i a capricorn venus sag/hes a sag venus capricorn

I turn to u all for helpful opinions; as I usually do when I'm makin a decision to break it off wit someone.
he's great, but I don't KNO if he just wanted to see if he could get me, or not and since he got the challenge conquered , maybe done.
I like him a lot,so maybe I have just been tripping. He has moon in sag as well. The rest of his chart matches mine with mainly the same aspects. I KNO Capricorn in Venus are shy in love, so I try harder to make him comfortable wit;but he approached me which is how this relationship struckup....
Any opinions
SMFH, cuz I don't really KNO what to do

Sun Sagittarius 3.41

Moon Sagittarius 19.56

Mercury Scorpio 25.08 R

Venus Capricorn 14.35

Mars Cancer 27.32

Jupiter Libra 8.52

Saturn Aquarius 13.11

Uranus Capricorn 15.41

Neptune Capricorn 17.07

Pluto Scorpio 23.20

Lilith Pisces 4.30

Asc node Sagittarius 21.28
That's his

This mine
Sun Capricorn 28.30 Ascendant Libra 3.09

Moon Virgo 13.20 II Libra 28.48

Mercury Aquarius 2.42 III Scorpio 29.21

Venus Sagittarius 11.41 IV Capricorn 3.48

Mars Aries 7.26 V Aquarius 8.02

Jupiter Pisces 20.42 VI Pisces 8.08

Saturn Sagittarius 17.18 VII Aries 3.09

Uranus Sagittarius 24.38 VIII Aries 28.48

Neptune Capricorn 6.22 IX Taurus 29.21

Pluto Scorpio 9.48 Midheaven Cancer 3.48

Lilith Cancer 6.22 XI Leo 8.02

Asc node Aries 14.54 XII Virgo 8.08

he's great, but I don't KNO if he just wanted to see if he could get me, or not and since he got the challenge conquered , maybe done.

If it seems/feels like this to you, then it probably is.

i found that men with a cap venus are SLOW in love. super duper slow. he is also kinda close to being a scorp sun, so he is quite reserved, he does have sun/pluto aspect.

theyre slow but super faithful. have u asked him if he wants something more?

Posted by DMV
i found that men with a cap venus are SLOW in love. super duper slow. he is also kinda close to being a scorp sun, so he is quite reserved, he does have sun/pluto aspect.

theyre slow but super faithful. have u asked him if he wants something more?

He says that he is really into me, and that I KNO he's feeling me.
He says he is flurry, but he is not messing with anyone other than I and he has trust issues, so it .makes it harder for him to lower his guard.
Also, says he really likes bein around me cuzz he loves my personality an I'm cool to chill with.

He's said other things but how do I know I can trust it

Posted by DMV
i found that men with a cap venus are SLOW in love. super duper slow. he is also kinda close to being a scorp sun, so he is quite reserved, he does have sun/pluto aspect.

theyre slow but super faithful. have u asked him if he wants something more?

Dxp sent before I was done. He says he wanna settledown and be with one person (me)
Wants me to go with the flow, be patient with him, give free time(which I have no problems with that; unless I'm gettin no time)
Doesn't want fake from me. Wants me to just trust him

i say you should believe him and go with the flow.

I like that answer dmv, cuz the last few dayz I haven't called him, so he called me last nite & said damn baby what's goin on, u don't fwm no mo do ya, so I was like the pot can't call the kettle black and he say he was a little mad at me cuz of that; in a joking, but serious way. I had been on fb posting statutes all of those days, so he knew I could have called. He also to me that he thought I had let him go, and I pulled one of his moves, so I said o do not run up behind no man and he says its not running up behind he's my man, * we together.
So Idk but I c he wants to have me adore him how other girls do.

But I don't & it bugz him.
The placements we have say he's attracted to me and I don't KNO for real cuz the chemistry is too magnetic to explain. All the girls I KNO say to not get deep feelings for him cuz he ain't ready for all that; plus he is a flirt, so am I . I just do wat he does and he gives me a reaction , he don't like it.

Posted by 24capgal18
I like that answer dmv, cuz the last few dayz I haven't called him, so he called me last nite & said damn baby what's goin on, u don't fwm no mo do ya, so I was like the pot can't call the kettle black and he say he was a little mad at me cuz of that; in a joking, but serious way. I had been on fb posting statutes all of those days, so he knew I could have called. He also to me that he thought I had let him go, and I pulled one of his moves, so I said o do not run up behind no man and he says its not running up behind he's my man, * we together.
So Idk but I c he wants to have me adore him how other girls do.

cool beans. youve gauged his level of interest. thats really good and reassuring for you i bet. believe him 100% . although every now and then, keep him on his toes 🙂

Posted by 24capgal18
But I don't & it bugz him.
The placements we have say he's attracted to me and I don't KNO for real cuz the chemistry is too magnetic to explain. All the girls I KNO say to not get deep feelings for him cuz he ain't ready for all that; plus he is a flirt, so am I . I just do wat he does and he gives me a reaction , he don't like it.

its because he isnt expressive in his feelings. thats a tall order for a venus cappy. i say with any sag man, keep one eye open. set boundaries with his flirting early one but give him his space. he is a very independent men.

Thank for that advice; its really assuring to have that knowledge to correspond to my observation.
I said somethings to him about the flirting, but he tells me I'm tripping, so I calmed it down a tad, to only have him crank back up, so I started doin the exact same thing. Then I noticed earlier today when he an I talke, we were on the subject about my music, and weather I should do it myself or sell lyrics as a ghost writer, I perferr someone else to do em, cause I don't really wanna be a rapper,then I said I do like a lot of attention; but I'm not an attention whore. He said I know, after that statement. I can tell he'd been on my Facebook pg, from that comment even though he won't admit it.

But y do u say I have his attention, believe him 100% , keep 1 eye on him and keep him on his toes?I ask cause I have been unable to really tell where we stand , but everytime I doubt us he just does somethin that touches me so deep that I can not even remember y I was upset wit him on the first place; although I don't forget it. He also tells me that he don't understand y I feel this way, and he really isn't expressful like that; like u said, and astrology.

One more thing from our charts, does our placements look like the pairing of two individuals that could make it?
I did the compatibility test on cafeastrology.com and it says we have a bond that can't be broken and we have all positive and challenging aspects. I see the challenges; I seen those immediately.
My Venus match his sun, his Venus match my sun. My sun/moon earth elements, his sun/moon both fire element. Both our lilth are water signs;I fond fascinating, and Neptune n Capricorn is a placement everyone close to me has, I Love how our charts click and how me & him click; except the downside. Why does every thing that seems great have to have a glitch?

what i mean is, you cant get comfortable around a sag. we bore easily. if you need to keep getting assured through spoken word, a venus in cap isnt for you.

in regards to the compatability, no matter what it says you cant make someone fall in love with you. that has to happen naturally.

just go with the flow, if you cant, throw him back.

I don't think Cap venus will play games. They're pretty honest and true!

Posted by truecap
I don't think Cap venus will play games. They're pretty honest and true!

I also agree but the fact that he's a sag frightened me.. we had a talk earlier about us, the firtin, respect and boundaries, so Idk,; I do KNO I bothered him so much with wat happened today that he called to try to get it rite , but he is always mixing me up cuz I don't KNO wat to expect ; & I don't wanna just be wasting my time on someone who's playing; u & every one else helped me out with your advice. Thank, any other opinions about us got guys?