Nouran20
@Nouran20
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capricorn and aquarius mix?
The good seems to be that the Cap will have someone interesting to talk to and someone to connect on a mental level with. Plus there seems to be something about the unpredictable Aqua that appeals to the Cap yet drives him/her crazy at the same time. Aqua women can be very ambitious and dont really care about traditional roles etc. Like the women wont care about paying for a meal, or driving the guy around, or just being aggressive, so I think its also the masuline(aqua)/feminine(cap) thing too.The more "traditional" cap male seems to end up being a little less traditional, and Aqua can spoil the Cap with their loyalty to stick by him thru thick and thin and initiate or take the lead in many ways.
This is from what Ive seen atleast.
The bad is the flipside of everything good I mentioned lol. It can all be good and all drive a Cap crazy at the same time. Caps seem to drive Aquas crazy too. My mom and her relationship with her Cap is one of the funniest looking back. He is the "serious" type of Cap too, and she is the crazy Aqua. They couldve had their own reality show or somethin.
This is from what Ive seen atleast.
The bad is the flipside of everything good I mentioned lol. It can all be good and all drive a Cap crazy at the same time. Caps seem to drive Aquas crazy too. My mom and her relationship with her Cap is one of the funniest looking back. He is the "serious" type of Cap too, and she is the crazy Aqua. They couldve had their own reality show or somethin.
I agree with both must be evolved. I've been with an aqua for the last 11 months. So far, so good. I think the success depends on the other placements in each sign. My aqua has a lot of earth in his chart and I have a little bit of air, and we both have some water, so perhaps that makes a difference as well.
The good: Neither smothers the other. Both need space and both are okay with and comfortable with minimum communication. They don't need to spend every minute of every day together. They are both social and at the same time can be home bodies. There is intellegent conversation and a positive exchange of ideas where open mindedness is appreciated. There is enough aloofness in both to maintain mystery and excitement while driving each other crazy with wondering what the other is thinking or up to. Trust and honesty are respected by both signs and this usually isn't a problem (unless one or both are unevolved). The aqua brings "fun" to the cap and the cap brings stability and groundedness to the aqua. They can be considered the super couple as in aqua has forward thinking ideas and the cap has the follow through to bring those ideas to fruitation.
The neutral: Communication is not always easy, as neither are comfortable sharing emotions and feelings (this isn't necessarily bad because neither feels pressured, but can turn negative if it leads to a small amount of insecurity in the other).
The bad: The aqua is more free spirited and adventurous than the cap which can make the cap nervous and the cap could be boring to the aqua (this seems reversed in our case, lol!). After the cap realizes they absolutely love and trust the aqua, the aqua can still remain aloof, which will drive the cap bonkers. The aqua can fustrate the cap with distance and slowness, because once the cap decides to love and give 100% and is all in, the aqua is still aloof and the cap will grow impatient "waiting" on the aqua to come around.
I'll probably come up with more, but those are my thoughts so far.
The good: Neither smothers the other. Both need space and both are okay with and comfortable with minimum communication. They don't need to spend every minute of every day together. They are both social and at the same time can be home bodies. There is intellegent conversation and a positive exchange of ideas where open mindedness is appreciated. There is enough aloofness in both to maintain mystery and excitement while driving each other crazy with wondering what the other is thinking or up to. Trust and honesty are respected by both signs and this usually isn't a problem (unless one or both are unevolved). The aqua brings "fun" to the cap and the cap brings stability and groundedness to the aqua. They can be considered the super couple as in aqua has forward thinking ideas and the cap has the follow through to bring those ideas to fruitation.
The neutral: Communication is not always easy, as neither are comfortable sharing emotions and feelings (this isn't necessarily bad because neither feels pressured, but can turn negative if it leads to a small amount of insecurity in the other).
The bad: The aqua is more free spirited and adventurous than the cap which can make the cap nervous and the cap could be boring to the aqua (this seems reversed in our case, lol!). After the cap realizes they absolutely love and trust the aqua, the aqua can still remain aloof, which will drive the cap bonkers. The aqua can fustrate the cap with distance and slowness, because once the cap decides to love and give 100% and is all in, the aqua is still aloof and the cap will grow impatient "waiting" on the aqua to come around.
