capricorn help for scorpio

Hi guys/girls I have this girlfriend who's a capricorn and we get along great, but recently she went a week without talking to me . She didn't even send me a text ! two days ago she sent me one, but when I responded she didn't answer now the only time we text is on weekends and I want that to change how do go about doing so that WON'T rock our relationship's boat ?

Cant do anything but wait. To do anything else would be pulling strings and manipulative.

She knows who you are so its up to her.

Might have a boyfriend!!!!!!!!!

Might have another girlfriend!!!!!!!!

Might not want either!!!!!!!

I dont see any control in this situation for you.

Gotta let free spirits be free.

Go hang and chill. Dont let it get ya down.

You can always go to a place where there are LOTS of girlfriends to choose from🙂

I agree with Supercap and IMO it sounds like she's having doubts or possibly a bout of commitmentphobia, feeling boxed in so she's taking a breather. I doubt she's dating anyone else, cap women are hugely different from cap men but there may be a bit of claustrophobia going on so she needs some space. Leave her alone, she will come back recharged and ready to go if you give her space, also I hate to bring this up but her distancing could be a sign of an impending break up, she's weighing all her options before she makes that kind of decision, you could beat her to the punch and let her know it's not working out.

Maybe some of the capricorn women will come out of hiding and give you a glimpse of what they are thinking when they do the whole distancing thing.

Hi guys/girls I have this girlfriend who's a capricorn and we get along great, but recently she went a week without talking to me . She didn't even send me a text ! two days ago she sent me one, but when I responded she didn't answer now the only time we text is on weekends and I want that to change how do go about doing so that WON'T rock our relationship's boat ?

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ok silly question LV, but during that time did you call her? text her? ..... if you did and she wasn't responsive, she's taking a breather and weighing her options. i usually go into hiding when i'm contemplating moving on.... if you didn't, WHY NOT, women like to be pursued, especially cap women, because we're so busy being leaders ourselves it's nice when a man steps up and takes the lead.

yup multiple times now now she only talks and texts on weekends

Only weekends, hmmm that's not a good sign, she's easing back for a reason. Do you have your life in order? Are you educated, good job, a leader, are you clingy and possessive? Capricorn women are not shallow but they are go getters and they do have a set idea who they will be serious with and if you don't have it together, if your clingy and possessive she will doubt her decision to be with you, maybe it's time to broach the issue with her, you could risk losing her but you deserve more than what she's giving you and it's clear you would like more time, if you don't like being put on hold like this it's time to speak up about it.

Posted by tiki33
Only weekends, hmmm that's not a good sign, she's easing back for a reason. Do you have your life in order? Are you educated, good job, a leader, are you clingy and possessive? Capricorn women are not shallow but they are go getters and they do have a set idea who they will be serious with and if you don't have it together, if your clingy and possessive she will doubt her decision to be with you, maybe it's time to broach the issue with her, you could risk losing her but you deserve more than what she's giving you and it's clear you would like more time, if you don't like being put on hold like this it's time to speak up about it.

I'm sixteen at mit getting straight a's clingy maybe possesive not in the least I'm a manager at a cellphone store is that enough ? lol I thought I was doing pretty good I want more , but wow !

well, LV, i know you don't want to "rock the relationship boat" as you put it, but you aren't happy with the way things are now, so you will either have to have patience with her and back off, or contact her one time via phone or have a conversation in person that you really like her and want to continue to get to know her better, but that you get the feeling that she's not ready for that...and ask her what she wants from you, your friendship/relationship. ...then pay close attention to what she says and either move on which would be healthier for you or stay put and have a relationship on her terms...for now. you sound very together, so whatever the result, i'm sure another cappy will snatch you up if this one doesn't. 🙂 good luck!

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Posted by tiki33
Only weekends, hmmm that's not a good sign, she's easing back for a reason. Do you have your life in order? Are you educated, good job, a leader, are you clingy and possessive? Capricorn women are not shallow but they are go getters and they do have a set idea who they will be serious with and if you don't have it together, if your clingy and possessive she will doubt her decision to be with you, maybe it's time to broach the issue with her, you could risk losing her but you deserve more than what she's giving you and it's clear you would like more time, if you don't like being put on hold like this it's time to speak up about it.

