lnana04
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Cold, Aloof xterior...gift or curse?
Also, with both him and the Scorpio, and nearly every other guy, they ALL seem to respond to my aloofness better. That confuses the heck out of me, and makes me feel as if I'd have to keep that up at all times regardless of what I really feel and if I want to show more.
Posted by kstarks2
@lnana04
You
Want
to
date
a
TAURUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HAVE BUMPED YOUR HEAD———?
What's your placements—
Ya know, I've never really been attracted to Taurus guys before this one, but if you give it a little time, it's easy for them to grow on you, and the feelings end up becoming deeper than the feelings with other guys, imo. What have your experience been with Taurus guys?
Placements:
Cap Sun
Leo moon
Scorpio venus
Cap mercury
Libra Mars
lnana
Aww I hella dig Cappys.. And just like you lnana, I never had anybody that could shed my armor like a cappy woman, like it never was even there.. lol completely OPEN for sure..
kstarks
You should curse me out.. I'm feeling left out.. lol
I even have the dreaded Taurus sun/Gemini venus (I know, run for your lives. lol) and not once in a million would I cheat..
Just not a option..
that right.. I said 'Hella' 😉
Aww I hella dig Cappys.. And just like you lnana, I never had anybody that could shed my armor like a cappy woman, like it never was even there.. lol completely OPEN for sure..
kstarks
You should curse me out.. I'm feeling left out.. lol
I even have the dreaded Taurus sun/Gemini venus (I know, run for your lives. lol) and not once in a million would I cheat..
Just not a option..
that right.. I said 'Hella' 😉
Posted by kstarks2
@lnana04
My experience with ALL things Taurus have been awful.
Taurus sun
Taurus moon
Taurus venus
Taurus rising
ANYONE with Taurus in the chart I NEVER get a long with. Every person here on dxp who has taurus something in their chart have gotten cursed out one way or another...
In my RL experience. Taurus men are affectionate, charming, make you feel safe and protected but...they do that with ALL the girls. They are fucking cheaters and have no problem fucking a bunch of chicks. I would NEVER EVER date a Taurus guy. I have about 3 Taurus relationships since that last one and I severely dislike them all...Maybe you'll work out with one but I highly doubt it. I really don't understand why astrology chides that Capricorns and Taurus get along. I'd take a Virgo way before a Taurus.
the females get NO love from me either. Despise them bitches too. Jealousy is just part of who they are. They are jealous of anything you have they don't. Money, boyfriend, cars, wealth, you name it, they're jealous of it and they can't hide it. At least a Virgo would try to hide it and ACT like they're happy for you but inside they are fucking JELLY.
Ugh I'm not a fan of earth people. Actually I'm not a fan of any people. LOL
I'm heading over to the Aries board. Need to try one of those out and see how that works.
I'm curious about Aries too.
Dang girl, to be honest, although he spends soooooo much time around me, I do get the feeling that he's charming like that with the other girls that work there. We are not dating AT ALL, but we sit together during our breaks etc. and there is this new girl, that I think has a crush on him, and she walked by our table with her tight jeans on and he felt some type of way seeing her walk by him, and he could hardly hide it LoL. It must be my Scorpio venus that picks up on any kind of chemistry, and Not that he has anything to hide since we are not a couple, but he does like me. I think he tries to be respectful for the most part, but I believe he has a slight thing for this girl too. I think I might hook them up Monday, because I know she wants his attention and I don't want to block him since I can't bring myself to ever look past our age difference.
I get what you say about the females too. There is an older Taurus lady there and a while before I told her my bday and weeks later we talked about her family a
and she mentioned that her mother is sick but it's only her and her younger sister(Capricorn) that takes care of her. I asked the signs of her sisters and she said Aries, Scorpio, and Cap. Then she goes on to say that she don't get along with Capricorns because they think they are more than what they are, so I start laughing because I KNOW she knows my sign, then she goes "you must be a Cap?" Knowing she knew lol. She ALWAYYYYSSSS have something slick to say, to the point where I almost avoid her, but I'll admit, she's funny.
