are Capriccorn men happy

I POSTED THIS IN THE CAP forum, but I want to hear from my GEMS.
Are CAPPY fellows ever happy? My Cap complains about work; complains about family; complains about relationship. I use my words to encourage him. I offer practical, witty advice. On occasion I make him food. I surprise him with gifts and we are physical. And although, I am considerably younger than him, I am strict and extremely mature. But he never seems satisfied. What is the best way to handle him?

Lol, this reminds me of my Aqua mom saying one of her Cap exes could be in bed with 3 Halles Berrys and still not be satisfied.

caps at the bottom of their heart are pessimists.. and for them this serves as a drive to live. because they think that everything in this universe is trying to bring them down and they have to fight against it and thus they really work hard,, just show them that u fully understand how much difficult these challenges are, they're bravely dealing with, and how much u admire them for it

My Cap tends to think things are against him. I get it.

WRONG
I THINK YOPUR (CAP) IS A TORUS IN PRETENDING TO BE A CAP
HAVE YOU SEEN HIS BIRTH RECORD HUM
ARE YOU SURE HE IS A FUN LOVING CAP
ASK YOUR SELF WHY AM I PUTTING UP WITH THIS ASS
CHECK IT OUT BEING A CAP MYSELF IM ALMOST SURE HE ISN'T
ONE OF US OR THAT HE SUFFERS FROM A MENTAL DEFECT

no Mr. Tate his bday is January 17

A depressed Capricorn is one of the most depressive, miserable, passively vindictive pieces of shit on the planet.

I mean they won't overtly beat you or anything, but they'll just piss on you slowly.

True story.

What dorks.

Oh the best way to handle him is to DUMP HIM AND NEVER LOOK BACK.

You will not ever make him happy.

He deserves to be alone.

Then maybe then, and only then, will he learn to appreciate you.

ALONE.

what, no happy ending?

they are borderline abusive. sorry. no happy ending

It seems you dont feel very appreciated or valued within the relationship. Its hard when your partner can't take a breather and see how good he has it. Obviously, both of you guys dont share a similar outlook in that aspect. He seems to feel more value in himself when he can achieve his goals etc no one can provide him that feeling. And if you love him i guess you just gotta accept that his way of love is no less than yours. It takes compromise...hmmm i personally wouldnt date someone like that hahaha but if I was in your shoes...

i'll just be frank with him

"Hey, I dont feel really appreciated in our bond, when i've done a,b, c, d, e (input what you did for him) You say and do a,b,c,d,e (literally tell him what action he's done to make you feel that he isn't happy with you". Because of the above, It has lead me to believe you are not satisfied within the relationship. What are you thoughts? i would like to understand where you are coming from before i turn my assumptions into facts. If you are happy and its not about me then what has been going on with you in your personal life? "

capricorns are very analytical and methodological. They expect others to be able to be like that in their communicaiton. SO that would be a great start.

To hell with Capricorns. Cold, dismissive self centered fukcs they are..

I go back and forth with this relationship. My Capricorn is an extremely hard worker and he take everything seriously.I definitely offer some relief in his burden and I am happy to do it because he needs it. But I do feel that the Capricorn personality is definitely not as flexible to understand others needs, At least not in the playful jovial sense that Gemini's do. he is a good guy a bit older but I am a traditional girl so I appreciate that in him.thanks for the comment I'm going to go and think some more, not about this but other things. Haha.