@eftn87
14 Years
CAPRICORN AND SAGGITARUIS BREAK UP
Understanding Capricorn and Sagittarius Breakup Dynamics
Capricorn and Sagittarius compatibility can be challenging due to differences in emotional needs and independence. Breakups often occur when trust and communication break down, especially if one partner seeks more stability while the other values freedom. Recognizing these patterns can help in understanding whether to pursue reconciliation or move on for growth.
It sounds to me as though you are focusing on the wrong question. Rather than —should I give up—, perhaps you should instead ask, —what am I trying to save—
-he was having sex with someone else while you were living with him as a roommate
-you became pregnant (whether by him or someone else is irrelevant) and he started/continued talking to multiple other girls
-he keeps telling you that he just wants to be friends
-he rarely communicates with you
-he tells you that you're socially needy/need too much attention/are high maintenance
-he's spending a lot of quality time with an ugly Aqua
I fail to note anything in the actions you have shared that indicates he has any desire to be with you. If there's one thing you do not need, it's to be smitten with someone who so clearly does not reciprocate your feelings.
Based on what you've shared, it sounds as though your best course of action is to ignore him and focus on getting over him. You have your own place now, so you're moving in the right direction. Your immediate focus should be on acquiring your own automobile so that you can give his back to him and then move on with your life.
I had a similar experience with my ex/roommate Sagittarius and he was terrible as a mate and could not get use to being in a relationship. He didn't want to let go of the single life. Believe me honey when they lose interest in you. It is definitely over.
So he told me a week ago that he's not completely over me.... but y'all think its really over?? Yea I guess I just need to let him go... its just sad I love him so much but I'm beginning to realize he doesn't feel the same...smh
Yeh dump his ass and get on with your life. Its over!
This pissed me off so much, what an idiot he is. He doesn't make you better girl he is hurting you. I have been there before, and once its over and you are able to get over him you will feel alot stronger. And the only reason you may be acting needy is because he isnt giving you the attention you deserve...Get that car back too! ICe him out your a Cap i know you will be good at that.
Yea I'm trying y'all... he still texts me but ever since this past Monday I haven't been responding ... it's hard because I pay the car note and its in his name.. and we share insurance because under his name its cheaper .... I'm trying not to respond to his texts because I'm tired of letting him known how hurt I am and for him to still continue to hurt me....
We can point fingers at him and yes he is wrong for alot, but at the end of the day we have to be responsible for our selves. I think that you should now focus on getting yourself together and get from under his wing. (i.e Car and insurance in his name) You are gonna have to otherwise you are still tied to him somehow. Don't take this man back
he is messed up and if you think he hurt you go back he will have more. Plain and simple.
I know it's just I don't want to give up this car because I've paid for everything and the insurance part I'm working on... I'm not going to let him back in because he just wants to use me... I just can't believe he'd put another chick before me.. I've invested 2 years in this man and now he just wants to be friends? !
"I just can't believe he'd put another chick before me."
Girl, please he has shown you who he is please believe him. I would not be
surprised at anything he does.
"I've invested 2 years in this man and now he just wants to be friends?"
SMH!! Thank your lucky Stars..He could have wifed you and really took you for
a loop..
Wow... I always ask myself why did he get this car in his name if he didn't love me? How can someone fall out of love so easily? If I keep ignoring him being that he's a saggitaruis will he just back off completely? This sucks...I'm so good to him....
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Wow... I always ask myself why did he get this car in his name if he didn't love me? How can someone fall out of love so easily? If I keep ignoring him being that he's a saggitaruis will he just back off completely? This sucks...I'm so good to him....Get the car in your name and "give it to her"= control. She goes places where you can always just
say "bitch if I catch you steppin out...it's gone"...or "look what I do for you. I buy a car and let you drive it. You are number one in my harem."
What part of that is love? Smhclick to expand
Hmm that's why I got him to sign ppw that he can never try to take the car from me... I just don't. See why someone would go thru all this trouble to control me but they want nothing to do w me...what do u think will happen if I keep ignoring him?
Posted by eftn87
Wow... I always ask myself why did he get this car in his name if he didn't love me? How can someone fall out of love so easily? If I keep ignoring him being that he's a saggitaruis will he just back off completely? This sucks...I'm so good to him....Get the car in your name and "give it to her"= control. She goes places where you can always just
say "bitch if I catch you steppin out...it's gone"...or "look what I do for you. I buy a car and let you drive it. You are number one in my harem."
What part of that is love? Smhclick to expand
Hmm that's why I got him to sign ppw that he can never try to take the car from me... I just don't. See why someone would go thru all this trouble to control me but they want nothing to do w me...what do u think will happen if I keep ignoring him?
