Capi guy and cancer gal

Posted by ellessque
this thread is creepy.

that is all.

Posted by crabcakesandmayo
You gotta out-Cap the Cap. Which is essentially impossible so then you're left with option deux which I can't remember..

Posted by M
I guess the point of my story is walls go up and walls go down, but it's what's waiting on the other side of them that counts when it comes to this pairing.

Posted by FoxGlove
Lots of interesting answers on this thread... lol Ummm... I think these two signs are as (or more) irresistably drawn to each other than any other in the zodiac. The attraction is almost inexplicable -- they just feel like 'home' to each other. This can be true of Cap/Cancer suns, and also Cap/Cancer in certain placements in the charts. HOWEVER -- it's not going to be without its issues and drama. These two love each other, yes... but... they don't understand each other and they almost always use a different approach to things. They have to put in effort -- both of them. They have to both give more than 50% . The most common problem I hear of is that Cancer feels unloved and that Cappy isn't open and emotionally "available" -- where as Cap feels they're being pressured to be emotional when they're not and reveal things they aren't ready to -- and can come to think Cancer is too needy. I think this is a tough match -- but rewarding.

Posted by truecap
I love Cancers!!!! But they can be needy. However, mature cancers are great and have the right balance! I am emotionally drawn to them, I think. Have dated 4 (only one got on my nerves as needy) and my college roomie was Cancer - great roomie! And my BFF is Cancer - best friend I could have. Just beware of the full moons! lol! I personally, don't have any problems opening up to them. They are easy for me to talk to. I just get frustated when they try to avoid deep questions.

Posted by M
It's all potential though. Cards dealt and such. Life taught you both how you'll play them so we'll see how it goes.

Posted by CanceritaBonita
This relationship combo is affected by moods, timing, and differing communication style s. Cappy will think everything to death and Cancer will cry everything to death.

If a balance can be found and they each learn a bit about how the other "operates", then it makes for a wonderful and loving couple.

Posted by ElusiveSoul
Not to be a smart-ass here, but caps have issues opening up to anyone lololol 😛. I have to mess with my caps coz I adore their butts ( yes I said it ).

Cancer/cap relationships I have observed were successful with female cap and cancer male. Other way around always seems to fail. My current neighbors, she cap-him cancer, married for 25 years and still going strong. Jealous and possessive of each other as if they just met yesterday (quite endearing to see actually ).
All the other male/cap-cancer/female marriages I have encountered have failed miserably. Now, I'm not trying to discourage anyone here and it's not like I met thousands of them, but it was quite a few (including my x??s partners ). Mostly due to the fact that cancer women get fed up and seek emotional fulfillment somewhere else ( if you know what I mean ), which in turn set male caps off??_and poof, that's all she wrote !!!!

Posted by iwin32
Cancer + Capricorn =

Hey there thank you for your posts it's great to know the combo does work!!