SamCancerGirl
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Confusing Cap. Story. (Warning it is very long!)
Ps sorry skipped over the response to you reading the txts..
That's a hard one - shouldn't b reading his txts and he shouldn't be telln his ex stuff about your personal
Relationship... You can bring this up but both are to blame for diff reasons but it's not gonna help the situation in my opinion.
If you can get passed this - since you prob have talked /fought over the issue.
I would just say that it's not fair for him to tell his ex about the issues you are having in your relationship n that if he needs to discuss it should only be with you
Be firm and then let it drop. Don't bring up old arguments capi's hate that
That's a hard one - shouldn't b reading his txts and he shouldn't be telln his ex stuff about your personal
Relationship... You can bring this up but both are to blame for diff reasons but it's not gonna help the situation in my opinion.
If you can get passed this - since you prob have talked /fought over the issue.
I would just say that it's not fair for him to tell his ex about the issues you are having in your relationship n that if he needs to discuss it should only be with you
Be firm and then let it drop. Don't bring up old arguments capi's hate that
Am I too late?!??!!? Read this......
Your gut telling you to go through his phone was one thing
Then finding that type of convo with his ex
Then him admitting that he's not stimulated
That's just too much to continue to give this the green light imho.
Then finding that type of convo with his ex
Then him admitting that he's not stimulated
That's just too much to continue to give this the green light imho.
Posted by Metoo
I have steam coming out of my ears for what you saw in those texts.
Sadly I think you're mistaken. Wasn't telling her to salvage the relationship. More like PREPARING her for the aftermath of the break up. Honestly I feel very very insulted when I get misunderstood here sometimes.
If you do believe astrology then you'll know that Capricorn mans aren't players and we have a reputation for being cold and direct especially in areas of love. If the intent is to break up, IT WILL happen eventually. We don't leave people dangling emotionally because that is just irresponsible. It'll be a VERY, very clear and direct cut. Again we do not leave people dangling.
"I don't want a relationship with you."
then.............
"In three years, you will be my wife. I don't care who you are with, what you are doing, it won't matter because it will happen."
I would have stopped and cut off every single emotion@"I don't want a relationship with you." Really, what can honestly mean much of anything after that is said?
I think emotional dangling is the person being unsure, and stringing you along without telling you much of anything. You think it's going someone, but it's really not and they are keeping you close until something better comes along.
The guy you speak of Elle is not doing emotional dangling imo. He's just emotionally unstable, and going from one extreme to the next. That's all him and his problems, which means the intent to pull strings or play puppet master may not be there as much as it seem.
then.............
"In three years, you will be my wife. I don't care who you are with, what you are doing, it won't matter because it will happen."
I would have stopped and cut off every single emotion@"I don't want a relationship with you." Really, what can honestly mean much of anything after that is said?
I think emotional dangling is the person being unsure, and stringing you along without telling you much of anything. You think it's going someone, but it's really not and they are keeping you close until something better comes along.
The guy you speak of Elle is not doing emotional dangling imo. He's just emotionally unstable, and going from one extreme to the next. That's all him and his problems, which means the intent to pull strings or play puppet master may not be there as much as it seem.
*somewhere
Posted by capgirl75
"I don't want a relationship with you."
then.............
"In three years, you will be my wife. I don't care who you are with, what you are doing, it won't matter because it will happen."
Oh my God, I have done this. 😢 But I didn't mean to screw with anyone. Person is still my friend and I probably should apologize.
What made you go from one extreme to the next?
I believe some of us can have too many On/Off switches. I'll feel good today about someone/something, but the total opposite tomorrow. That's horrible.
Posted by lnana04
"I don't want a relationship with you."
then.............
"In three years, you will be my wife. I don't care who you are with, what you are doing, it won't matter because it will happen."
I would have stopped and cut off every single emotion@"I don't want a relationship with you." Really, what can honestly mean much of anything after that is said?
I think emotional dangling is the person being unsure, and stringing you along without telling you much of anything. You think it's going someone, but it's really not and they are keeping you close until something better comes along.
The guy you speak of Elle is not doing emotional dangling imo. He's just emotionally unstable, and going from one extreme to the next. That's all him and his problems, which means the intent to pull strings or play puppet master may not be there as much as it seem.
My heart already feels broken 10x over. I forgot how to respect myself above anyone.. It's such a sad thing for a Scorpio! I'm not myself.
I don't have the astro skill to read deeply into our charts or I would have long time ago.
I just know we miss the mark. Like we both always wanted the same thing but it was NEVER dealt at the same time. And we only understand and talk about things after something messes up.
I just know we miss the mark. Like we both always wanted the same thing but it was NEVER dealt at the same time. And we only understand and talk about things after something messes up.
+1 Elle
"I'm not intelectually stimulated by you, sorry"
RAISE YOUR STANDARDS! Or settle for someone whose just not that into you intellectually or otherwise and this could explain why there is so much conflict, fighting and tension, the drama is STIMULATING intellectually but at the same time there is a huge loss of respect on his part for you, he know damn well you are settling and he's losing respect and a loss of respect equates to a loss of attraction, take into consideration the sex flows freely and until he finds a replacement you'll do.
Save what little self esteem you have left before you turn into a beggar which isn't attractive by the way, basically, humiliating yourself just to say you have someone in your life.
"I'm not intelectually stimulated by you, sorry"
RAISE YOUR STANDARDS! Or settle for someone whose just not that into you intellectually or otherwise and this could explain why there is so much conflict, fighting and tension, the drama is STIMULATING intellectually but at the same time there is a huge loss of respect on his part for you, he know damn well you are settling and he's losing respect and a loss of respect equates to a loss of attraction, take into consideration the sex flows freely and until he finds a replacement you'll do.
Save what little self esteem you have left before you turn into a beggar which isn't attractive by the way, basically, humiliating yourself just to say you have someone in your life.
not only long but boring.
Posted by james tate
not only long but boring.
with respect mr.tate- I never forced you to read it now did I ?
thank you ladies for you wonderful insight.. After some time and self strength finding.. I am in a much better place now. With not only myself, but in the eyes of others. =).
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