I am listening on Sunday I went over his house and brought him a plate of my cooking ... it disturbed me that he just got back from a champion ship bb game that he told me he'd invite me to...I was like damn u didn't even invite me...he was like..my badd and etc..it was 11 pm and his phone ringed and I saw it was that ugly girl I then smiled and said I was going home...gave him a church hug and left... since then he's been texting my phone and I haven't been responding .. I don't want him to know I'm hurt... I will have to keep the same number and etc because of the car... I just wonder what he will do if I keep ignoring him...
I was just asking from a males perspective of a typica
lly sag male
"I am listening on Sunday I went over his house and brought him a plate of my cooking"
He is always gonna keep dogging you..you dont reward for bad behavior..This is about you not him..
Once you learn to love yourself realize some self worth get your self esteem in order then you will be
free from him.
I was just asking from a males perspective of a typica
lly sag male
Posted by eftn87
I am listening on Sunday I went over his house and brought him a plate of my cooking ... it disturbed me that he just got back from a champion ship bb game that he told me he'd invite me to...I was like damn u didn't even invite me...he was like..my badd and etc..it was 11 pm and his phone ringed and I saw it was that ugly girl I then smiled and said I was going home...gave him a church hug and left... since then he's been texting my phone and I haven't been responding .. I don't want him to know I'm hurt... I will have to keep the same number and etc because of the car... I just wonder what he will do if I keep ignoring him...
dont worry about what he will do, and no one here can predict what will happen based off his sun sign. DO YOU!!
Posted by eftn87
I am listening on Sunday I went over his house and brought him a plate of my cooking ... it disturbed me that he just got back from a champion ship bb game that he told me he'd invite me to...I was like damn u didn't even invite me...he was like..my badd and etc..it was 11 pm and his phone ringed and I saw it was that ugly girl I then smiled and said I was going home...gave him a church hug and left... since then he's been texting my phone and I haven't been responding .. I don't want him to know I'm hurt... I will have to keep the same number and etc because of the car... I just wonder what he will do if I keep ignoring him...click to expanddont worry about what he will do, and no one here can predict what will happen based off his sun sign. DO YOU!!
Posted by eftn87
The worst break up ever... Help
Ok this is a long story .... me and my ex had an okay relationship ...it seemed to go downhill once I moved in with him and he got a car for me in his name. I'm a Capricorn -Saggitaruis cusp and he's a Saggitaruis -scorpio cusp....30 days after he got the car for me in his name he broke up with me because he needed his space..so I moved in with my mother for 3 months but that didn't last... I then had to move back in with him cause I had no where to go... While I was there him and I agreed to not speak or have sex with anyone else..I found out he was having sex w someone .. I ended up forgiving him we got back together for 1 week then I broke up with him because he wasn't trying to change for me as I tried everything to make him happy ... I ended up pregnant ...I moved out and got my own apartment ... I ended up getting an abortion because he was calling or keeping in contact with me like he should have..he was and still talking to multiple girls ... he keeps telling me that he just wants to be friends and once we overcome the past we can be together ..he hates talking about our relationship ..he never calls he just texts every now and then..he always tells me I need too much attention ..I just don't know what to do... my gut tells me to ignore him and then he will miss me and come back...but then I'm scared if I ignore him he will just forget about me...the reason I care so much is because he makes me better and I just don't understand why he does this to me... I feel like because I have this car in his name he thinks ill always be around ...help!!!
I also have to add that I'm a very attractive female ..I have my own place now... now I found out he lost his job and he is spending alot of quality time with this ugly Aquarius ...should I give up?
"I also have to add that I'm a very attractive female " Thats a matter of opinion
I am attractive and way better than the girls he messes with
Are you a sagittarius or Capricorn?
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Posted by eftn87
The worst break up ever... Help
Ok this is a long story .... me and my ex had an okay relationship ...it seemed to go downhill once I moved in with him and he got a car for me in his name. I'm a Capricorn -Saggitaruis cusp and he's a Saggitaruis -scorpio cusp....30 days after he got the car for me in his name he broke up with me because he needed his space..so I moved in with my mother for 3 months but that didn't last... I then had to move back in with him cause I had no where to go... While I was there him and I agreed to not speak or have sex with anyone else..I found out he was having sex w someone .. I ended up forgiving him we got back together for 1 week then I broke up with him because he wasn't trying to change for me as I tried everything to make him happy ... I ended up pregnant ...I moved out and got my own apartment ... I ended up getting an abortion because he was calling or keeping in contact with me like he should have..he was and still talking to multiple girls ... he keeps telling me that he just wants to be friends and once we overcome the past we can be together ..he hates talking about our relationship ..he never calls he just texts every now and then..he always tells me I need too much attention ..I just don't know what to do... my gut tells me to ignore him and then he will miss me and come back...but then I'm scared if I ignore him he will just forget about me...the reason I care so much is because he makes me better and I just don't understand why he does this to me... I feel like because I have this car in his name he thinks ill always be around ...help!!!
I also have to add that I'm a very attractive female ..I have my own place now... now I found out he lost his job and he is spending alot of quality time with this ugly Aquarius ...should I give up?