I'll probably come up with more, but those are my thoughts so far.
Oh, and aqua appreciates caps directness.
Oh, If the cap becomes controlling or pushy, the aqua will bolt, as the aqua refuses to be controlled or pressured.
I hear ya SirB. I'm beginning to think the super couple is more for a business relationship, than a love relationship. Makes more sense.
And yeah, I said caps were aloof. Perhaps a better word is shielded. Difference is once the cap takes their shields off, the aqua is still going to be aloof. That's going to frustrate the cap. We're going to be open and unshielded ready to go and the aqua will be up in the clouds somewhere. I think they need to be roped in occasionally and brought back to reality and we are good at that. I don't think a fire or water sign would be too good for them.
I've dated three aquas in my life and they are each different, however, there are some similarities as well.
My aqua is aloof at times and he isn't willing to share emotions/feelings too much. That bothers me occasionally. But other than that I have no complaints. He hasn't done any of the typical crazy aqua stuff. His chart is predominantly virgo (although he's an aqua sun) and mine is predominant cap. I wonder if that balances out to the traditional cap/virgo connection?? — We're also older and more evolved, I think, so that could make a difference as well.
lol @ the communism comment. For the greater good.... yep, I can see that! lol!
And yeah, I said caps were aloof. Perhaps a better word is shielded. Difference is once the cap takes their shields off, the aqua is still going to be aloof. That's going to frustrate the cap. We're going to be open and unshielded ready to go and the aqua will be up in the clouds somewhere. I think they need to be roped in occasionally and brought back to reality and we are good at that. I don't think a fire or water sign would be too good for them.
I've dated three aquas in my life and they are each different, however, there are some similarities as well.
My aqua is aloof at times and he isn't willing to share emotions/feelings too much. That bothers me occasionally. But other than that I have no complaints. He hasn't done any of the typical crazy aqua stuff. His chart is predominantly virgo (although he's an aqua sun) and mine is predominant cap. I wonder if that balances out to the traditional cap/virgo connection?? — We're also older and more evolved, I think, so that could make a difference as well.
lol @ the communism comment. For the greater good.... yep, I can see that! lol!
Posted by Marrakesha
I could be wrong, but this seems like a really bad mix. They seem too different and I don't see any warmth or affection or hot sex/steam between the two. Seems rather drafty and cold.
Oh, LOTS of affection and some of the best, most amazing sex ever!!! Kinky good fun!
Posted by SirB
I bad mouth Aquas, but in reality they are one of the "truest" friends anyone can have. That is, when they are around...
I have a good friend who is an Aqua. We've had our share of rifts many times but they are loyal and will help you out anytime you ask. I can share a foxhole with an Aqua. I'd go to war with one. But will i marry an Aqua or try a personal relationship again? NAH HELL no...
Lol!!
"hey buddy if we make it out alive, what say we tie the knot?"
^.^ typical cap guy :
Posted by LoversInLove3
Really?
I've never known my Aqua friend to be erratic or flaky (he always stick to plans and tries to be straightforward if he forgets, which is rare), the guy is so reliable he makes me look like I'm UNRELIABLE.
Mine, too! Very stable, dependable and reliable. Does what he says he will do.
Lol!!!! Nope!! He took me to the gun range one time, and he did see my target when I got done! lol! 😉
I think with Aquas it depends a lot on their other placements.
I know one that is very, very airy and he is like what some of you describe. I know one that is very watery, and believe it or not, that is not afraid to show emotions and feelings. Mine is very earthy, so he seems more grounded. Each and every one is different.
With aquas, one is not like the other.
I think with Aquas it depends a lot on their other placements.
I know one that is very, very airy and he is like what some of you describe. I know one that is very watery, and believe it or not, that is not afraid to show emotions and feelings. Mine is very earthy, so he seems more grounded. Each and every one is different.
With aquas, one is not like the other.
Posted by SirB
it's not bad nor is it good. It's, "neutral." (in my opinion before someone flips out)
Both people MUST be evolved for it to progress correctly. There are no short cuts. If one is evolved and the other isn't, it'll be 100% frustrating.
