How to attract this Cappy girl

It was a match with this girl on a dating app. I met her after a few months in February and met her 5times since then. We had a really good time whenever we met and found that she was a lot similar to me in all respects.

During one of these meetings, she said that she is currently into her career and not in the dating app anymore.

I told her that i like her in June. She told that she was in a relationship with a guy before and things went really bad and she is still trying to get off it. She also said that she doesn't even know me well, and doesn't want to get into a relationship right now and wants to concentrate on her work. I responded to her saying that i just wanted to be true to her without hiding anything and hence i opened up to her.

Well, she still keeps in touch, we talk a lot on phone at least once in a week.

How should i get her attracted back to me? Should i use the "no contact" method for a week or two to create attraction?

I am head over heels for this girl, and i try not to show it much as i don't want to sound desperate. Please help, as I have no clue how to go about this.

I was also wondering why is she even in touch with me? does she like me but doesn't want to tell?

I am a Libra and Saggitarius as moon, i am ready to wait, but i haven't met her for two months now. Sometimes am not in the city, and the other times she is busy :/

I have asked her out like twice in the past two weeks, once she was caught up with her nephew's B'day, and the next saturday she forgot about it. Should i ask her out again or wait for her to come up with the idea to meetup ?

when you are really into someone, you wouldn't forget about a date with this person, would you?

the way i read it is that she already tried to let you down easy a few times by saying she is not into dating app or does not want to get into a relationship

most girls can be chased and convinced if you chase hard and long enough. she may give in and be with you for a while but if there is not enough attraction and chemistry, it won't last long. if it's what you want, continue your chase

if the attraction is not there in the first place, it will never be there. at least that how i am

i personally think to settle with someone you are not seriously attracted to is to set yourself up for breaking your commitment one day when someone you are undeniably attracted to come along. human beings are weak

Posted by iCloud9
i personally think to settle with someone you are not seriously attracted to is to set yourself up for breaking your commitment one day when someone you are undeniably attracted to come along. human beings are weak

this also means if you knowingly pursue and pursue someone who is lukewarm about you and finally get her, don't be surprised that one day she leaves you for another