There's another Taurus girl that I get along with but I think there is a little jealousy there. I like her a lot, but I don't trust all of her. She pry's and always asks me questions and you can see on her face what she's thinking, plus she sits with another co-worker and I caught her through the corner of my eye looking at the other co-worker after asking me a question. Matter of fact, the post I made in "Is it a Cap thing" about people always so curious about us was about her, so I see what your saying.
but this is suppose to be a positive post LoL.
When I come in contact with a guy, after a while I'm able to vision how things would work with that person. Overtime, the things I vision about them start to come true, whether its good or bad things. I feel that I could have as complete of a package there is with a Taurus.
There's another Taurus girl that I get along with but I think there is a little jealousy there. I like her a lot, but I don't trust all of her. She pry's and always asks me questions and you can see on her face what she's thinking, plus she sits with another co-worker and I caught her through the corner of my eye looking at the other co-worker after asking me a question. Matter of fact, the post I made in "Is it a Cap thing" about people always so curious about us was about her, so I see what your saying.
but this is suppose to be a positive post LoL.
When I come in contact with a guy, after a while I'm able to vision how things would work with that person. Overtime, the things I vision about them start to come true, whether its good or bad things. I feel that I could have as complete of a package there is with a Taurus.
Posted by TaurGuy
lnana
Aww I hella dig Cappys.. And just like you lnana, I never had anybody that could shed my armor like a cappy woman, like it never was even there.. lol completely OPEN for sure..
kstarks
You should curse me out.. I'm feeling left out.. lol
I even have the dreaded Taurus sun/Gemini venus (I know, run for your lives. lol) and not once in a million would I cheat..
Just not a option..
that right.. I said 'Hella' 😉
Aww, how adorable. I love hearing from a guys perspective. You can never know for sure how deep someone feels for you, or if you are alone in feeling the way you do. Thanks for posting that the feelings are can most likely be mutual. There are expressions and emotions that come through that he can't hide at times, that are sooo cute, but I did wonder if other girls bring out those emotions in him too.
Dang, I had one foot on and one off the Taurus train for a second, but now both feet are back on.
Posted by lnana04
I did wonder if other girls bring out those emotions in him too.click to expand
Cant speak for him but for me... Nope, 8ish years of dating and just the cappy made me feel like this.. shed that armor and Damn, cappy can set a land speed record with that shit lol... Just felt right.. Didnt even have to talking about anything we where agreeing on, it was the energy, brains on the same wavelength, energy in tune.. bla bla bla.. have a feeling I'm preaching to choir.. lol
Kinda makes you feel naked thou... So needless to say the first time it was kinda like 'Oh shit'.. shortly followed by a "WOW" lol...
@Kstarks. Yeah, I feel this girl is sizing me up. I promise, it's like everything I say to her she analyze, like you can see her mind working, and she'll ask another question, then another, and so on. Again, so far, I like her a lot. She's very easy to talk to, she's not fake and speaks her mind, but I just don't think I could be even 60% on trusting her. Your ex neighbor sounded like a pain LoL.
Also, I agree on the benefits of being cold and aloof. If someone crosses or offends me, and I open my mouth and speak on it(which is rare), I don't care who that person is, their feelings are hurt. It can be a extra grown man, woman, ex-con etc. that coldness gives me the upper-hand in many situations and I can make a person back off without raising my voice or even thinking about getting physical. I rarely EVER go there, but the bad thing is even when I'm not trying to offend or hurt feelings, I do. I really hate that at times, because my intentions are never to hurt.
@PurpleDiamond, I've noticed that they have fans. It's like everyone around there wants his attention. He's friendly with all the ladies, and such a gentleman, yet speaks his mind at the same time LoL. He opens the door for all of us, and hes cool with all the guys too. I could see how one would mistake that hes into him. I'm never 100% sure about me, and that goes for every guy, but he did recently ask me on a date this week. He also offered to take me home Friday and told me I could have called him that morning @6am and he would have picked me up for work. I thought that was so sweet because it was the way he said it. He's always trying to get me to go somewhere with him on the weekends. Plus he's mentioned twice that another co-worker thought we dated. I just sit there and look at him when he says that because it's like, what do you want me to say since we clearly do not? I think I offended him LoL. But yeah, he
can ask me on a million dates, but I still don't trust guys. It's like Keith Sweats song "How Deep Is Your Love?" There's no way of knowing, so it's just hard to trust.