Plus stuff: fun factor high. The two will hit the town and live it up. Both are sociable, will like that aspect.
Negative stuff: The water bearer will detach when they shouldn't. They'll go off into their spaceship or whatever corny thing Aquas call it and completely disappear when they are needed in the relationship or when the relationship needs to progress, or finalize. The Cap will resent this and Caps "sharp sensitivity" will take a hit. There goes up another wall for the Cap. The Aqua will have no clue what they did as they are usually 98% logic, 2% heart/emotions. Wow i gave it 2% i must be in a good mood.
Am i talking from experience? yup.
I've seen Aquas compensate for their lack of emotional depth and turn the relationship into a friendship. I've seen an Aqua female totally turn a Scorpio male into best friends and ditch the "real" part of the relationship. It's soooo bizarre...it's almost tragic how that happens. Like a really sad & tragic Shakespeare play.
there's my 2 cents worth. The other 3 cents says dont bother with this combo. Be friends or friends with benefits.
-semi-sextile signs can work. I just dont see any real "fulfillment" in any semi-sextile relationship unless there is a marriage union where things are layed out for the future.
-Air will dry out the Earth, a tornado will leave Earth all confused and wrecked. There's no way to contain air. It's interesting to say the least. Advantage here: Aquarius.
I totally and strongly agree/support ur comment. It all makes perfect sense. Dont think an aqua can satisfy earth signs anyway. Also aqua will get more confused as they can only c one thing in their life which is freedom and they would kill/lose/break anything or anyone for it.
Posted by Nouran20Posted by SirB
it's not bad nor is it good. It's, "neutral." (in my opinion before someone flips out)
Both people MUST be evolved for it to progress correctly. There are no short cuts. If one is evolved and the other isn't, it'll be 100% frustrating.
Plus stuff: fun factor high. The two will hit the town and live it up. Both are sociable, will like that aspect.
Negative stuff: The water bearer will detach when they shouldn't. They'll go off into their spaceship or whatever corny thing Aquas call it and completely disappear when they are needed in the relationship or when the relationship needs to progress, or finalize. The Cap will resent this and Caps "sharp sensitivity" will take a hit. There goes up another wall for the Cap. The Aqua will have no clue what they did as they are usually 98% logic, 2% heart/emotions. Wow i gave it 2% i must be in a good mood.
Am i talking from experience? yup.
I've seen Aquas compensate for their lack of emotional depth and turn the relationship into a friendship. I've seen an Aqua female totally turn a Scorpio male into best friends and ditch the "real" part of the relationship. It's soooo bizarre...it's almost tragic how that happens. Like a really sad & tragic Shakespeare play.
there's my 2 cents worth. The other 3 cents says dont bother with this combo. Be friends or friends with benefits.
-semi-sextile signs can work. I just dont see any real "fulfillment" in any semi-sextile relationship unless there is a marriage union where things are layed out for the future.
-Air will dry out the Earth, a tornado will leave Earth all confused and wrecked. There's no way to contain air. It's interesting to say the least. Advantage here: Aquarius.
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whats a semi-textile relationship??
Posted by SirB
Truecap, i once thought about Aquas and Caps being a super couple myself, i think i even agreed with you once before. But after much, much, much reflective thinking, i think that statement is false. Of course, that is my opinion and i haven't been in a real long term relationship with an Aqua(as you are in). I did "see" that super couple statement while I was dating one. I think that "super couple" refers to that both Aqua and Cap are future thinkers and progressive people. But a super couple is more like a 3-11 combo. Like Gemini & Libra, Capricorn & Pisces...
Also, Caps aren't as aloof as we say. We only do it sort things out and return when we must. Aquas, they just go off into the air and dont give a sht about anything, anyone but themselves. I consider Aquas a personal(selfish)sign and shouldn't be considered one of the last 4 "transpersonal signs."
Humanitarians? LOL. Communism is more like it. Communism was an Aquarius idea. That's why in communism, an individual, isn't.
Ask the late Kim Jong Il...
Yup I TOTALLY agree with this again. Mine was super selfish. He would go out for daaaays, see friends, go smoking, do business BUT never ever make time for me. And after a long time of patience and waiting when he finally comes to talk to me he only spends half a minute and run off again..I felt sad cuz I really dont think any of us would mind if an aqua goes aloof HOWEVER they should also give like they take within the relationship
They gota learn to make time for their partner. Be more fair.
