ashley1734
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Damn Cap Back Again
Posted by MiZLeoAll I did was ignore him! I know the whole "men respond to no contact thing" but wow.
I don't know why I find this so funny.....but I am surprised it is coming from a Cap! What did you do to this poor guy?
I peaced out on the situation because I knew I would need a bit more from him emotionally and I could tell we weren't compatible on that level. I was pretty straight forward about it so there was no mistaking why I was over it, and I also wanted to give him an opportunity to try a little harder, which he could not do.
I guess his text is just reiterating what I had already discovered about him, but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
Posted by MiZLeoNo his Moon sign is in detached Aquarius actually. Aries Ascending.
I know caps hate being ignored. If I ignore my bff cap I will get a million text messages from her saying "hello?" over and over again. Something probably happened that has made him start to feel sorry for himself and now he is looking for some attention, it sounds like. What are his moon and rising? Are they in a water sign? They like to play the "woe is me" card a lot.
Posted by tizianiWell his mission statement sucks, I will not be getting back in touch with him. Who would?
It's not really an admission. At least the odds more likely he's just setting up the terms and conditions.
"I've got nothing for you on that level" just sets people up to expect low standards. So that if you ever do get back in touch with them, they can tell you that they always warned you it was going to be this way.
Posted by ashley1734Admitting it is the 1st step.Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).click to expand
That doesn't mean to yourself, but to others.
I think?
Posted by CapTennYes totally. I was surprised he was even aware and vocalizing it to be honest. Although, if I was aware I was a certain way that wasn't ideal, I would think I would more be focused on trying to improve it than just giving a disclaimer like "take it or leave it." Not that I would expect anyone to change who they are, but something like that....being emotionally unavailable will be a detriment to him and you'd think he would wanna work on it. Maybe this is the first step toward that for him like you said.Posted by ashley1734Admitting it is the 1st step.Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
That doesn't mean to yourself, but to others.
I think?click to expand
Posted by VanishHaha why not just try and be a little more...open?Posted by tizianiThis is so true. I do this lol
It's not really an admission. At least the odds more likely he's just setting up the terms and conditions.
"I've got nothing for you on that level" just sets people up to expect low standards. So that if you ever do get back in touch with them, they can tell you that they always warned you it was going to be this way.click to expand
Posted by tizianiA bit presumptuous on his part haha. Thank you for making sense of it. I really had no idea what his intention was so I just continued to not respond.Posted by ashley1734I wouldn't blame you if you did or not. People get back in touch with each other for the strangest reasons all the time. I just that that's basically the true intention behind what he said for now. It looks like he's expecting you to get back in touch eventually and he's setting the terms right now early on. So you know... buyer beware.Posted by tizianiWell his mission statement sucks, I will not be getting back in touch with him. Who would?
It's not really an admission. At least the odds more likely he's just setting up the terms and conditions.
"I've got nothing for you on that level" just sets people up to expect low standards. So that if you ever do get back in touch with them, they can tell you that they always warned you it was going to be this way.click to expand
Posted by CapTennI don't know...if he's now suddenly self-aware of his flaws and hopefully will be "better next time", why not just do that with me while I was giving him the open opportunity to? Too much effort I suppose.Posted by ashley1734Admitting it is the 1st step.Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
That doesn't mean to yourself, but to others.
I think?click to expand
Posted by VanishHaha this is ALL men, not just Capricorns. I get it though, everyone wants to be accepted just as they are without some nagging broad telling him he's not emotional enough.Posted by tizianiLOL its not that. Its more like, I don't want to hear you complaining about this down the line and trying to change me.Posted by VanishLol Sanch just lining up the back-up sexPosted by tizianiThis is so true. I do this lol
It's not really an admission. At least the odds more likely he's just setting up the terms and conditions.