@CappyLuv, I thought I was the only one that visioned how the outcome with certain people would be. I can definitely sense things in people, and it all eventually comes to light with time. With many guys, Ive patted myself on the back for not giving them a chance, no matter how much I liked them.
I get the dull feelings at times, but I think it can come from both of us.
Also, I agree on the benefits of being cold and aloof. If someone crosses or offends me, and I open my mouth and speak on it(which is rare), I don't care who that person is, their feelings are hurt. It can be a extra grown man, woman, ex-con etc. that coldness gives me the upper-hand in many situations and I can make a person back off without raising my voice or even thinking about getting physical. I rarely EVER go there, but the bad thing is even when I'm not trying to offend or hurt feelings, I do. I really hate that at times, because my intentions are never to hurt.
@PurpleDiamond, I've noticed that they have fans. It's like everyone around there wants his attention. He's friendly with all the ladies, and such a gentleman, yet speaks his mind at the same time LoL. He opens the door for all of us, and hes cool with all the guys too. I could see how one would mistake that hes into him. I'm never 100% sure about me, and that goes for every guy, but he did recently ask me on a date this week. He also offered to take me home Friday and told me I could have called him that morning @6am and he would have picked me up for work. I thought that was so sweet because it was the way he said it. He's always trying to get me to go somewhere with him on the weekends. Plus he's mentioned twice that another co-worker thought we dated. I just sit there and look at him when he says that because it's like, what do you want me to say since we clearly do not? I think I offended him LoL. But yeah, he
can ask me on a million dates, but I still don't trust guys. It's like Keith Sweats song "How Deep Is Your Love?" There's no way of knowing, so it's just hard to trust.
@CappyLuv, I thought I was the only one that visioned how the outcome with certain people would be. I can definitely sense things in people, and it all eventually comes to light with time. With many guys, Ive patted myself on the back for not giving them a chance, no matter how much I liked them.
I get the dull feelings at times, but I think it can come from both of us.
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However, since this guys is younger, I do feel that he would be much easier to cooperate with on growth and expanding ourselves and situation. With this guy in particular I could see myself having a lot of fun with him, because he'd do everything I wanted to. I say I want an older Taurus, but I have wondered about an older Taurus being much more set in his ways and how that would work. I had a huge crush on a Virgo once and would wonder how life would be with him. I could see myself having his kids, but the thing that always held me back was, I would get to certain parts of town and areas I would like to live in a raise a family and I couldn't see him with me there. I know that sounds crazy, but it was like in my mind he, or we together, didn't expand beyond what was familiar. That bothered me. I know it probably seems like I've missed a many of opportunities, but I just like things to feel ALL THE WAY right LoL.
However, since this guys is younger, I do feel that he would be much easier to cooperate with on growth and expanding ourselves and situation. With this guy in particular I could see myself having a lot of fun with him, because he'd do everything I wanted to. I say I want an older Taurus, but I have wondered about an older Taurus being much more set in his ways and how that would work. I had a huge crush on a Virgo once and would wonder how life would be with him. I could see myself having his kids, but the thing that always held me back was, I would get to certain parts of town and areas I would like to live in a raise a family and I couldn't see him with me there. I know that sounds crazy, but it was like in my mind he, or we together, didn't expand beyond what was familiar. That bothered me. I know it probably seems like I've missed a many of opportunities, but I just like things to feel ALL THE WAY right LoL.
Posted by TaurGuyPosted by lnana04
I did wonder if other girls bring out those emotions in him too.