Just like I gave him the attention he needed when he asked for it I also have the right to get the same amount of care/attention
dont u all agree?
Posted by 88NPPISCES
You cant plan things with the Aquas. they wont show up.
My sis and I said were going hiking at 6 PM when the sun went down because I get migrane headaches if it is too bright.
she agreed, left to get her nails done, then came back in a weird bad mood demanding I get up and go hiking NOW!!. I refused because we had made plans and my mind was all set for that time and she had to understand a migrane headache kills me. (Erratic aqua style )
she didn't care, sat down gave it to me really good, made me cry. She got really mean.
left hiking by herself, comes back like nothing happened inviting me to the pizza place to take her son. I was feeling so low and dissapointed so I refused to go, and to never go hiking with her for a long long time.
She is married to a CAPRICORN
she is also dating a younger LIbra cusp and she is having lots of fun.
Libra has fallen for her, & she does not have any feelings for anyone. She cares for both but does not want to hurt their feelings she says.. lol
OH MY..shes dating someone while shes married?? did i get that right?
can someone tell me what this aqua's natal chart says about him?? I tried asking so many ppl here but many dont know the whole planet interpretation thing but i guess a few of u here might know something
Take a look:
Sun:27?? 49' in Aquarius
Moon:10?? 52' in Cancer
Mercury:01?? 30' in Aquarius
Venus:16?? 01' in Aquarius
Mars:16?? 16' in Taurus
Jupiter:27?? 24' in Taurus
Saturn:10?? 34' in Capricorn
Uranus:04?? 13' in Capricorn
Neptune:11?? 33' in Capricorn
Pluto:15?? 02' in Scorpio
He has a lot of capricorn does that mean hes stable? more emotional?
Take a look:
Sun:27?? 49' in Aquarius
Moon:10?? 52' in Cancer
Mercury:01?? 30' in Aquarius
Venus:16?? 01' in Aquarius
Mars:16?? 16' in Taurus
Jupiter:27?? 24' in Taurus
Saturn:10?? 34' in Capricorn
Uranus:04?? 13' in Capricorn
Neptune:11?? 33' in Capricorn
Pluto:15?? 02' in Scorpio
He has a lot of capricorn does that mean hes stable? more emotional?
Well I met an aqua whom after just about 2 months of knowing each other as friends decided to propose and become more than friends with me
I refused cuz I felt we still didnt know eachother that well (also i wasnt attracted to him)
and being a taurus we care a lot about hygiene and he wasnt that clean I supposed.
He was extremely smart and helpful.
But very pushy and pressured me that we should get into a relationship.
He was very open about his personal/family life with me. He trusted my blindly. He was toooo emotional. He got dumped by a girl before.
But i rejected him cuz I felt him being an aqua that he will fall out of love quickly and might as well cheat (he had many bed partners)
With him i felt prisoned and pressured
After some time his friend whos another aqua told my friend that he loves me but he was afraid to tell me since his other aqua friend had feelings for me. It was so weird, having two aqua friends loving me at same time.
But i had experience with an aqua before who was vvvvvvvvery emotional at the beginning, it lasted for 3 years. During the three years he was a bit aloof. But in our final 5th year he became extremely annoying and detached plus started showing signs of in loyalty
I guess capricorn/aqua relationship is similar to taurus/aqua relationship since both CAPs and TAUREANS r earth signs
I refused cuz I felt we still didnt know eachother that well (also i wasnt attracted to him)
and being a taurus we care a lot about hygiene and he wasnt that clean I supposed.
He was extremely smart and helpful.
But very pushy and pressured me that we should get into a relationship.
He was very open about his personal/family life with me. He trusted my blindly. He was toooo emotional. He got dumped by a girl before.
But i rejected him cuz I felt him being an aqua that he will fall out of love quickly and might as well cheat (he had many bed partners)
With him i felt prisoned and pressured
After some time his friend whos another aqua told my friend that he loves me but he was afraid to tell me since his other aqua friend had feelings for me. It was so weird, having two aqua friends loving me at same time.