"I've got nothing for you on that level" just sets people up to expect low standards. So that if you ever do get back in touch with them, they can tell you that they always warned you it was going to be this way.click to expand
Posted by ashley1734He probably already considers his chances blown with you. He didn't recognize, or wasn't ready to self-reflect soon enough.Posted by CapTennI don't know...if he's now suddenly self-aware of his flaws and hopefully will be "better next time", why not just do that with me while I was giving him the open opportunity to? Too much effort I suppose.Posted by ashley1734Admitting it is the 1st step.Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
That doesn't mean to yourself, but to others.
I think?click to expand
Now,you have been ignoring him., so he knows the door has shut on his opportunity to make good.
I really believe his admission is an apology of sorts to you.
Kind of a "Hey, you were right. I wish I would have listened, and seen it before, but I didn't."
He is conceding.
Posted by CapTennOh good, I like that explanation. That means maybe he really will be more open when the next gal comes around and I can walk away knowing "it's not me, it's you" 😄Posted by ashley1734He probably already considers his chances blown with you. He didn't recognize, or wasn't ready to self-reflect soon enough.Posted by CapTennI don't know...if he's now suddenly self-aware of his flaws and hopefully will be "better next time", why not just do that with me while I was giving him the open opportunity to? Too much effort I suppose.Posted by ashley1734Admitting it is the 1st step.Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
That doesn't mean to yourself, but to others.
I think?
Now,you have been ignoring him., so he knows the door has shut on his opportunity to make good.
I really believe his admission is an apology of sorts to you.
Kind of a "Hey, you were right. I wish I would have listened, and seen it before, but I didn't."
He is conceding.
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Posted by VanishYeah totally. It's not like he was a stone wall. He had feelings and vulnerabilities just like the rest of us, just had no means to show/communicate that. Hopefully he will figure out a way for future relationships. His loss, but mine too.Posted by ashley1734Capricorns seem emotional to me though. They're aren't vacant like Virgos. Their emotions are just drama-less and legit.Posted by VanishHaha this is ALL men, not just Capricorns. I get it though, everyone wants to be accepted just as they are without some nagging broad telling him he's not emotional enough.Posted by tizianiLOL its not that. Its more like, I don't want to hear you complaining about this down the line and trying to change me.Posted by VanishLol Sanch just lining up the back-up sexPosted by tizianiThis is so true. I do this lol
It's not really an admission. At least the odds more likely he's just setting up the terms and conditions.
"I've got nothing for you on that level" just sets people up to expect low standards. So that if you ever do get back in touch with them, they can tell you that they always warned you it was going to be this way.click to expand
Posted by ashley1734I can walk away knowing "it's not me, it's you"Posted by CapTennOh good, I like that explanation. That means maybe he really will be more open when the next gal comes around and I can walk away knowing "it's not me, it's you" 😄Posted by ashley1734He probably already considers his chances blown with you. He didn't recognize, or wasn't ready to self-reflect soon enough.Posted by CapTennI don't know...if he's now suddenly self-aware of his flaws and hopefully will be "better next time", why not just do that with me while I was giving him the open opportunity to? Too much effort I suppose.Posted by ashley1734Admitting it is the 1st step.Posted by CapTennOk, I guess that makes sense. A bit backwards/unnecessary to tell me but good for him.
"but what the hell is the point of telling me what he isn't/can't be?"
I think it's more about him, than you, TBH.
He's just verbalizing acceptance of his flaws (self awareness and growth), making it easier for him to move forward, and be better next time (not with you obviously).
That doesn't mean to yourself, but to others.
I think?
Now,you have been ignoring him., so he knows the door has shut on his opportunity to make good.
I really believe his admission is an apology of sorts to you.
Kind of a "Hey, you were right. I wish I would have listened, and seen it before, but I didn't."
He is conceding.
