
HarleyTwinFlame
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
How important is money to you?
Would you chose money over love?
Ever been with someone purely for money?
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?


Posted by UndauntedSoul88Yeah I figured caps like to work hard for their success, and the women though, might have some higher than average standards when it comes to $ $ $
Very important. In fact, so important, that I worked tirelessly to accomplish my educational goals to enable me to give my family and myself the life I want for us.
No, I would not choose money over love.
I've my own money and don't need to be with someone purely for monetary gain. However, I won't date down the food chain. He needs to be my equal.
Never has the thought to steal money crossed my mind. Wrong sign. Capricorns will, however, put their personal lives on hold for years to make sure they earn enough money first. We like security. But we love earning it even more.

Posted by Cancan26Yeah i guess that makes sensePosted by HarleyTwinFlame
How important is money to you?
Would you chose money over love?
Ever been with someone purely for money?
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
^^^^^^
I knew a capricorn girl ...and she answered yes to all of these questions....
money is is important to capricorns ....there is no getting around that ....just like safety is important to crabs ...alot times they mean the same thing
money=safety?
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Posted by ShadowcatPosted by HarleyTwinFlame1. Extremely important. I have needs.
How important is money to you?
Would you chose money over love?
Ever been with someone purely for money?
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
2. I need more information
3. No. My aim is self sufficiency.
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Posted by HarleyTwinFlameLol this is how important money is to cap $ $ $ $ $ $ $
How important is money to you?
Would you chose money over love?
Ever been with someone purely for money?
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?

Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWith caps no money no hunny —
Talking with one of my besties, Cap sun Cap Venus
"If a man doesn't have money, then he sure as hell won't have me"
"Good dick with zero dollars equals shit"
We see a hot guy...
"But what I really wanna know is does he have money?"
Idk 😆
It's hilarious and she's always dead ass serious. BTW she's answered yes to all those questions

Posted by ShadowcatJust stating facts I'm not poor nor rich but I love nice things and I do work hard for what I have same with the cap females I know with an exception of two. They told me straight up if you don't have money ? You're wasting your time and mines.Posted by Scorpio323OCLol I'm actually not picky in that regard. We can be poor together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWith caps no money no hunny —
Talking with one of my besties, Cap sun Cap Venus
"If a man doesn't have money, then he sure as hell won't have me"
"Good dick with zero dollars equals shit"
We see a hot guy...
"But what I really wanna know is does he have money?"
Idk 😆
It's hilarious and she's always dead ass serious. BTW she's answered yes to all those questions
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Posted by lisabethur8lol the axis kate is capricorn with cancer moon ...and prince william is a double cancer 😄 interesting
all earth signs have similar goals.
even their axis.
money is very important because it means SECURITY.![]()

Posted by Capri-sunWhat I do notice tho caps love hardworkers the more you work the better.
How important is money to you?
Very important
Would you chose money over love?
After elaborating on this question with shadowcat, it depends. Simple answer, no. I've been in the situation where my ex didn't work for 3 years, and I refuse to support a grown man who is fully capable of earning a living.
Ever been with someone purely for money?
No...well there was an old man that paid me to clean his apartment and keep him company when I was 16 if that counts.
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
Would I? No. Have I in the past? Yes, in 1st grade I was a clepto and stole people's lunch money out of their desks.