But i had experience with an aqua before who was vvvvvvvvery emotional at the beginning, it lasted for 3 years. During the three years he was a bit aloof. But in our final 5th year he became extremely annoying and detached plus started showing signs of in loyalty
I guess capricorn/aqua relationship is similar to taurus/aqua relationship since both CAPs and TAUREANS r earth signs
Note:
I got an aqua guy stalking me on facebook recently..hes with me in some of my classes.
But he does watch my moves.
The thing is when we c eachother face to face he doesnt say hi..even tho he showed signs of "likeness" on facebook as we chatted
I got an aqua guy stalking me on facebook recently..hes with me in some of my classes.
But he does watch my moves.
The thing is when we c eachother face to face he doesnt say hi..even tho he showed signs of "likeness" on facebook as we chatted
Nouran, I was wondering why you were interested in cap/aqua relationhips, since you are a Taurus.
Posted by 88NPPISCES
@Nouran20
yes you got that right, unfortunately. But I don't hold it against her because I know she is not happy with her CAP.
what I don't agree with, is her staying in the marriag., she should just let it go, move on and be happy.
she begs for her freedom every single day, but neither make a move.
It's their problem anyways.
To b honest that makes me think of her as a cheater. True its their own life. But again is it right to just b silent while seeing someone cheat on their partner? I guess her partner has right to know.
there's a saying that goes like a silent person is another devil or something like that..dunno cant remember it well but i remember the concept very well
Again i wont even go into that much cuz it seems like a complicated relationship + its non of my business.
I dunno how aquas r considered the most humanitarian??
@truecap
One of my close friends is a CAP and shes been asking me how its like to b with an aqua guy
aqua guys have that very bad stinking reputation everywhere
even aqua girls actually complain about aqua guys.
But again I didnt wana b bias so i thought itll be wiser to to know more CAP opinions on this relationship
Since CAPS and taureans r both earth signs i feel like we do have similarities in many areas. So it somehow applies to me too.
One of my close friends is a CAP and shes been asking me how its like to b with an aqua guy
aqua guys have that very bad stinking reputation everywhere
even aqua girls actually complain about aqua guys.
But again I didnt wana b bias so i thought itll be wiser to to know more CAP opinions on this relationship
Since CAPS and taureans r both earth signs i feel like we do have similarities in many areas. So it somehow applies to me too.
Oh, I get it and totally understand. I just hope I don't change my mind on this aqua! lol!
It's not easy (but not too hard either) and if this doesn't work out, not sure I'd go for another one. But, they are so dang irrestible to me!!! I'm draw to them like bees to sugar. Maybe its because my Mars is in aqua - I may be cursed! lol!!
Overall, he's a keeper and I think I've found an exception to the rule, so I'm gonna stick with it!
It's not easy (but not too hard either) and if this doesn't work out, not sure I'd go for another one. But, they are so dang irrestible to me!!! I'm draw to them like bees to sugar. Maybe its because my Mars is in aqua - I may be cursed! lol!!
Overall, he's a keeper and I think I've found an exception to the rule, so I'm gonna stick with it!
i found this avi of this cute little baby goat.....goodnessss!!!! ^.^ So darn cuteee!!
i love baby animals!!
lol yeah that was random but sooo cute!
i love baby animals!!
lol yeah that was random but sooo cute!
Posted by lisabethur8
i found this avi of this cute little baby goat.....goodnessss!!!! ^.^ So darn cuteee!!
i love baby animals!!
lol yeah that was random but sooo cute!
I just love all your pictures lisabeth! That kid there in your pic is adorable!
Posted by 88NPPISCESPosted by lisabethur8
i found this avi of this cute little baby goat.....goodnessss!!!! ^.^ So darn cuteee!!
i love baby animals!!
lol yeah that was random but sooo cute!
that is a really cute pic lisabethur. 🙂
Posted by truecapPosted by lisabethur8
i found this avi of this cute little baby goat.....goodnessss!!!! ^.^ So darn cuteee!!
i love baby animals!!
lol yeah that was random but sooo cute!