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^^^^ Exactly. He is admitting defeat. LOL
Posted by VanishYou're right. Need to find someone who gets you. Super essential.Posted by ashley1734Well, Idk about the rest of us part 🙂Posted by VanishYeah totally. It's not like he was a stone wall. He had feelings and vulnerabilities just like the rest of us, just had no means to show/communicate that. Hopefully he will figure out a way for future relationships. His loss, but mine too.Posted by ashley1734Capricorns seem emotional to me though. They're aren't vacant like Virgos. Their emotions are just drama-less and legit.Posted by VanishHaha this is ALL men, not just Capricorns. I get it though, everyone wants to be accepted just as they are without some nagging broad telling him he's not emotional enough.Posted by tizianiLOL its not that. Its more like, I don't want to hear you complaining about this down the line and trying to change me.Posted by VanishLol Sanch just lining up the back-up sexPosted by tizianiThis is so true. I do this lol
It's not really an admission. At least the odds more likely he's just setting up the terms and conditions.
"I've got nothing for you on that level" just sets people up to expect low standards. So that if you ever do get back in touch with them, they can tell you that they always warned you it was going to be this way.
It's not really about him having to figure out how to be different. It's finding someone who gets you. And that's advice to both of you. All of the earth signs communicate their emotions more non verbally I think.click to expand
Posted by VanishI mean I think changing can be a good thing too though, especially in this case...he didn't need to be a whole different person, just be a little more open. That doesn't seem like a big deal to me as an air sign, but I realize it's just not his style.Posted by ashley1734Am I? Idk. Kind of sounds like he wishes he was different for you though lol. Stupid Capricorns. Always need to prove themselves or attempt to work for something that ultimately wont. Just can't resist that urge.Posted by VanishYou're right. Need to find someone who gets you. Super essential.Posted by ashley1734Posted by Vanish.Posted by ashley1734Posted by VanishPosted by tizianiPosted by VanishPosted by tiziani
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It's not really about him having to figure out how to be different. It's finding someone who gets you. And that's advice to both of you. All of the earth signs communicate their emotions more non verbally I think.click to expand
One of his texts that I ignored said he hoped he wouldn't be running into me with another guy because he would be bummed (we watch football at the same bars on Sundays), and another text he said that this sucks because he does like me and thinks we would have a lot of fun together.
Distance makes the heart grow fonder, but also makes you say things you might not mean so I just took it all with a grain of salt.
Posted by VanishYes I hear it does require a very patient woman to be with a Cap guy. I can hardly type the word "patient" without wanting the sentence to be over so I can start a new one. I have plenty of other gentleman callers giving me what he didn't/couldn't/wouldn't....but alas, that smoldering, confusing jackass of a Capricorn man is still swirling in my head.Posted by ashley1734Lol okay, I'm glad you feel that way. I guess I shouldn't be advocating that people settle for earth sign bullshit 😄 Have to remind myself often that's not how relationships with most people work. Oh well, sounds like he's taking the L on you and shaking his head at himself. I hear Capricorns are pretty loyal and are worth the wait, but it depends on the rest of his chart.
I mean I think changing can be a good thing too though, especially in this case...he didn't need to be a whole different person, just be a little more open. That doesn't seem like a big deal to me as an air sign, but I realize it's just not his style.
One of his texts that I ignored said he hoped he wouldn't be running into me with another guy because he would be bummed (we watch football at the same bars on Sundays), and another text he said that this sucks because he does like me and thinks we would have a lot of fun together.
Distance makes the heart grow fonder, but also makes you say things you might not mean so I just took it all with a grain of salt.click to expand
Posted by BlackMambaBrrrr is right. I have an Earth moon so I'm pretty logical, but damn even I need to have some of my feelings outwardly reciprocated once in awhile.
Aqua moon is tough. Caps are way more steady and emotional than a Virgo tho...but Aqua moon...brrrr
Posted by BlackMambaEach other? I don't know I have a girlfriend like this and I have to get her drunk to get her to open up (same with this Cap guy...when he was drunk he was much more emotionally open). Soooo I guess you just have to keep them drunk.Posted by ashley1734What kind of people do these people end up with?Posted by BlackMambaBrrrr is right. I have an Earth moon so I'm pretty logical, but damn even I need to have some of my feelings outwardly reciprocated once in awhile.
