I am divorcing my Cap husband...

and I've never been happier in my life.

I will tell you that I'd rather have a cheating Leo, than a life-sucking parasite Cap.

He sucked all the life and joy out of my life that I was left with a stomach ulcer and a bunch of health conditions... in the end, he didn't care. he is moon in Aries... so that makes it worse.

Anyway, I cant wait to finalize this... I've been looking around and there are so many decent guys!

Im tau / gem cusp.

1/14/78 ...

what does that mean?

Oh..
thanks !

I am happy for him, whatever will make him a less abusive person. I hope he won't abuse his next wife. I am done, and out and will never return to him. 🙂... if he is starting anew, good for him.

Dietician? NO! he eats crap food I am a healthy eater.

He just wanted to control me in areas where I would NEED to depend on him and would never be able to leave him. Like to have children with me.. he even said: Once you have children, I know you will not look at other men. (While he totally checks out other women!!), so he wants me to raise a child while he goes to work and stares at the secretary?

He also said: I am a man! I have to provide for my family.. meaning, he couldn't handle me having a higher position than him.

He is also always obsessed with his receeding hair lol, but when i have some "look" issue, he says it's fine... so he even hinted before that if I look my best, I might leave him!

What kind of insecure person is he?
He is also a Muslim, and wanted me to become a Muslim women... that way I'd have to "adhere to the religion" and be a quiet locked away woman raising 7 children... oh HECK NO!

I was trying to have responsibility for myself, but every time I'd have good news, he'd be upset ... I know he doesn't want me to be successful because he wouldn't have control and power over me.

After we got married, he got moody, and said... I know you will go back to school!! ?? HUH!?? What's wrong with going back to school??

He is just a control freak, he is the same with EVERYONE, even co-workers and he is sneaky and manipulating person, he manipulates situation to his benefit, in the end, he loses everything, like he lost me... he lost his last job... he lost a lot on his last business deal... he is a controlling manipulator.. oh well. Goodbye to the loser!

I don't know his chart , his data is:

January 14, 1978 Karachi , Pakistan 16:00 I believe

it might be 04:00 am...? I think it's 16:00 = 4PM!

LoL. He sounds familiar. Like so many Capricorn men I know. Really, my dad is a rare Capricorn because he's not at all controlling, but every other Cap male I know sounds exactly like this guy.

All a woman can ever do with a ?apricorn male is assert(sp?) Herself. Really, it not hard at all, and do it in the beginning!

Glad you are leaving the situation.

Not arranged. Muslim, because it could be cultural not Capricultural 😉
When I met him, he was sweet and kind, helping, gentle , although he did grab my neck once, but I thought it was an isolated incident and he apologized. I left him after that nonetheless, then we got back together, me thinking he is the same. As soon as we got married, to him it was like "ok, task accomplished, now I dont care".

I think his behavior is mostly cultural. You are blaming capricorns for no reason.

I am looking for someone to suck something out of me.

sorry elle already jumped in.

Yeah unfortunately I was with a Cap who gave me a black eye...it was my ex that I loved so much and treated me well but I also think I provoked the situation.......I didnt hit him but it was a crazy argument.

In some sense I miss him but that part scares me.....I know we cant be together but whatever.

Divorces and domestic abuse happens Cap or not. Just cut your loses and keep it moving. Not all Caps or any other sign is created equal.

ILL take elle

So happy for you Orchidea. You are amazing for taking control of your life and I am so happy for you.

As far as controlling you or trying to make you into a broken spirit so you don't look at other guys, OMGWTF. I have seen that once before and it is so unnerving and hypocritical.

Well best of wishes to you, we are rooting for you all the way!

Wait!!!!!!!!!!!!! Is this my husband....(that I'm divorcing soon) Seriously. My husband is a Cap with a Venus/Mercury in Cap and a Moon in Aries too! LOL

We Love each other but we drain each other and he really takes all the fun out of life.....

I'm a Cancer but I have a Sag Moon and Rising.....

So it was more the Saturn vs Jupiter thing for us (Cap being ruled by Saturn and Sag ruled by Jupiter)

I like to Expand and He would Restrict

AND i WILL SAY THIS....He loves the ground I walk on, but that's after him being very emotionally abusive in the beginning.

Now its just too late.