I just love all your pictures lisabeth! That kid there in your pic is adorable!click to expand
Posted by 88NPPISCESPosted by Nouran20Posted by 88NPPISCES
@Nouran20
yes you got that right, unfortunately. But I don't hold it against her because I know she is not happy with her CAP.
what I don't agree with, is her staying in the marriag., she should just let it go, move on and be happy.
she begs for her freedom every single day, but neither make a move.
It's their problem anyways.
I dunno how aquas r considered the most humanitarian??
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@88NPPISCES
Lol well If i were in her place and had a feeling my husband is cheating on me, first I would try find evidence. Usually u can tell whether ur partner is cheating or not , not always though. Then confront him. I wouldnt do it back to him or cheat on him. I would just walk away and break everything off.
Again i dont wana get into ur sister's personal life. Not nice of me.
2nd part which im VERY surprised to that ur saying TAURUS ppl r selfish and know nothing about helping others. Thats VERY not true. In fact one of the famous things about TAUREANS are their warm heart. Personally speaking im the type of girl whom when I was younger ppl always took my over kindness as a way of using me.
Recently I accidentally I a hit another lady's car (no serious damaged occured) but the woman was very sweet and she wouldnt call the police. I gave her my number and I called the police myself to see how much I need to pay her.
Really who would call police to come charge them money?
not to mention that im the one who alwaysss helps my grandmother around the house and im most tolerant to her needs. More than my gemini sis who would yell at her.
I dont think ur opinion is accurate. It means u only knew a few bad taureans and i bet they were guys.
The part about the aquarius being humitarian..YES they can b very helpful as friends. But when it comes to relationships they r very careless.
@88NPPISCES
No need to apologize really
I met some bad taurus ppl myself
No need to apologize really
I met some bad taurus ppl myself
Alright, Im going to just make a statement from my own personal point of view as a male Aquarius...... I think at least for myself more often times then not I go aloof because the other person has either made me feel they are not as interested as I am, I might be unsure of them(this is rare and if I am I usually make it clear by my actions in person), or they have seriously hurt my feelings A LOT.
I know everyone's different and Of all the signs it is never more applicable then to Aquarius as we all very a lot.... But I think aloofness most times is related to this.... I'm not gonna say their are not immature selfish people out their but in general I think what I've said somewhat applies. I'd say all fixed signs have this tendency to be very hesitant to express their feelings(exception being Leo's obviously)... I/we are very good at acting like oh no big deal nothing bothers us blah blah.... But I am an extremely sensitive person to matters of the heart. I think all Aquas are and it is why they are so hard to deal with. We kinda just develop Defensive methods of thinking. I think making decisions outside of how you feel is probably 85-90% a better way of making chooses but hey I'm biased. I am idealistic so it makes it hard these days for me to date just anyone... I've had a lot of bad experience these days with women always seeming interested but once I let them know me HONESTLY they just snob off in quite the cold hearted and emotionless way you claim all us Aquarian guys to be. I really get annoyed a little bit by attention from women because they just THINK they are attracted to me. It really seems rather easy for an Aquarian to get a females attention and you know what I hate and abhor it....
I can totally see the appeal in in wanting to just be left the fuck alone sometimes. You wanna know the truth we are all odd and kinda boring... You just think we're exciting because we are not like everyone else.... But once you realize that's it most people's interest usually drops off. We are only good at keeping people who enjoy stimulating conversation which we apparently are great at but when it comes to feelings most of us are so insecure and fearful I swear the slightest little thing almost like a water sign can sometimes set us off into our weirdness. We like I said are either being l weird and aloof because we're hurt or I guess stressed out and/or overwhelmed at the moment. It's our secret release. I mean they say when we are bu
I know everyone's different and Of all the signs it is never more applicable then to Aquarius as we all very a lot.... But I think aloofness most times is related to this.... I'm not gonna say their are not immature selfish people out their but in general I think what I've said somewhat applies. I'd say all fixed signs have this tendency to be very hesitant to express their feelings(exception being Leo's obviously)... I/we are very good at acting like oh no big deal nothing bothers us blah blah.... But I am an extremely sensitive person to matters of the heart. I think all Aquas are and it is why they are so hard to deal with. We kinda just develop Defensive methods of thinking. I think making decisions outside of how you feel is probably 85-90% a better way of making chooses but hey I'm biased. I am idealistic so it makes it hard these days for me to date just anyone... I've had a lot of bad experience these days with women always seeming interested but once I let them know me HONESTLY they just snob off in quite the cold hearted and emotionless way you claim all us Aquarian guys to be. I really get annoyed a little bit by attention from women because they just THINK they are attracted to me. It really seems rather easy for an Aquarian to get a females attention and you know what I hate and abhor it....
