, I'm not saying it's not possible. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. It's just that I, personally, would not even consider the feeling I felt as "love" if I didn't spend any time with them in person.

I think it's risky to get all caught up in a "fantasy" of what they are presenting. I wouldn't be able to tell if they actually practice the character traits they say they have. For me it takes time and observation to see if this person actually has the same values as I do. Once that fantasy or impression or assumption about someone is made, I would think it would be harder to recognize red flags later on.

But, like yall say, this is the new regime of dating. It's not for me. I'm really not knocking it, I just can't imagine "love" with someone I haven't even touched or kissed. (not talking about sex).

And this "love" over an internet connection....well, the scammers really take advantage of that, as we hear about all the time.

OH, well, I'm old. lol! To each their own.

OP, I really hope you guys get to meet soon and it all works out for you.