do capricorns go well with sweet libra's

so astrology say capricorns and libra's aren't compatible....i disagree, but never been in a relationship with a cap.... what you guys input or stories

leos are fun..life of the party type....however caps seem more reserved, at least from a cap friend i know

i don't know any Libra's but i would date Flea in a heartbeat 😛

Posted by champranger

Posted by libra24
so astrology say capricorns and libra's aren't compatible....i disagree, but never been in a relationship with a cap.... what you guys input or stories

I would ask LIb4Life ... I think she's married to a Capricorn. 🙂

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Thanks @champranger, and yes libra24...Libra's and Caps can work. I've been with my husband 28 1/2 years and 26 1/2 of that in marriage. It takes communication and compromise as with any relationship regardless of the signs, but it can work. Like I said before, it hasn't always been easy, but it's been worth it. My husband is a double whammy.....Cap w/Aries rising and I'm Libra w/Scorpio rising, so we're both very very determined, stubborn and want to take the lead, but somehow the relationship balanced out and we learn to give and take. I was, and still can be very stubborn at times, but over the years, he's definitely taught me how to channel my stubbornness and out of control anger into something constructive. He's waaaaaay more disciplined than I am. Also, space (me time) is crucial to any relationship. Make sure that no one gets crowded because both Caps and especially Libs require a lot of space to be able to think.

Depends on other placements. Astrologically Libras are exalted by Saturn... Capricorn's planet.

wow learned something new lol....i'm a libra btw....i just can't understand why caps take their time....and very slow..... serious too, but i don't mind a little serious at times... sometimes you have to be focused...with me being a libra in all sometimes i can be everywhere with my emotions in all...i see beauty and love in everything....yea i know weirdo right?

Posted by Denver34
What frostey just said...but yes there's exaltation in there somewhere, so Libras aspire to be Caps, admire Caps, but they're generally not ready to be so professional in life, so they'll find their Cap partner too harsh. Enjoy the refined, classy stuff, dislike the tough side...
Caps will enjoy Libras for their class and sense of fun/relaxation, but find them aloof, unserious, even stupid...

I've never aspired to be anything like my husband because if I did, I seriously doubt we would still be a couple. However, we balance each other out. Never found him harsh either......RUDE and a BUTT WIPE at times..for sure, but that's because he is an Aries rising, so it can be expected, and I've always loved his tough side, which to me is more like being disciplined. Now that, I have definitely learned from him, and IF he ever thought I was stupid, he apparently kept it too himself, which was the best thing to do.

Posted by libra24
wow learned something new lol....i'm a libra btw....i just can't understand why caps take their time....and very slow..... serious too, but i don't mind a little serious at times... sometimes you have to be focused...with me being a libra in all sometimes i can be everywhere with my emotions in all...i see beauty and love in everything....yea i know weirdo right?

Nope..you're not weird at all...it's just who you are. MOST Libra's do try to see the beauty in everything including people. That's just apart of our makeup. You can't help who you were born to be and what astrological sign you were born under, but as you get older, reality sets in and you begin to see people for who they are. You definitely can't change folks, so you accept them for who they are and decide if they have a role in your life, and if not, keep it moving. Doesn't mean anything's wrong with them or you, it just means you are two different people and see things in two different ways.

true at lib4life...sometimes different is good....opposites do attract sometimes. how do you deal with cap pulling away more so in the early stages of your relationship or before you were married. did he chase you? why must one have so much patience with them? and how do you know if he cares about you in anyway

@cowpuncher yea that's how i am very classy...reserved unique i must add i carry myself like a lady indeed...if only my cap friend noticed. why do you guys need time apart i guess space.... and how must one know you care about her or at all in more than a friend type of way

Posted by libra24
true at lib4life...sometimes different is good....opposites do attract sometimes. how do you deal with cap pulling away more so in the early stages of your relationship or before you were married. did he chase you? why must one have so much patience with them? and how do you know if he cares about you in anyway

@libra24 my Cap was totally different from the other guys that I dated prior to meeting him. He had this nonchalant attitude and he did not put me on a pedestal, so I think that's what drew me too him. He was a challenge and had no problem letting me know that he was just a good a catch for me than I was for him..lol..A little arrogant, but very sure of himself and that's what I fell in love with. He let me know that he liked me and wanted to pursue a relationship, but he was NOT going to chase me. He was always a gentleman, very respectful and very loving. His approach was definitely different, but even now 28 1/2 years later he still has those qualities. However, his character never waivered, but he did make some adjustments in his personality because of me and of course I made adjustments in mine because of him, so that's what I mean by BALANCE. When you have two head strong people, you're going to always have challenges. We still go toe to toe today about a lot of things, but at the end of the day, we work it out and just agree to disagree.This is not just for a Lib & Cap reunion..this is for all relationship. Sometimes we just have to put our pride and ego aside and do love. It's not easy..especially when you're young, but you learn these things as you get old(er)..lol. I guess we were just blessed to make it through some of the roughest times in our relationship. I tell you what though, I don't think I'll ever meet another one like him for sure, and he feels the same about me. He's always said I was a work in progress and he was up for the challenge.

See....that's the thing...I just don't seem to see where I identify with Virgo on anything. That leaves me baffled. Libra and Scorpio..I get...Virgo..not so much. Unless the emotional unattached thing is as strong for Virgo as it is for Libra. I dunno.....I'm trying to learn and understand a little more about this astrological stuff though it can be very frustrating.

Posted by noname
intellectually yes. i especially appreciate their well-rounnded, knowledgeable and doer ways. they are the ones that do not bore my mind. unfortunately, not emotionally compatible. it of course depends on the entire chart but even with my aqua moon my dominant water and earth are unable to connect with the libra soul emotionally.

I think it's probably because most Libra's can be emotionless, and I don't think it's intentional though. I can't explain it, but I just don't get emotional about a lot of things. The only thing that always gets me emotional was the death of my parents (grands) and they passed 15 years ago and even til this day, I can't talk about or even like to think about it. It's like I loved them so much that my biggest fear was loosing them someday, and of course I did, but I never really accepted that because I knew it would mean permanent closure. Hmmmm...You know "noname", maybe I'm on to something. Maybe it's out of fear that Libra's don't show a lot of emotion. My biggest fear at the time was loosing the both of them, and it came true.

do caps like to lead the relationship? do they like to initiate? how does he know when you are the one or if he can start a family with you.

All of my friends are either libra or cancers