I can totally see the appeal in in wanting to just be left the fuck alone sometimes. You wanna know the truth we are all odd and kinda boring... You just think we're exciting because we are not like everyone else.... But once you realize that's it most people's interest usually drops off. We are only good at keeping people who enjoy stimulating conversation which we apparently are great at but when it comes to feelings most of us are so insecure and fearful I swear the slightest little thing almost like a water sign can sometimes set us off into our weirdness. We like I said are either being l weird and aloof because we're hurt or I guess stressed out and/or overwhelmed at the moment. It's our secret release. I mean they say when we are bu
Ehh it cut me off w/e ya'll can kiss my ass as far as I'm concerned
i read NYAA's and i agree with the part that in truth we're boring and while NYAA is single due to his "idealistic" approach, so to speak (per what he said), I'm committed, and more realistic. Yet the truth of dullness is just that, truth. But it's probably because we take in so many stimuli (i dont really believe this is just for this placement as its more mercurial : virgo and gemini related stimuli), we appear interesting to some people. Note, some. My husband for example loves me because he finds me very boring and interesting at the same time, but loyal and loving. He has virgo placements so maybe that might cause some of the stimuli. Don't know really. It appeals to my earth elements as i have little air element in my chart. So i'm guessing it all depends on the both of them. I dont have a problem expressing my feelings, but some people do. Maybe they are fearful or they don't want to be turned down. It'd be so much easier if both were forthcoming with their feelings. If one doesn't like the other, then say it. don't drag it out. I believe some of these bachelors/bachelorettes drag it out because they need a "harem". It is how it is. Shrug.
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Ehh it cut me off w/e ya'll can kiss my ass as far as I'm concerned
I guess u just wana b alone cuz u had too many bad experiences with women. But if u found that woman that makes u comfortable and happy bet u gona be so open about ur emotions and ur goin to want to spend if not all then most of every bit of ur life with her.
I always think its better to stay single and take our time to know ppl and THEN create relationships that again will progress slowly, rather than date a million person and break up and make that cycle go on and on..its just too stressful.
Posted by Nouran20Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Ehh it cut me off w/e ya'll can kiss my ass as far as I'm concerned
I guess u just wana b alone cuz u had too many bad experiences with women. But if u found that woman that makes u comfortable and happy bet u gona be so open about ur emotions and ur goin to want to spend if not all then most of every bit of ur life with her.
I always think its better to stay single and take our time to know ppl and THEN create relationships that again will progress slowly, rather than date a million person and break up and make that cycle go on and on..its just too stressful.click to expand
Not all my experiences with women have been bad.... I've had more than one very satisfying relationship.... Just as I've gotten older and wiser I've noticed more of the shallowness even in the nice girls then I used to before. I think there is only one reason an Aquarius would become a player as a lot of women claim them to be... And that would be they are the type who are more open to expressing their feelings and who it is they are... And have had women act all weird about it when they were initially the one coming after them.... Cause despite the fact that I'm told old for that game playing bs the tempting is very strong these days. It's just honesty and integrity are just too important to us for that to usually happen. I would imagine any Aquarian who displays the attributes that most people say they have are ones who have been so deeply hurt that they are lashing out because of it. And let me tell you to get to that point I feel really sorry for the poor soul because I know how pessimistic and cold this heart of mine can be and I'm not motivated enough to do anything like that.
Posted by Metoo
Personally I have found it to be very rocky. I have not been able to understand any of the 4 aqua men I know fairly well.
Seems like a magnetic force that keeps bringing me to them and them to me, but when the forces meet, they cannot connect, like when your cellphone keeps searching and searching for the signal to connect to wireless maybe.
Sometimes we connect, even have pleasant moments, but mostly, theres just confusion, we keep circling around eachother, observing, interested in what the other is thinking, feeling, wondering how to bond, and it all goes back to HELL.