"I also have to add that I'm a very attractive female " Thats a matter of opinion
I am attractive and way better than the girls he messes with
Are you a sagittarius or Capricorn?
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Looks arent the most important factor. Don't ever think that your beauty alone will be what keeps a guy. Your worth shouldn't lie in your looks for they are only temporary.
So true ... I know but I'm pretty I'm independent I can cook provide and alot more..but yet he chooses a ugly girl with no job over me
Posted by eftn87
So true ... I know but I'm pretty I'm independent I can cook provide and alot more..but yet he chooses a ugly girl with no job over me
Maybe becuase despite her shortcomings that girl knows her worth, thus making her more attractive in his eyes. Its doesnt matter how she looks, how broke she is your are not in competition with her. The only way to win this one is to walk away with your sanity.
And fyi its not her confidence ..and yes she is ugly I saw her naked... he says its because its something different ... idk about what y'all men are posting because yalls opinions don't matter
And I'm not highmaintanece.. I buy him clothes put food on his table.. pay his bills he never even got my nails done ever...but I know I'm beautiful and I will repeat it over and over again
Posted by eftn87
And I'm not highmaintanece.. I buy him clothes put food on his table.. pay his bills he never even got my nails done ever...but I know I'm beautiful and I will repeat it over and over again
He loves what you do for him.....lets see when you stop doing those things how he feels
Posted by eftn87
And I'm not highmaintanece.. I buy him clothes put food on his table.. pay his bills he never even got my nails done ever...but I know I'm beautiful and I will repeat it over and over againHe loves what you do for him.....lets see when you stop doing those things how he feels
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Yea because I'm done... I just had a reality check... he never loved me... I was in love by my damn self.. that other chick can have him. I'm a good woman and I will continue to ignore his ass and not show him that I'm upset. I deserve way more than what he offers and I'm tired of trying to make him happy because now that I think about it ..deep down inside he doesn't make me happy ... so I'm okay with being alone and by myself and I will make sure this never happens again... thanks y'all for posting ..today is day 4 of no contact ..and ima keep it that way...
Posted by eftn87
And I'm not highmaintanece.. I buy him clothes put food on his table.. pay his bills he never even got my nails done ever...but I know I'm beautiful and I will repeat it over and over againHe loves what you do for him.....lets see when you stop doing those things how he feels
Yea because I'm done... I just had a reality check... he never loved me... I was in love by my damn self.. that other chick can have him. I'm a good woman and I will continue to ignore his ass and not show him that I'm upset. I deserve way more than what he offers and I'm tired of trying to make him happy because now that I think about it ..deep down inside he doesn't make me happy ... so I'm okay with being alone and by myself and I will make sure this never happens again... thanks y'all for posting ..today is day 4 of no contact ..and ima keep it that way...
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You got it!! good luck girl 🙂
lmao @ church hug.
"I buy him clothes put food on his table.. pay his bills"
WOW!!! Keep telling women bout doing all these wifely things and not his wife..
I know real men that will let a woman cook for him, I know real men that will be
happy if a woman buys him a shirt or hat, some cuff links ect..
BUT I don't know any real men that would be okay with his woman paying his bills..
You have alot to learn..
😉
Posted by eftn87
And I'm not highmaintanece.. I buy him clothes put food on his table.. pay his bills he never even got my nails done ever...but I know I'm beautiful and I will repeat it over and over again
What a mess! I don't understand why you are doing all this shit?!!?
I'm not anymore .. I'm done with him
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The worst break up ever
... Help
Ok this is a long story .... me and my ex had an okay relationship ...it seemed to go downhill once I moved in with him and he got a car for me in his name. I'm a Capricorn -Saggitaruis cusp and he's a Saggitaruis -scorpio cusp....30 days after he got the car for me in his name he broke up with me because he needed his space..so I moved in with my mother for 3 months but that didn't last... I then had to move back in with him cause I had no where to go... While I was there him and I agreed to not speak or have sex with anyone else..I found out he was having sex w someone .. I ended up forgiving him we got back together for 1 week then I broke up with him because he wasn't trying to change for me as I tried everything to make him happy ... I ended up pregnant ...I moved out and got my own apartment ... I ended up getting an abortion because he was calling or keeping in contact with me like he should have..he was and still talking to multiple girls ... he keeps telling me that he just wants to be friends and once we overcome the past we can be together ..he hates talking about our relationship ..he never calls he just texts every now and then..he always tells me I need too much attention ..I just don't know what to do... my gut tells me to ignore him and then he will miss me and come back...but then I'm scared if I ignore him he will just forget about me...the reason I care so much is because he makes me better and I just don't understand why he does this to me... I feel like because I have this car in his name he thinks ill always be around ...help!!!
I also have to add that I'm a very attractive female ..I have my own place now... now I found out he lost his job and he is spending alot of quality time with this ugly Aquarius ...should I give up?