Capricorn Woman - Bipolar or just crazy ass?

I am working with a Capricorn woman (with Taurus Moon), and when we talks sparks light out the place and it seems like we know each other for years. My rising sign is Capricorn.
She cares a lot for me, share her food with me, and when I am not looking she keeps staring at me, everyone at the job noticed there is something.
I am Aries moon and CANNOT wait, today I tried to kiss her when alone, but she ran. Although, invited me to stay with her watching TV (we work at a hotel, plenty of rooms 😉 )
She still smiles everytime she sees me, but she only pursue me when I am about to give more attention to other people.
This byatch is about to make wild sex with me?? Or is she playing with me??
I will not quit, I will persist cause I know all the lost time will be worth. I guess she thinks I am only interested in sex, but I crave for long relationships. She is so serious and conservative and it keeps me interested.

Slow down. You're coming across as a player and she is sensing that. If you really like her, give her time to see that you are sincere and won't screw her and leave her. She needs to know you have substance and are worth the effort.

Thanks for the advice, I have a feeling all the patience will be worth.
Tell me, after the "attack" incident, she still treating me good. Do you think I could just hold her hand sometimes? For me, it would seem like a sign that the person is not joking around. She is just cold it creeps me out sometimes, and talks about beer all day long. Damn but I can't resist.
Damn!

Forgot to say it, she has a 8 year old daughter, and we both talked about opening a business together (restaurant)

I agree you are coming on too strong. Keep your Aries moon in check.
It's her taurus moon. I have a taurus moon. Too much fire from you can make her feel uncomfortable.
we take things slow and think everything over.. kind of calculated. She may be thinking if you are worth the effort and if you are coming on too strong she may not take you seriously.
also, we have great intuition, so you wont be able to fool her. just be genuine. we love that. and yes, try to hold her hand. we love touch. you are a taurus sun, you should know 😉

Everytime I am feeling bad, the smallest touch just clear all anger within me, it's soooo good, the power of touch. Good to know... Parents should know this stuff 🙂
The problem is two Taurus means two leaders, and both clash heads-on.

Another question... I had a glimpse of what is dating a Capricorn woman in the past and I am afraid it will happen again.
Let's suppose this Cap woman is in a relationship with me. Will she be that type of woman that never give a hug or give a surprise kiss in her man?
For me, a relationship like this is the same as being a dead corpse.
I am afraid she is hoping I will do like Cancer guys do, "Let me proof that we love each other, let's marry" LOL
I only will give her any of my hard-earned money if she gives me the minimum affection first, and not being a cold corpse empty body with no soul LOL

That's what your last Capricorn girl was like?

I'm MUCH more affectionate than I let on, BUT I have noticed that I don't just "go for it" with my guy friend. I melt into him after he pokes at me for affection.

Did your ex ever respond well to you? Or was your only issue that you had to initiate affection?

Listen to your moon broh 0.0. You know you've thought of surprising her at work with a candle lit dinner in one of the hotel rooms [during her lunch break] Go on and do what you do best, come on strong but also give her a straight sign (action) that will show her you're not a player. Dont play it like your cap rising says ( asking for advise and being willing to rationalize and see that there might be a better way to handle the situation) Listen to your moon ...... ( I have an aries moon too, so trust)

lnana, my past Cap girl was only a sex relationship, but how can I say it: I lived alone, and she wanted to come by after work to make sex, and only spend 2 hours here, and she said she would not come to my house on the weekends, BUT she called me on phone everyday, knowing that I don't like phone calls. And another point: a woman that calls me everyday, is unabling me to get another women. So it's a loose-loose relationship with someone that never stop to ASK more and NOT GIVE any. But those 2 hours of weekly sex was so good that kinda worth the effort on the whole week.
Lucriu, awesome idea!!! She loves junkie food and I didn't think about that "dinner" idea. My Aries moon is always saying to me: "You are too slow, she will put you on the friendzone, loser" LOL
Just to clarify, I NEVER saw a woman denying a stolen kiss, it was new to me.

Why don't you ask her out on a normal date and take her someplace instead of expecting her to get together at the hotel? That's too much pressure with all those rooms available, she probably thinks you just want to get laid. So, invite her to a movie or somewhere else.

I get the impression you want to move too fast into a sexual relationship. Take that out of the equation. She's not only making decisions for herself, she's also making decisions for her child. Get prepared for that. The child will influence everything she does.

As for whether a capricorn will "Will she be that type of woman that never give a hug or give a surprise kiss in her man?" YES, for the right man who has proved himself worthy.

Posted by Lucriu
Listen to your moon broh 0.0. You know you've thought of surprising her at work with a candle lit dinner in one of the hotel rooms [during her lunch break] Go on and do what you do best, come on strong but also give her a straight sign (action) that will show her you're not a player. Dont play it like your cap rising says ( asking for advise and being willing to rationalize and see that there might be a better way to handle the situation) Listen to your moon ...... ( I have an aries moon too, so trust)

NOOO!!!! Take her on a romantic date AWAY from the hotel.

This scenario just screams "I want to get laid!"

OK I understand now, but the problem is that she always says hints like "I like macdonalds" or "there is gonna be a party next saturday" or "I like going to the beach at night drinking".
But when I ask her to do all these things she does not answer and start talking about some other things.
...
By the way, the "attack" episode was Saturday (she was standing close to me and asked me to come closer to see something, what can you expect a man can think in a moment like this?).
We did not see each other till today, Tuesday, and she was cold, even the friendship is gone.
But fortunately, there is a bunch of non-cold people out there, and it got so messed up that I lost all interest. Must be caused by her Taurus moon too, that makes her double stubborn, and double sluggish, and double "material".