These experiences of course are referring to men. Women Aquas, I seem to love them. So odd.
Man it's cause the communication aspect is fucked.... I know for a water sign it's cause they usually are expected some sort of physical touch or other reassurance OUTSIDE of verbal communication that an Aqua just don't feel comfortable with usually at first and water signs don't make it easy either... when they want that type of stuff it's usually when they seem like they don't at least to an air sign... they get all quite and act uncomfortable and weird out ...bla bla I don't get what is so hard about just talking but you know I can't be close-minded and everyone's love language is different.
To be honest mine is physical touch too really... and I guess words of gratification (I guess I have a tender ego :/)
But I love to talk most of all.
I'm not for sure what the difference is for a earth sign might be like were are to inconsistent and don't appear to provide security.... I dunno. I can be quarky sometimes but I am a very ambitious person and I live a fairly disciplined life even it doesn't always look that way. Can't help it if I appear to be totally the opposite of that.
I think every sign matchup could work just some require a lot of work and learning how to communicate love effectively and others it is easy as sunday morning. I think an Aquarius could be compatible with anyone if they just were better about showing their discipline and consistency as well as expressing their emotions. BUT most just suck REALLY REALLY bad at that. I like to think I do it well.... but I know I am only in denial.
Aquarius isn't that messed up. lol! Perhaps if people learned to notice and appreciate the nonverbal guestures, they would be happier with yall. Just sayin'. There is a lot to actions. Words would be nice for reinforcement sake, but actions can speak LOUDLY!
Posted by truecap
Aquarius isn't that messed up. lol! Perhaps if people learned to notice and appreciate the nonverbal guestures, they would be happier with yall. Just sayin'. There is a lot to actions. Words would be nice for reinforcement sake, but actions can speak LOUDLY!
Thnx truecap 🙂
Posted by Metoo
I never suggested they were messed up, just that any long term sucess as far as relationships (friendships or otherwise) has been futile for me
i'm telling ya, it's idealism. But you gotta wonder if alot of people can't "commit" because they dont want that person fully. They feel that that person is, something is WRONG, but they don't have the courage to say it to their face. That, hey you're not who i'm looking for, ect. But it's too hurtful isn't it? To tell others straight away, "they're not into you."
It HURTS though i'm sure. So where to find the balance or is this way off track?
Posted by Nouran20Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Ehh it cut me off w/e ya'll can kiss my ass as far as I'm concerned
I guess u just wana b alone cuz u had too many bad experiences with women. But if u found that woman that makes u comfortable and happy bet u gona be so open about ur emotions and ur goin to want to spend if not all then most of every bit of ur life with her.
I always think its better to stay single and take our time to know ppl and THEN create relationships that again will progress slowly, rather than date a million person and break up and make that cycle go on and on..its just too stressful.click to expand
i agree with you. but loads of people are fascinated by the idea of "love". With the "Pride and Prejudice" and the "Days of our Lives" ect but for reals, when they get into a real relationship? it's not all roses and stuff. People have bad habits, people smoke, drink, fart, eat lopsided, have ingrown hairs, ect. Humpf. It's not all beauty and roses.
well, metoo, i dont know about you personally but in my real life, i NEED that stability. I hate inconsistency and instability. I dont care if other people have it either, it's who they are, and that's their thing, and personality.
what is stability to you? someone who tells you straight off, without fear, "i want you to be with me, and from here on out, let's tie the knot." OR, "i dont want you that way, I'm sorry but there's nothing there, and i'm in love with someone else, ect." or whatever. But, most people don't want to "hurt" other people but by doing this...this drags on the pain.
So...hmmmm i guess i'm agreeing with you.
what is stability to you? someone who tells you straight off, without fear, "i want you to be with me, and from here on out, let's tie the knot." OR, "i dont want you that way, I'm sorry but there's nothing there, and i'm in love with someone else, ect." or whatever. But, most people don't want to "hurt" other people but by doing this...this drags on the pain.
So...hmmmm i guess i'm agreeing with you.
Well I stopped being friends with girls I'm not interested in because I don't like being unintentionally cruel.
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