Aqua moon is tough. Caps are way more steady and emotional than a Virgo tho...but Aqua moon...brrrrclick to expand
Posted by VanishDamn! Obviously they aren't all the same, but both the Aqua moons I know are manipulative....I could see this Cap/Aqua Moon guy being that way as well. Not necessarily emotionally abusive, but manipulative and dismissive for SURE. And yes, a Cancer would totally endure that kind of shit.Posted by BlackMambaAqua moons? Cancers who wont give up on them. Aqua moons are only open with their family. My brother tells me lots of shit, but is super cold to his wife. I don't get. I'm like jeeeeeze bro be nicer to her damn. Worse than me. Its a side to him I didn't know before. It's like, this is not the person I grew up with. She's a cancer who will never leave though lmao, but she complains about it to me every time I see her. When he travels, he doesn't ask his wife to pick him up at the airport. He either asks me or our mother.... its weird that he relies on us more than his wife... Same thing with events he does for the place he works. Always asks me to help... He's emotionally abusive af.Posted by ashley1734What kind of people do these people end up with?Posted by BlackMambaBrrrr is right. I have an Earth moon so I'm pretty logical, but damn even I need to have some of my feelings outwardly reciprocated once in awhile.
Aqua moon is tough. Caps are way more steady and emotional than a Virgo tho...but Aqua moon...brrrrclick to expand
With all the race rants going around I read the title as
'Damn Cap Black Again'
'Damn Cap Black Again'
Posted by enfant_terribleNo, he's still white. 😄
With all the race rants going around I read the title as
'Damn Cap Black Again'
Posted by VanishSee that is JUST like my Cap dude. Never complimented me once, but would tell me other girls were pretty and then tell his best friend how he thought I was beautiful....just never to me. I saw that as manipulative in a way.
His wife last time I talked to her asked me if I thought he'd ever cheat because he works with a lot of younger women who hit on him all the time, and I just thought that was so sad. She said, "I never know where he is because he wont tell me!" But no, he told me he thinks they're all retarded.
Posted by VanishHot in that they will light your house on fire if you cross them.
Aries moons are hot.
Posted by VanishI don't care, carry on. 😄
Sorry for derailing your thread Ashley
Posted by VanishI have Venus in Aries, I relate.Posted by ashley1734That's really sexy.Posted by VanishHot in that they will light your house on fire if you cross them.
Aries moons are hot.click to expand
My Aqua mother has an aqua moon as well as the Taurus I dealt with. Emotional abuse from aqua moons sounds about right. Just a few weeks ago I thought about the people that cause me the most stress and anxiety and those two popped up smh.
Its good you are standing your ground OP. He'll never change.
Its good you are standing your ground OP. He'll never change.
Posted by lnana04Actually same now that you mention it I just realized my Aqua bff and Aqua sis BOTH have Aqua moons and we butt heads all the time because they come across as so manipulative over me. Interesting stuff.
My Aqua mother has an aqua moon as well as the Taurus I dealt with. Emotional abuse from aqua moons sounds about right. Just a few weeks ago I thought about the people that cause me the most stress and anxiety and those two popped up smh.
Its good you are standing your ground OP. He'll never change.
Posted by Vanishoh gosh, im familiar with this....the whole tear you down/build you up thing. id always tell the taurus he was torturous but all this time i thought it was due to his cancer mars.
You know, when we were kids, he would torture me and make me cry just so he could swoop in and console me...emotional abuse. Can you imagine that as a Cancer moon child.
@ashley, manipulated is exactly how i feel. they both have a strong hold on me as if they know my soft spots and take advantage. they both try to keep me in a certain position too, i guess weak enough so ill always be there for them smh.
