@GemiGem
14 Years
Cap women distant and aloof??
we're hard to handle. I dunno about all this though... I used to be the type of person who would screen calls when i was younger. I'm pretty direct now. How old is she?
Maybe she needs tension to build. Are you calling her a lot?
Ignore a little then come back. If this is too much then maybe let it go.
Its only when you've been with all the other signs that you realize how much hard work cap women really are, some of them do deserve it though...I deserve a freaking medal! 😛
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Its only when you've been with all the other signs that you realize how much hard work cap women really are, some of them do deserve it though...I deserve a freaking medal! 😛
it means so much more that you are saying AND you are virgo 😉
Posted by Metoo
oh were worth it 😉
Hey thats MY line! 😛
Sometimes, I just don't feel like talking on the phone. Could be busy, exhausted, needing down time, lazy, distracted, watching a movie at the time, in the good part of a book, talking to a friend, catching up with my family, etc.
I like what MeToo suggested....try to look at things from that angle and see if you can put yourself in her perspective.
Caps aren't good communicators and gems seem to want to talk all the time. That energy just wears me out sometimes.
If a cap woman misses you and means it, she won't ignore you.
@GemiGem Cap women just do that. My experience they become aloof and or distant when you do something that pisses them off and or they aren't cool with some shit you did. My best advice would be to fall back a back a bit and look at what your doing and if its anything that would piss her off. If not, then figure out if you'll willing to hang around. Caps take a shit ton of patience!
I usually will talk to a person I miss. And if u did something to piss me off I might answer the phone to see what u have to say only if I like u.
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She told me she was missing me when she was out of town, next thing she returns and wont take my calls. I know patience is needed when dealing with Cap women, but why always the sudden changes in mood and behaviour. Im a Gemini and even Im not that bad. One month shes cool and the next she just goes cold and unresponsive with a bullshit excuse like she left her phone when she stays on it 24/7..