Double material lol. Chick telling u she likes mcdonalds and the beach and she is material. Cant win for losing smh.

Anyway, grab her by the hand and say "u are coming with me" and take her wherever.

Am i the only cap that likes this type of aggression?

Dont give her any options is my advice.

Posted by lnana04
Double material lol. Chick telling u she likes mcdonalds and the beach and she is material. Cant win for losing smh.

Anyway, grab her by the hand and say "u are coming with me" and take her wherever.

Am i the only cap that likes this type of aggression?

Dont give her any options is my advice.

agreed i love that also

Posted by lnana04
Double material lol. Chick telling u she likes mcdonalds and the beach and she is material. Cant win for losing smh.

Anyway, grab her by the hand and say "u are coming with me" and take her wherever.

Am i the only cap that likes this type of aggression?

Dont give her any options is my advice.

I would love for a guy to do that 😄

Be a man, step up to the plate, she doesn't want no weak sapling. Take charge! She needs to know you are confident. And be sure to always put her first, make her feel like a lady, make her feel beautiful, make her smile, make her feel like she's the only woman in the world!

(we're not difficult)

🙂

^^^As a Taur you will have no problem whatsoever with this!

Posted by FeelingShred
OK I understand now, but the problem is that she always says hints like "I like macdonalds" or "there is gonna be a party next saturday" or "I like going to the beach at night drinking".
But when I ask her to do all these things she does not answer and start talking about some other things.
...
By the way, the "attack" episode was Saturday (she was standing close to me and asked me to come closer to see something, what can you expect a man can think in a moment like this?).
We did not see each other till today, Tuesday, and she was cold, even the friendship is gone.
But fortunately, there is a bunch of non-cold people out there, and it got so messed up that I lost all interest. Must be caused by her Taurus moon too, that makes her double stubborn, and double sluggish, and double "material".

Just bring her McDonald's for lunch or breakfast one day. Surprise her. I would love that too. It would melt my cold, cold heart. 🙂

"grab her by the hand and say "u are coming with me" and take her wherever"
THAT was what my Aries moon told me to do from the beginning!!!

So the news is that I QUIT!!! Right now, she is extremely cold, don't say even Hi, Good morning... Things are at the shittiest situation possible.
I miss her friendship and I was thinking in tell her this, but now I thought to myself that I don't want to let a person treat me as a piece of shit in front of others, only because she has a female sexual organ between her legs. NOOO!!!!!
Before the "kiss incident" she always showed she knows a lot more than me, in front of others, making me feel like a useless being, and I hate that kind of bullying (her Taurus moon?), specially in front of others.
Anyway I am better without her, because an Air lady came just in the right time to please me and give me the HEAT I missed...
Another thing she does: she gives rides in her car, let other coworkers eat her food, help others in general, but later she keeps reminding them that they "owe" her that help.

Thanks for the help, but if the person is not even saying "good morning" anymore, there is not a chance of even friendship coming back. End of this thread 😛 Everyone have a good and lusty life 😄 LOL

Well dang at the turn of events. Sorry to hear that but good that you are sticking up for yourself!

Just don't push forward with the other girl until this one is clean out of your system. You Taureans get in trouble with lol.

Good luck with everything.

It would appear that we cap females are both bipolar and crazy asses most of the times, especially when it comes to those who don't know us very well at all. If your not in then your not in our inner circle of associates we like to call friends and who are loyal to each other no matter what even when its not. Our 'friends' we all know who each other are and it takes alot to include anyone for that matter into our circle but once in your in and really it sux coz then you have to put up with all the shit that comes other peoples baggage that they then throw onto you and blame you for all their hangups so it would appear that we caps are stupid idiots(bipolar/crazy asses) for putting up with these 'friends' who do that to us -most likely coz they can or think they can and can get away with it- most times out of ten they backfire and run for da hills and then wake up one day slowly but surely realising just what is and its only until the others do this then it can ever work. So loyal we are too a fault but only to those who are with us. We will put up with our 'friends' shit coz thats what 'friends' do? Yeh? Well for me it is unless the other just doesnt want to be 'friends' with me and/or I have other things to do and will dismiss them without a second thought even though they are my 'friend'. So depending on how others are is how I treat them to get them to open their eyes and see things properly and this is the harsh reality of being 'friends' with me. i do what I want and you can like it or not, makes no difference to me as long as I am doing my thing thats all I worry about. If you gonna treat me with disrespect you get disrespect back and its just how it is with me.

Its more when they blame you for their own baggage and shit and not themselves, what I don't understand is the constant blame game they keep doing? What is it they are getting out of it? Why even do that I mean are they even aware of what it is they are doing? If so, then why even do it? To toughen you or to weaken you why would some 'friend' do this to another 'friend'? Do they enjoy this type of stuff? Like I am completely lost as to why someone would do this to another? Its like whatever I do is just not good enough, I tried everything to stop it but it keeps going? So its now finally I can understand this why its happening and get on with things. Why blame a 'friend' for your own baggage and shit when its obvious that they have gone through shit themselves and don't blame others for this? Is it coz they misunderstand that this person has gone through alot themselves or is it coz they don't care or is it both or much more than this? Why would a person do this to another?