@Cc, maybe your brother is just an all around mature person.
Posted by YellowSubmarineI very much think he was alarmed/turned away maybe even hurt by the swiftness with which I dismissed him. That does show he is emotional, just comes out in a different way. Thanks for pointing that out, I hadn't stopped to be in his shoes.Posted by VanishThis is so goddamn true.. The only men that have gotten through to me emotionally are Cancer influenced - they're annoying as fuck, but they get the job done.. and yes, alcohol does help, but that's just a universal truth - everyone gets more open when they're drunk. The difference is it’s just more shocking when it’s someone you don’t expect to be emotional.Posted by BlackMambaAqua moons? Cancers who wont give up on them. Aqua moons are only open with their family. My brother tells me lots of shit, but is super cold to his wife. I don't get. I'm like jeeeeeze bro be nicer to her damn. Worse than me. Its a side to him I didn't know before. It's like, this is not the person I grew up with. She's a cancer who will never leave though lmao, but she complains about it to me every time I see her. When he travels, he doesn't ask his wife to pick him up at the airport. He either asks me or our mother.... its weird that he relies on us more than his wife... Same thing with events he does for the place he works. Always asks me to help... He's emotionally abusive af.Posted by ashley1734What kind of people do these people end up with?Posted by BlackMambaBrrrr is right. I have an Earth moon so I'm pretty logical, but damn even I need to have some of my feelings outwardly reciprocated once in awhile.
Aqua moon is tough. Caps are way more steady and emotional than a Virgo tho...but Aqua moon...brrrr
Because the truth is, Aqua Moon is emotional – very emotional, and fixed; it does not waiver. It feels for people as a whole.. for example, the coldness with which the OP can dismiss the Cap? An Aqua Moon could not do this – believe me. We bleed for the world as a whole, but not necessarily for individuals because we take care of ourselves, so we expect you to take care of yourself.
You wanna know why I'd never ask my boyfriend to pick me up from the airport? Because I don't want to inconvenience him.. people are usually in a pissy mood after a flight, and I'd rather not have my SO have to deal with my bitching. That's what friends are for.. if you find it "abusive" then stop.click to expand
Posted by YellowSubmarineBut wait part of that seems contradictory or else I'm confused..."It feels for people as a whole" but then "not necessarily for individuals." Do you just mean they are compassionate in a general sense? Toward anything inhumane, etc.? But toward and individual they don't feel a real need to cater to the otherPosted by VanishThis is so goddamn true.. The only men that have gotten through to me emotionally are Cancer influenced - they're annoying as fuck, but they get the job done.. and yes, alcohol does help, but that's just a universal truth - everyone gets more open when they're drunk. The difference is it’s just more shocking when it’s someone you don’t expect to be emotional.Posted by BlackMambaAqua moons? Cancers who wont give up on them. Aqua moons are only open with their family. My brother tells me lots of shit, but is super cold to his wife. I don't get. I'm like jeeeeeze bro be nicer to her damn. Worse than me. Its a side to him I didn't know before. It's like, this is not the person I grew up with. She's a cancer who will never leave though lmao, but she complains about it to me every time I see her. When he travels, he doesn't ask his wife to pick him up at the airport. He either asks me or our mother.... its weird that he relies on us more than his wife... Same thing with events he does for the place he works. Always asks me to help... He's emotionally abusive af.Posted by ashley1734What kind of people do these people end up with?Posted by BlackMambaBrrrr is right. I have an Earth moon so I'm pretty logical, but damn even I need to have some of my feelings outwardly reciprocated once in awhile.
Aqua moon is tough. Caps are way more steady and emotional than a Virgo tho...but Aqua moon...brrrr
Because the truth is, Aqua Moon is emotional – very emotional, and fixed; it does not waiver. It feels for people as a whole.. for example, the coldness with which the OP can dismiss the Cap? An Aqua Moon could not do this – believe me. We bleed for the world as a whole, but not necessarily for individuals because we take care of ourselves, so we expect you to take care of yourself.