Posted by ShadowcatPosted by HarleyTwinFlame1. Extremely important. I have needs.
How important is money to you?
Would you chose money over love?
Ever been with someone purely for money?
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
2. I need more information. Actual love or infatuation? What kind of love(platonic, familial)
3. No. My aim is self sufficiency.
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Posted by Capri-sunLol the cap I'm seeing asked what was up to after not seeing her for a good month in the past I said I've been hustling her eyes lit up lolPosted by Scorpio323OCPosted by Capri-sunWhat I do notice tho caps love hardworkers the more you work the better.
How important is money to you?
Very important
Would you chose money over love?
After elaborating on this question with shadowcat, it depends. Simple answer, no. I've been in the situation where my ex didn't work for 3 years, and I refuse to support a grown man who is fully capable of earning a living.
Ever been with someone purely for money?
No...well there was an old man that paid me to clean his apartment and keep him company when I was 16 if that counts.
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
Would I? No. Have I in the past? Yes, in 1st grade I was a clepto and stole people's lunch money out of their desks.
True. I work alot so it is nice when I find someone with a similar work ethic / passion.
My family has a running joke about how much we work...it's what I do best 😄
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Posted by ShadowcatOhh... lolPosted by MontgomeryHighschool, lunchtime I was picky but didn't have money(that was common fkr me). Still I refused to eat things that i dislike. One of the bake sale attendants was counting money, she dropped a dollar, I grabbed it before she noticed. Then I paid for a cookie with the dollar I stole.Posted by ShadowcatPosted by HarleyTwinFlame1. Extremely important. I have needs.
How important is money to you?
Would you chose money over love?
Ever been with someone purely for money?
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
2. I need more information. Actual love or infatuation? What kind of love(platonic, familial)
3. No. My aim is self sufficiency.
4. Yup.
😱
From whom did you steal the money?
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Posted by Capri-sunWhen cappys are stressed they work even more lolPosted by Scorpio323OCPosted by Capri-sunWhat I do notice tho caps love hardworkers the more you work the better.
How important is money to you?
Very important
Would you chose money over love?
After elaborating on this question with shadowcat, it depends. Simple answer, no. I've been in the situation where my ex didn't work for 3 years, and I refuse to support a grown man who is fully capable of earning a living.
Ever been with someone purely for money?
No...well there was an old man that paid me to clean his apartment and keep him company when I was 16 if that counts.
Would you or have you in the past stolen money?
Would I? No. Have I in the past? Yes, in 1st grade I was a clepto and stole people's lunch money out of their desks.
True. I work alot so it is nice when I find someone with a similar work ethic / passion.
My family has a running joke about how much we work...it's what I do best 😄
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Posted by ShadowcatYou're different lol what are your other placements?Posted by Scorpio323OCLol I'm actually not picky in that regard. We can be poor together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWith caps no money no hunny —
Talking with one of my besties, Cap sun Cap Venus
"If a man doesn't have money, then he sure as hell won't have me"
"Good dick with zero dollars equals shit"
We see a hot guy...
"But what I really wanna know is does he have money?"
Idk 😆
It's hilarious and she's always dead ass serious. BTW she's answered yes to all those questions
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Posted by Scorpio323OCHaha yupp my friend has said this tooPosted by ShadowcatJust stating facts I'm not poor nor rich but I love nice things and I do work hard for what I have same with the cap females I know with an exception of two. They told me straight up if you don't have money ? You're wasting your time and mines.Posted by Scorpio323OCLol I'm actually not picky in that regard. We can be poor together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWith caps no money no hunny —
Talking with one of my besties, Cap sun Cap Venus
"If a man doesn't have money, then he sure as hell won't have me"
"Good dick with zero dollars equals shit"
We see a hot guy...
"But what I really wanna know is does he have money?"
Idk 😆
It's hilarious and she's always dead ass serious. BTW she's answered yes to all those questions
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Posted by SeraphlightTrue
Why not ask the men?

Posted by cheekyfaerie🙂
No. I wanna be on food stamps and teach my kids to leech off the system. ?
I hate when people bring this up. Who here is a buddhist monk?
I need money to support my family. It's my job to instill a good work ethic in my kids. I don't choose objects over people. I'm no more materialistic than any other sign. Possibly even less so.

