Caps - Gemini or Cancer ?

Which do you like/prefer more and why

Sorry double topic - I deleted the other one

I like Cancers better. There's an understanding and comfort level with them. Cancers are more down to earth, though a little too emotional and needy, but they are pratical and very loving, understanding people.

Geminis are, well.....uhm.....fun! They bring humor and a lighter side to things, but when it comes down to it, they are a little flighty sometimes and tend to change their minds and opinions too easily.

But, eh, I used to be married to a gem, so I'm a little biased. I dated a Cancer guy and he was clingy, pouty, and too demanding of my time.

Why the question?

And Gems like and create too much drama.

I'm a Gemini/Cancer clusp and I wanted to know what you all thought about both n which u liked more.

cancers by far

Posted by capinc
I like gems more.

You haven't been married to one.

Posted by FoxGlove
Awwww... come on now, TrueCap... you cut me real deep just now.... 😛 *twirls around three times... clutches at chest... sighs twice... dies... opens one eye just a teeny bit to see who's watching...* 😄 Draaaaama! Never! Wellll... ok. 😛

I like gems. Dont get me wrong. But I am not interested in a relationship with one. They make for good friends.

Loved your dramatics by the way. Lol!

cancers >>>>>>>> gems.

Can't think of one gem that I actually liked.

I have better chemistry with Gemini people but I have more Cancer friends.

What if they have both a stellium in cancer & gem? In both houses? They're a flitting butterfly with emotional depth. Lol

Posted by lisabethur8
What if they have both a stellium in cancer & gem? In both houses? They're a flitting butterfly with emotional depth. Lol

That's me!! A butterfly with emotional depth

Wow - thank you for all the updates and posts it's nice to know that both cancer and Gemini are liked on the whole by caps

Posted by Caplove
Hmmm. Hard question, I must say that I like them both!

I love how geminis are so light, upbeat, flirty and fun. They remind me of beautiful butterflies that flit from flower to flower. I also adore and love cancers because they're warm, loving, nurturing and seem to be so understanding. They make me feel all mushy and warm.

Caplove - love this such a lovely sweet reply xx

I like Gems. Yeah they can be emotional and turbulent, but so can't we? We just have to remember how to be grounded. I've had a gemini friend for years who has always been an inspiration to get out and enjoy life, I think the most eventful days I have is when we're out on random two day road trips. She and I rarely got into arguments, and when we did they were very short and ended in both of us laughing it off.

Not that I don't like Cancers either, my closest hs friend is a cancer. But his dreamy, gloomy attitude sometimes clashes with my logical approach. Long story short, as long as he is in a good mood we do well together. My brother (Cancer) and I used to go back and forth because he never knew when was a good time to shut up and played the "woe is me" card too fast when something didn't go his way and didn't believe I was sensitive enough in responding. But we're good on balanced days.

Posted by Caplove
What?! A flitting, emo. butterfly?!

***Squints eyes and uses Gollum voice*** Me wants it! My precious...

I see alot of Cap/Gem couples in real life.

My bff's parents are Cap man/Gemini woman and they have a good marriage. So strange, huh?

Posted by Chance15
as opposites, cancers have the honesty, loyalty, and depth of character that, to me, is indicative of many shared values. although, i am sometimes wary of getting too close as i don't want to be held responsible for the dark sides of their moods.

These traits are condusive to a good relationship.

Posted by Chance15
as for gemini, i like their fun loving and carefree attitude. i envy their unrestricted nature (*shakes fist at Saturn*)..i do sometimes question their moral relativity and their use of others as unwitting pawns and their justification of it when they feel they have the upper hand intellectually or the other party isn't as adaptable/flexible.

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This is NOT condusive of a good relationship for caps.

Cancer - though opposites, we click more. At times I cant stand my paranoid gemini friend and mom

Gemini's are fun but it gets too much sometimes. I just broke up with my Gemini girl few weeks ago and I might give another Gemini a try. I think the relationship between Cap and Gem will only work when the Gemini has matured.

Btw my best buddy is a Cancer. They are cool in my book.

Cancer, most definitely. Dated one before, and I would do it all over again.

Thanks to everyone for their comments..

Caps and cancer = cool!!
Caps and gem = mixed but wud date again 🙂

Since I'm on the cusp of both it's a positive review all round

Ach, Laddie, ye dinna kin the true ways of wud.

How much wood could the wud Chuck chuck if the wud Chuck could chuck wood?

I'm cwazy in wuv wud you....

Help me out here....I'm drawing a blank on more "wud" usage and puns....

hehehe, you know it! Takes one to know one 😉
Now help me round up more wud. The fire isn't burning high enough.

roflmao.....Well, the Capin' bein' so dry wud help with the burnin'. I vote we round him up, tie him to the main mast and rape n pillage the ship, me Hearty! ARRRRRR!!!

If ye arse be asunder then ye be using the wud wrong, Lassie. 😉

And I wud, I wud! That be the answer! I think, therefore I wud!

'Tis worth the truble! We kin the ways of wud and willna be stopped from corruptin' the wee lambkin. Och, but I dinna kin which is cuter; the lambkin hidin' from the wud lassies or the bonnie wee wud lassies waitin' ta pounce the lambkin.

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by MoonArtist
If ye arse be asunder then ye be using the wud wrong, Lassie. 😉

/dead wow...hilarious ..mayhap i ned be'er wud

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Is there such a thing as too big a wud?

hehehe! Well, "kin" means "know". "willna" is "will not". "Dinna" is "do not".

I've always been a huge Depeche Mode fan. Still am! 😄
This is the song that summarizes the end of my marriage and relationship with my ex. I would always play it super loud whenever he started ranting and screaming at me.

Yesh, too big a wud would traumatize.

pssssttttt, hey, Clueless....I think we hijackeded the thread. Do you think we made all the caps change their minds? Damn. The gems are going to win! Lets make brownies for everyone. Happy brownies. With big chunks of gooey chocolate. Maybe some spiked punch, too, just to be safe. And we could get a huge caterer to put out a huge dinner for them. And BALLOONS! Oh, and elephant rides and a peacock show! Ha! The gems don't have a chance now. ~snicker chortle giggle~

ok, trying the chat link 🙂

Good point. We should hide the cheese. Keep the cheese. SAVE THE CHEESE!