You wanna know why I'd never ask my boyfriend to pick me up from the airport? Because I don't want to inconvenience him.. people are usually in a pissy mood after a flight, and I'd rather not have my SO have to deal with my bitching. That's what friends are for.. if you find it "abusive" then stop.click to expand
Posted by YellowSubmarineI understand. And while I myself wouldn't need to be catered to, I am super affectionate and verbal with my emotions, and I love the same in return. A def mismatch with the Cap. Everything else seemed pretty in line with us, but for such a fundamental thing to be off, there's not enough compromise in the world that can make that work.
@ashley1734
What I mean is Aqua Moon can feel even for strangers, and yes towards inhumanity (example, I love my job because it allows me to help people - I don't deal with patients as much as I used to, and don't even have a face to most of their names.. but my drive, my motivation, at work are these faceless individuals).
But when an Aqua Moon picks someone, they do so because they expect strength and independence in you.. so no, they will not cater to you because they do not expect to be catered to themselves.
Posted by YellowSubmarineOh totally, I'm glad you explained the other side of it to me.Posted by ashley1734Of course you are, you Merc influenced, Aries Venus, you 😉Posted by YellowSubmarineI understand. And while I myself wouldn't need to be catered to, I am super affectionate and verbal with my emotions, and I love the same in return. A def mismatch with the Cap. Everything else seemed pretty in line with us, but for such a fundamental thing to be off, there's not enough compromise in the world that can make that work.
@ashley1734
What I mean is Aqua Moon can feel even for strangers, and yes towards inhumanity (example, I love my job because it allows me to help people - I don't deal with patients as much as I used to, and don't even have a face to most of their names.. but my drive, my motivation, at work are these faceless individuals).
But when an Aqua Moon picks someone, they do so because they expect strength and independence in you.. so no, they will not cater to you because they do not expect to be catered to themselves.
And fair enough - I'm not suggesting you give him another chance, or anything of the sort.. you're doing the right thing, which is following what you feel.
Just got a lil touchy about that Aqua Moon is all lol..click to expand
I jusssst learned about my Aries Venus and I think I'm starting to realize it has more power over me in relationships than most other influences which sucks because Aries is a feisty motherfucker.
Posted by YellowSubmarineOh you have it too!? So if that's the way I love, what would be a compatible Venus sign? Funny cus I love Aries men, not sure if that's related at all.
@ashley1734
Haha well it's Venus, so it's the way you love, so you yeah it'll influence your relationships.
Oh yeah, it's feisty lol.. try it with a Scorp Venus, the power struggle is REAL 😆 It was actually a lot of fun when I was younger.. I love the placement - better than being a doormat 🙂
Posted by YellowSubmarineHahaha oh my gosh I totally forgot that was you sorry babe!Posted by ashley1734Dude we PM'd about this lol.. Yes, I'm Venus in Aries.Posted by YellowSubmarineOh you have it too!? So if that's the way I love, what would be a compatible Venus sign? Funny cus I love Aries men, not sure if that's related at all.
@ashley1734
Haha well it's Venus, so it's the way you love, so you yeah it'll influence your relationships.
Oh yeah, it's feisty lol.. try it with a Scorp Venus, the power struggle is REAL 😆 It was actually a lot of fun when I was younger.. I love the placement - better than being a doormat 🙂
Evidently compatible with Air and Fire Venus signs... I've had a Venus in Libra, but they're opposites and it was just that - we were very different, and continue to be. The other I've had is Venus in Aqua - it was an instant hit, but our moons conjunct each others Venus' so yeah..amazing, albeit short lived - he still keeps tabs on me, it's sweet.
