Cappy/Sag relatioship

Im a sag born 12/7 but do not act like a sag, I have a ton of fire sign friends and have a ton of sags in my life, but I'm much more serious, its very weird and although relationships scare me, it's not the commitment that scares me but having to be open and emotional, i tend to attract a ton of cappys and am in a relatioship with a cappy, but get fustrated that he can be so aloof but I am the same way, my birth chart maybe this will help? Are there any things I can do to make him more open, we've been dating for 10 months, I've met one of his brothers but none of his friends, and i'm not sure why he wont introduce me to the other brother, I've never asked to meet his friends or family as I want him to want to do it and I never express or display my fustration, as I now know how to be patient thanks to this cappy, which I dont mind, since as the time has passed we see eachother often on weekdays and weekends and sometimes just spend a night with eachother to just see eachother, but he is so unaffectionate and distant that he makes me act like he does when all I really want to do is give him a big kiss when he opens the door and say I missed you, but I'm afraid I'll scare him, becuase I've been told capricorns dont like that stuff, then I think I'm so aloof that maybe he is reacting to my action. any advice?

Rising Sign is in 26 Degrees Capricorn
Sun is in 15 Degrees Sagittarius.
Moon is in 15 Degrees Virgo.
Mercury is in 25 Degrees Sagittarius.
Venus is in 23 Degrees Sagittarius.
Mars is in 27 Degrees Capricorn.
Jupiter is in 26 Degrees Scorpio.
Saturn is in 00 Degrees Scorpio.
Uranus is in 05 Degrees Sagittarius.
Neptune is in 26 Degrees Sagittarius.
Pluto is in 28 Degrees Libra.
N. Node is in 04 Degrees Cancer

The Cap in my life has the same Sun/Moon combo as yours. He is pretty unemotional also. In fact, I usually just get gifts. After he hands them to me he walks away. He doesn't even stick around to see my reaction.

So I told him that I need affection and to my surprise he said I need it too. I don't hug and kiss you because you don't hug and kiss me. It's hard to argue with logic.

The one thing Caps are ...LOGICAL.

you think he maybe playing me? when I met his brother his brother was the one who acted as though he had heard lots about me and both refrenced me as his GF, I know he rushed into a relatioship with me after only ending a serious relatioship a couple months prior to meeting me, I didn't know that at the time we started dating, he filled me in later and apparently it went really south, so I thought he was just being catious of getting hurt, which is what I am doing. Like i said Im reacting off of him so he has only met one of my friends, but I thinking about introducing him to one of my closest friends who is coming in town, to show him I am serious and trust him since he does know my last serious relatioship crushed me and it took me almost a year to date again, and he is the first guy I have dated since then. It never crossed my mind he could be seeing someone else, because I would think he would have told me and we both agreed to be exclusive. I really thought maybe i needed to take the lead on all the opening up and emtional stuff and he'd follow, but to do that and he possibly be playing me, scares me to death

Capgirl75 you are preaching to the chior, I'm a fire sign and very much used to be a relationship being more than where I am in 10 months, but he has taught me patience 🙂 and it doesnt help that he is aloof because its usually the man who makes me become less aloof when they express how they feel, but me and my cappy are alot a like in the aloof umemtional stance, he'll text me not to break my aloofness but i miss you or if im stressed and upset and become distant he needs reassurance its nothing he did. I'm going to go with my hunch and say he isnt seeing anyone, but I need to figure out how to break the aloofness and get him to open up

"Make him..."?

I hate when people want to control someone else to do something. Why don't YOU make yourself more open?