Capricorn in love?How do they act?...

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Bravolo
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I have this weird feeling that my cap is falling in love with me but he doesn't say it.I can see it in his eyes and the way he looks at me and holds me.But when he communicates with me he's just super cold and aloof.He still hasn't told me about the way he feels for me after 8 months.Is there a way i can get a confirmation? :/ I just get confused....sometimes i feel like he doesnt even care about me other times i feel like he really really does...
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SureShotCap
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Posted by Stinger Baby
allow my venus in cap to speak...

capricorns are all about action. this partner is not really inclined to 'talk' about how much they feel for you. they live by 'action is louder than words.' they hope that their actions say how they feel loud enough for you. you have to be more observant on your part, or else you could make cap feel like he's not doing his best. i had to learn this growing up. my grandmother is a capricorn - she NEVER says i love you or verbalizes her feelings. she goes out of her way to SHOW them though. i feel loved and i know that i am. when they hug you, you can feel the love in their warm embrace. when they show concern for you and are there for you, you know it's love.

he's not being cold or aloof - it's hard for capricorn to put their strong feelings in words. i'm the same way. i am not good at articulating my emotions or feelings. when i try, they come out as crap and i feel embarrassed. so i'd rather show my loved ones how i feel in every thing that i do. is he there for you? is he faithful? do you see him really trying to show you his love? there you go.

i'd rather have someone showing me their love and not really say it. not a person that says 'i love you' but doesn't treat me at all like they do.

if you still want your sweet words, open up to him gently and tell him how you feel. "babe, i know you love me, but I'd like to hear it sometimes." he may verbalize for you one day.



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It is very difficult for caps (well, me. Can't speak for all of them) to reveal our feelings. There are some subjects that are almost painful for us to talk about and emotions and feelings are one of them. 8 months, ehhh, that's not very long. I, for one, have a fear of rejection and if I'm not sure how you feel, then I'm going to be very cautious about telling you how I feel. I might drop hints and see how you respond and that will determine how I proceed. That may be the aloofness and coldness you feel. Caps are more about actions. We will SHOW you how we feel.