I've never had a Fire Venus bf but apparently it would be best for me.. yet I've had THREE Venus in Scorps 😆
I wasn't even extensively into astrology when I was with most of these guys, so in retrospect, it blew in mind.click to expand
Same with me I wasn't into astrology with most of my major relationships so I have no idea about their birth times and all that. This Cap guy actually has Venus in Aquarius, but too many other placements were off I think.
Lol typical capricorn,,,,,
Ugh
Ridiculous and so sensitive and transparent...lolol
I have a very well known cap who won't leave me the heck alone...lmaooo
Dude get a grip...it's over!!!! Lmaooo
Capricorns are hilarious...he is well aware of how he is, he's hoping and praying acknowledging it will make you or others accept him...
No contact! None! Let him sit and think real hard and go treetrunk himself....
We need a capricorn rescue hotline lmaoooo
Ugh
Ridiculous and so sensitive and transparent...lolol
I have a very well known cap who won't leave me the heck alone...lmaooo
Dude get a grip...it's over!!!! Lmaooo
Capricorns are hilarious...he is well aware of how he is, he's hoping and praying acknowledging it will make you or others accept him...
No contact! None! Let him sit and think real hard and go treetrunk himself....
We need a capricorn rescue hotline lmaoooo
Posted by ashley1734
So my previously confusing Cap guy who I let go has consistently been texting me first it was a dumb quote then it was "I miss you" then it was "ok well I will leave you alone then I just thought we could be friends"....these all went unanswered by me. Then last night I get this text:
"I'm sorry Ashley. I'm not as expressive with my feelings as you'd like me to be and I understand that you'd like someone more expressive, emotional and maybe even sensitive. I'm none of those things. I guess I've got nothing for you on that level. Maybe we'll turn out to be good friends."
and then it was followed by "I hope you find happiness soon."
What is up with the self-prophesizing (maybe that's not the right word) and continually trying to be my friend. I don't want to be your friend fucker! It's cool he admitted he can't give me what I want, but I feel like he's being dramatic/playing games. I have zero interest in pursuing him, I'm just into putting men under my microscope after they've fucked with me so I can see what's happening.
Nooooo this new guy I have been friends with but always had a bit of a crush on asked me out finally and justttt out of curiosity (learning how important Moon placement is), I looked up his Moon....FUCKING AQUARIUS.
Why?!
It has to be something I'm innately attracted to haha. He is Libra with Aqua Ascending, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mars, Libra Venus. He totally seems detached but he is much more vocal about his interest in me than the Cap so maybe it has to do with other placements or plain old fashion nature vs nurture.
Any thoughts on his placements?
Why?!
It has to be something I'm innately attracted to haha. He is Libra with Aqua Ascending, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mars, Libra Venus. He totally seems detached but he is much more vocal about his interest in me than the Cap so maybe it has to do with other placements or plain old fashion nature vs nurture.
Any thoughts on his placements?
He may not ever sudmit because he want controll over his feelings and what he decide to show you emotional. If thats an attribute that you reqiure so early you really do need to leave him alone and never get serious with him. I been talking to a cap for close to 7 years now and he still don't show his emotions sometimes. He shows them when he feel like it. I got tired of this mess and we dont even call each other now. My Cap friend suck!!! Deadweight
Posted by BlackMambaI'm not sure Virgo men bore me to tears.
Aren't Virgo men like this as well....
Posted by tizianiHe already turned out to be such a jerk. We had plans to hangout on Tuesday...had totally normal conversation on Saturday just about Halloween, whatever else and it was flirtatious and not overly heavy or anything at all and then he just stops responding so I leave it alone and then last night I texted him "so I'm guessing I should make other plans on Tuesday?" and he said "Don't guess."Posted by ashley1734Well his Moon is in the Ascendant so he's not likely to be detached. It's just a question of catching him first thing in the morning where mood is raw.
Nooooo this new guy I have been friends with but always had a bit of a crush on asked me out finally and justttt out of curiosity (learning how important Moon placement is), I looked up his Moon....FUCKING AQUARIUS.