I'm sixteen at mit getting straight a's clingy maybe possesive not in the least I'm a manager at a cellphone store is that enough ? lol I thought I was doing pretty good I want more , but wow !

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Okay so you got it going on, 16 at MIT good earning potential, good head on your shoulders, I mean there could be an issue of her dating someone else, huge possibility and/or school, she's busy with school, with work, with friends and really isn't interested in dating one guy right now. I'm thinking the clinginess, caps tend to run from it.

If you want to keep seeing her and although you would want more time, you can easily do without it if you got a lot of things going on in your life then don't rock the boat, take what she gives and do what most young men do to fill the void which is date and flirt and keep your options open or you could approach the situation, discuss it and risk losing but maybe still have a friend but not a girlfriend but you will atleast have closure.

we went to a cofee shop today (it was great, but hey it was gelato cafe 🙂 ) anyways she says she was very busy with school and she had other, personal problems well we're goin' to a party tonight, but I'm really dismayed .

Isn't helping with personal issues a boyfriends job ?
honestly school really isn't that hard and I kno what courses she's taking .
and this is the problem that's treetrunkig with my mind .
SHE WON'T TAKE HELP !!!!!!!
what should I do ? What can I do ? I really like her . talking with her was awesome we get along so well .
what can I do I don't want to relinquish all that, but infrequent sight into what things could be is so temptingly close .

Posted by loyally vengeful
we went to a cofee shop today (it was great, but hey it was gelato cafe 🙂 ) anyways she says she was very busy with school and she had other, personal problems well we're goin' to a party tonight, but I'm really dismayed .

Isn't helping with personal issues a boyfriends job ?
honestly school really isn't that hard and I kno what courses she's taking .
and this is the problem that's treetrunkig with my mind .
SHE WON'T TAKE HELP !!!!!!!
what should I do ? What can I do ? I really like her . talking with her was awesome we get along so well .
what can I do I don't want to relinquish all that, but infrequent sight into what things could be is so temptingly close .

Nope she won't ask because she's very independent, showing emotions is a sign of weakness and this is something male and female caps abhor or at the most hate to display amongst others. Signs of emotional frailty, even love can be somethng they refuse to show because they pride themselves on being strong enough to handle anything, my advice is to just let her know if she ever needs help you will be there for her, she will love to hear that and can create a strong connection, she may never lean on you but it will make her feel assured and safe that someone has her back and is there for her. The caps I know just want to handle there issues first before having fun, they make there personal stuff, like work, school, family even friends a high priority before boy/girlfriend relationships.

yeah buttercup these are the huge differences between cap men and women, cap men are not so emotional and don't care for too much emotion, maybe when they are letting there guards down and are with someone they trust but for the most part they can be cold and guarded they also seem to prioritize work and outside curricullums first and then personal one on one relationships second or last, thanks for pointing out the differences.

Here's how the party went :

I was talking to my friends . Anwering questions about quantum physics and joking around . My friend Will (the recent sex addict lol) told me to turn around with a scared look on his face . So I did thinking it was a Scooby Doo moment (lol), then there she was . (I don't kno if ANYBODY could make black sweat pants and a tank top look that good) So we exchanged pleasantries then I asked her she wanted to dance she accepted, then I went and started a playlist,then came back . We danced to a few Ciara songs, then this wierd, like fiesta type song came on . I almost rofl'd, then a wacky Idea came along . I took her hands then psudo taught her salsa . Needless to say, we had fun and we we're both dead tired . As we went out the house, she asked if I wanted to sleep over I said yeah, but I needed to shower and get my pj's . We slept in the same bed and yes I'm still a v, but what the fuck is that supposed to mean ?

I usually distance my self when I'm not interested, but if a guy asked me why, I let him know whassup.

whats your sign btw??

Posted by astrologicallycurious
whats your sign btw??

nov 9 sorpio