Cant speak for him but for me... Nope, 8ish years of dating and just the cappy made me feel like this.. shed that armor and Damn, cappy can set a land speed record with that shit lol... Just felt right.. Didnt even have to talking about anything we where agreeing on, it was the energy, brains on the same wavelength, energy in tune.. bla bla bla.. have a feeling I'm preaching to choir.. lol
Kinda makes you feel naked thou... So needless to say the first time it was kinda like 'Oh shit'.. shortly followed by a "WOW" lol...click to expand
That warms my heart to hear. I know with a Scorpio I was interested in, I would get insecure around him about a lot of things, and wonder if I would be enough for him, etc. That connection was strong, but that wavelength you speak of didn't seem the same, plus silence with him made me nervous. With this Taurus, the bond and comfort level is so much stronger, to the point where he could wander off, but the Taurus gives you enough security that he will always come home, always. Thats a good feeling. Plus you can be silent with a Taurus and still know enough of his feeling to not worry nearly as much.
Are you dating the Cappy?
I wonder about guys meeting family/friends too. My thing isn't so much with them because my family, especially, are really accepting people. They would be happy that I'm bringing somebody home, regardless of who/how he is at this point. I'd be more nervous meeting their family/friends. I have a bit of anxiety at times, which is something the Taurus picked up on, so I'm always nervous about the impression I'm making on others.
Yeah, it's definitely a comfort thing. And yes, the age difference is major. There was another Taurus that worked there last year, who I liked a little, but he was about 6yrs older and he had a girlfriend. On his first day he stared at me so hard I thought he was a Scorpio. He sat close to me and there would be frequent occasions where we would look up and look over at each-other at the same time. Neither of us would say anything, because we didn't have to. Overtime I began to open up to him and he would advise me on the type of guy I needed and tell me to get out and enjoy life because all you'll have are your memories. He loved candy, so do I, so he would bring me different candy everyday. He was just real cool. The odd thing with him though, was that he didn't like being alone with me. Like if I was walking down the hall and he would turn the corner and see me he would pretend that he forgot something so he could go the other way. I could never understand that. But right before he was let go, another co-worker and I was talking about a security guy that was rude to us. He overheard our conversation and was like "what happened? what did he do etc?" I told him and he told me if anything else happens let him know because he will fight for me. I thought that was soooooo sweet. But yeah, it's definitely a comfort thing. I hate to admit it, but I started to develop feelings for him, but he was a major ladies man.
Yeah, it's definitely a comfort thing. And yes, the age difference is major. There was another Taurus that worked there last year, who I liked a little, but he was about 6yrs older and he had a girlfriend. On his first day he stared at me so hard I thought he was a Scorpio. He sat close to me and there would be frequent occasions where we would look up and look over at each-other at the same time. Neither of us would say anything, because we didn't have to. Overtime I began to open up to him and he would advise me on the type of guy I needed and tell me to get out and enjoy life because all you'll have are your memories. He loved candy, so do I, so he would bring me different candy everyday. He was just real cool. The odd thing with him though, was that he didn't like being alone with me. Like if I was walking down the hall and he would turn the corner and see me he would pretend that he forgot something so he could go the other way. I could never understand that. But right before he was let go, another co-worker and I was talking about a security guy that was rude to us. He overheard our conversation and was like "what happened? what did he do etc?" I told him and he told me if anything else happens let him know because he will fight for me. I thought that was soooooo sweet. But yeah, it's definitely a comfort thing. I hate to admit it, but I started to develop feelings for him, but he was a major ladies man.
Posted by lnana04
That warms my heart to hear. I know with a Scorpio I was interested in, I would get insecure around him about a lot of things, and wonder if I would be enough for him, etc. That connection was strong, but that wavelength you speak of didn't seem the same, plus silence with him made me nervous. With this Taurus, the bond and comfort level is so much stronger, to the point where he could wander off, but the Taurus gives you enough security that he will always come home, always. Thats a good feeling. Plus you can be silent with a Taurus and still know enough of his feeling to not worry nearly as much.
Are you dating the Cappy?click to expand
No.. Well its kinda up in the air, She moved(4.5hrs away).. But before leaving voiced a desire to keep seeing me when we could. Although since communication has been a slow trickle at best.. She left such a impact though that I have absolutely NO desire to date/pursue anything from anybody but her.. lol
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