Why?!
It has to be something I'm innately attracted to haha. He is Libra with Aqua Ascending, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mars, Libra Venus. He totally seems detached but he is much more vocal about his interest in me than the Cap so maybe it has to do with other placements or plain old fashion nature vs nurture.
Any thoughts on his placements?click to expand
Ouch. What the hell??
Posted by tizianiHahaha ðŸ˜Posted by ashley1734So you like the weird guys eh. That's your thing (nods)Posted by tizianiHe already turned out to be such a jerk. We had plans to hangout on Tuesday...had totally normal conversation on Saturday just about Halloween, whatever else and it was flirtatious and not overly heavy or anything at all and then he just stops responding so I leave it alone and then last night I texted him "so I'm guessing I should make other plans on Tuesday?" and he said "Don't guess."Posted by ashley1734Well his Moon is in the Ascendant so he's not likely to be detached. It's just a question of catching him first thing in the morning where mood is raw.
Nooooo this new guy I have been friends with but always had a bit of a crush on asked me out finally and justttt out of curiosity (learning how important Moon placement is), I looked up his Moon....FUCKING AQUARIUS.
Why?!
It has to be something I'm innately attracted to haha. He is Libra with Aqua Ascending, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mars, Libra Venus. He totally seems detached but he is much more vocal about his interest in me than the Cap so maybe it has to do with other placements or plain old fashion nature vs nurture.
Any thoughts on his placements?
Ouch. What the hell??click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaOh totally. Ain't nobody got time for that shit.Posted by ashley1734That seemed like a rude response from him. I hope you stop talking to him.Posted by tizianiHahaha ðŸ˜Posted by ashley1734So you like the weird guys eh. That's your thing (nods)Posted by tizianiHe already turned out to be such a jerk. We had plans to hangout on Tuesday...had totally normal conversation on Saturday just about Halloween, whatever else and it was flirtatious and not overly heavy or anything at all and then he just stops responding so I leave it alone and then last night I texted him "so I'm guessing I should make other plans on Tuesday?" and he said "Don't guess."Posted by ashley1734Well his Moon is in the Ascendant so he's not likely to be detached. It's just a question of catching him first thing in the morning where mood is raw.
Nooooo this new guy I have been friends with but always had a bit of a crush on asked me out finally and justttt out of curiosity (learning how important Moon placement is), I looked up his Moon....FUCKING AQUARIUS.
Why?!
It has to be something I'm innately attracted to haha. He is Libra with Aqua Ascending, Aqua Moon, Virgo Mars, Libra Venus. He totally seems detached but he is much more vocal about his interest in me than the Cap so maybe it has to do with other placements or plain old fashion nature vs nurture.
Any thoughts on his placements?
Ouch. What the hell??click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaerieHaha maybe but we don't even have sex!
So... am I the only one who thinks Cap's still trying to keep his foot in the door for sex?
The above scenario was about new Libra asshole though.
Posted by cheekyfaerieYeah, I didn't catch that from him. I'm not naive but I could have missed it. Still, we were hanging out for just about 2 months pretty regularly and never had sex so that says something. Or maybe that's why he got over it hahaha. 😄Posted by ashley1734We are sappier when drunk, no lie, but I'd not assume his intentions were completely altruistic. That's all.Posted by cheekyfaerieHaha maybe but we don't even have sex!
So... am I the only one who thinks Cap's still trying to keep his foot in the door for sex?
The above scenario was about new Libra asshole though.
Yeah, I caught that. Whatta jerkface! At least it didn't take long to figure that out.click to expand
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What is up with the self-prophesizing (maybe that's not the right word) and continually trying to be my friend. I don't want to be your friend fucker! It's cool he admitted he can't give me what I want, but I feel like he's being dramatic/playing games. I have zero interest in pursuing him, I'm just into putting men under my microscope after they've fucked with me so I can see what's happening.