Posted by lnana04Intresting
Heck no Im not stealing money and NO Im not choosing money over love.
Lets speak of all the Cap women we know with guys that have a lot of money, which I dont personally know any of these type of Cap women. Even if the guy had money, are they not still good guys?
I think even if a Cap is a gold digger, character wil come first.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlamePosted by lnana04Intresting
Heck no Im not stealing money and NO Im not choosing money over love.
Lets speak of all the Cap women we know with guys that have a lot of money, which I dont personally know any of these type of Cap women. Even if the guy had money, are they not still good guys?
I think even if a Cap is a gold digger, character wil come first.
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Posted by UndauntedSoul88omg so true. lol
Some of these comments are funny. Some people carry a chip on their shoulder where Caps are concerned. I've said it many times here...self-imposed feelings of inadequacy can be a beast.
It's okay if you don't aspire to better or to be successful. To each their own, right?
From what I've seen, the people who call Caps money-hungry or materialistic tend to not have any capital of their own.
Posted by cheekyfaerieoh my god. lol irony!!! I was just posting about tiny homes hahaha. 😆Posted by tizianiHippy dippy me agrees with you. I'm secretly stalking wags thread about tiny houses and living off the grid. 😄Posted by cheekyfaerieI dunno, honestly I've been in phases in my life where I've just being doing something aimlessly.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameAfraid this is just another one of those stereotypes I don't feel I fit and I hope I'd be self aware enough to know the difference.Posted by cheekyfaerie🙂
No. I wanna be on food stamps and teach my kids to leech off the system. ?
I hate when people bring this up. Who here is a buddhist monk?
I need money to support my family. It's my job to instill a good work ethic in my kids. I don't choose objects over people. I'm no more materialistic than any other sign. Possibly even less so.
Its fun to ask random questions and see how many fit the stereotype.
Libras are fake
Cancers are moody
Capricorns love money
Yeah everyone wants money! But people's opinions when it comes to relationships or love differ.
Put me in camp Jahl. We can be poor together. But also let me clarify.
I don't have to hitch my wagon to money, but I WILL NOT hitch my wagon to aimlessness. You took less money to follow a passion? Great. You come from money so you don't *have* to have a job, but you do volunteer work? Awesome. Just do something. Be responsible. Have a plan. Exert effort. Like someone else said, character over money.
Ironically, learning how to do nothing at times and be content with who I am made me instantly a better family man and more useful, supportive to my family.
I get what you're saying in principle. Inertia can be an unhealthy feeling physically and mentally. And I have a healthy 24/7 stream of income by anyone's standards before anyone says anything, although I'm pants at saving capital.
There's life outside of goals, productivity and self-improvement that can be very rewarding for anyone's character.
That's my Jean Baudrillard moment over for the day.
I like what lnana said about even a golddigger looks for a good character to spend her life with. Makes you think.
Almost 10yrs of marriage to a dreamy Pisces who I had to support financially, emotionally and every other way with little reciprocation disagrees.
Take money out of the equation and the character part still stands. A good partner finds a way to contribute.
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Posted by cheekyfaerieyes i agree.Posted by lisabethur8Not to mention ecological. I like to make small footprints.Posted by UndauntedSoul88omg so true. lol
Some of these comments are funny. Some people carry a chip on their shoulder where Caps are concerned. I've said it many times here...self-imposed feelings of inadequacy can be a beast.
It's okay if you don't aspire to better or to be successful. To each their own, right?
From what I've seen, the people who call Caps money-hungry or materialistic tend to not have any capital of their own.
people always bitching about "other people's money" is hilarious. I'm like, what does it matter to you what they like?
maybe they are jealous that they love money? i don't get it.
money feeds you and your children, and you can buy beautiful things, good food, and be content, even if you're single. You will be happier if you're earthy.
I've seen people on youtube who live in small flats, small little one room apartments, with all the kitchen and bed in the same room, but they like it,
this is mostly in those cramped cities too. and they seem happy. if that's what they like, so what?![]()
or those cute one room mobile campers, i'm fascinated with DIY tiny homes, they are so cute and i like how people build them. i think it's because they are so economical and save a lot of money and that's what i like about people who build them. Their thoughts are always economical.
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Posted by aquanibI've done some pretty good research, and pre-nups are mainly /generally a female thing to do, especially if you're a rich,and or wealthy woman. Women in general are afraid of losing their money to men who might be predators.
Well, for what it's worth......i know a cap woman....used to bartend at the club where i was barman/manager...she worked two jobs at that time, never missed nothing, the money count was always correct and now she owns her own coffee place. It has good coffee but it's somewhat too far for me to go there regularly for a cup.
Admittedly, her parents helped her with the initial purchase of the venue....but still. If that wouldn't have been an option she'd rent the place.
If i was to name an outstanding feature of hers, it would be her Audi TT, bought at age 20 something, probably for her own money at that too as she isn't from a wealthy family (2nd gen daughter of immigrant blue collar workers). She is a bit of a man (not physically, but mentally), was always up for a highway race.
😄
As for the familiar stereotypes of women adhering to money....it's true for all signs imho. Such is life. That's why it is best to find someone who is your equal, make a prenup and not worry about "is she only using me for money".
Money is a guarantee of security and safety and it makes 99% of things better if you have it. There is no way around that. That is literally the bottom line and for all those who say money in unimportant, i laugh at them. On my way to the bank..... 😆
Some people just need more safety to feel safe, ergo.... mo' money.

Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWhat makes you think I'll support you—? ?Posted by Scorpio323OCHaha yupp my friend has said this tooPosted by ShadowcatJust stating facts I'm not poor nor rich but I love nice things and I do work hard for what I have same with the cap females I know with an exception of two. They told me straight up if you don't have money ? You're wasting your time and mines.Posted by Scorpio323OCLol I'm actually not picky in that regard. We can be poor together.Posted by HarleyTwinFlameWith caps no money no hunny —
Talking with one of my besties, Cap sun Cap Venus
"If a man doesn't have money, then he sure as hell won't have me"
"Good dick with zero dollars equals shit"
We see a hot guy...
"But what I really wanna know is does he have money?"
Idk 😆
It's hilarious and she's always dead ass serious. BTW she's answered yes to all those questions
How do you respond when women say that kind of stuff?
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Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by lisabethur8Ha. In the movie section, no less.Posted by cheekyfaerieyes i agree.Posted by lisabethur8Not to mention ecological. I like to make small footprints.Posted by UndauntedSoul88omg so true. lol
Some of these comments are funny. Some people carry a chip on their shoulder where Caps are concerned. I've said it many times here...self-imposed feelings of inadequacy can be a beast.
It's okay if you don't aspire to better or to be successful. To each their own, right?
From what I've seen, the people who call Caps money-hungry or materialistic tend to not have any capital of their own.
people always bitching about "other people's money" is hilarious. I'm like, what does it matter to you what they like?
maybe they are jealous that they love money? i don't get it.
money feeds you and your children, and you can buy beautiful things, good food, and be content, even if you're single. You will be happier if you're earthy.
I've seen people on youtube who live in small flats, small little one room apartments, with all the kitchen and bed in the same room, but they like it,
this is mostly in those cramped cities too. and they seem happy. if that's what they like, so what?![]()
or those cute one room mobile campers, i'm fascinated with DIY tiny homes, they are so cute and i like how people build them. i think it's because they are so economical and save a lot of money and that's what i like about people who build them. Their thoughts are always economical.
wags has a thread about living off the grid?? is there a forum here for that?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/movies/-life-off-grid--7067958/click to expand

Posted by lnana04Well said. I totally agree with thisPosted by HarleyTwinFlamePosted by lnana04Intresting
Heck no Im not stealing money and NO Im not choosing money over love.
Lets speak of all the Cap women we know with guys that have a lot of money, which I dont personally know any of these type of Cap women. Even if the guy had money, are they not still good guys?
I think even if a Cap is a gold digger, character wil come first.
🙂
Think about it. Many Cap women, whether the guy is rich or poor, is with pretty good guys. I think that says it all
Many of us dont do jack@sses, whether you have $ 2 or $ 2billion.
When people say that all it takes is money I shake my head, because so many with money are horrible people, and it's made to seem like we'd date a horrible person and get mistreated just because of the amount of money he has, which is completely not true.
You have to be a good person above ALL.
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Posted by aquanibThose who say money isn't important have never had to go without. That's a privileged mentality. Money literally equals life.
Well, for what it's worth......i know a cap woman....used to bartend at the club where i was barman/manager...she worked two jobs at that time, never missed nothing, the money count was always correct and now she owns her own coffee place. It has good coffee but it's somewhat too far for me to go there regularly for a cup.
Admittedly, her parents helped her with the initial purchase of the venue....but still. If that wouldn't have been an option she'd rent the place.
If i was to name an outstanding feature of hers, it would be her Audi TT, bought at age 20 something, probably for her own money at that too as she isn't from a wealthy family (2nd gen daughter of immigrant blue collar workers). She is a bit of a man (not physically, but mentally), was always up for a highway race.
😄
As for the familiar stereotypes of women adhering to money....it's true for all signs imho. Such is life. That's why it is best to find someone who is your equal, make a prenup and not worry about "is she only using me for money".
Money is a guarantee of security and safety and it makes 99% of things better if you have it. There is no way around that. That is literally the bottom line and for all those who say money in unimportant, i laugh at them. On my way to the bank..... 😆
Some people just need more safety to feel safe, ergo.... mo' money.

Posted by tizianiA prenup isn't about money. It's putting money in the dark and shining light on what is real between two humans.Posted by aquanibI'm saying a prenup doesn't have to be done out of fear. I am for prenups not against them. I think they can be structured from the outset with a view to protecting the relationship, not just protecting two people from each other. There's a kind of cynical vibe linked to prenups that ignores all the inclusive reasons for drawing one up.Posted by tizianiI don't think that works. When things start to really fall apart no lack of prenup in order for both to input their 100% would help. You're actually counting on relationship to continue in order to prove a point it wasn't about the money. At that point, it becomes about the money.
It doesn't even have to be done out of fear either. It can be done as an incentive for both people to stick together and not grow into a relationship that becomes a victim of its own success.
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Posted by tizianiLiberation was the word I was looking for! It takes out the 'gamble' too though. But with all gambling comes power to win and that doesn't sound beneficial.Posted by KaleesaThank you. You said it better. I don't know about the last part because it's more subjective than to be able to instantly talk about people's motivations for not signing one.Posted by tizianiA prenup isn't about money. It's putting money in the dark and shining light on what is real between two humans.Posted by aquanibI'm saying a prenup doesn't have to be done out of fear. I am for prenups not against them. I think they can be structured from the outset with a view to protecting the relationship, not just protecting two people from each other. There's a kind of cynical vibe linked to prenups that ignores all the inclusive reasons for drawing one up.Posted by tizianiI don't think that works. When things start to really fall apart no lack of prenup in order for both to input their 100% would help. You're actually counting on relationship to continue in order to prove a point it wasn't about the money. At that point, it becomes about the money.
It doesn't even have to be done out of fear either. It can be done as an incentive for both people to stick together and not grow into a relationship that becomes a victim of its own success.
Signing a prenup sounds sexy to me. It's a contract that basically gifts freedom! It allows two people to be as they are without fear that money could be a midden motivator.
It should release inhibition.
To not sign a prenup is more about the money than not signing it.
But everything else you said, I strongly agree. It's a scenario that pops up in game theory about human nature. I've forgotten what the specific game is called but it shows that two people can have conflicts of interests along the way.
A prenup is romantic to me. Liberates you both to build as much as success as you like together, without that success turning yours interests against one another.
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Posted by tizianiLike a twist on Juamjii. A commitment problem is a game we all play really. Sounds intriguing!Posted by KaleesaFunnily enough I just looked it up and in game theory it is called, appropriately enough: a commitment problem.
Liberation was the word I was looking for! It takes out the 'gamble' too though. But with all gambling comes power to win and that doesn't sound beneficial.
Please, Enlighten me if you remember the game name.
I can't find a game right now with the right scenario that takes it step by step through all the possible moves. If I do I'll post it.
But the underlying lesson of the game is just to show in human nature that preference matters more than words. The game actually shows that present commitments can actually ddirectly change each player's future preferences so they are either unable to commit at present, or will inevitably find gain in breaking their commitment in the future.
For both players to avoid getting into this game in the first place they need to put something in place that always makes sure they gain from playing together (prenup). It frees them from future commitment problems.
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