So i haven't spoken to my capricorn Venus in cap ex for 3 months after he broke up with me because I was pressuring him for commitment ,bought him a very expensive gift and he's a commitmentphobe.last week I texted him and told him that I'm finally over him and that we should be friends and he shouldn't worry cause I've moved on and I'm seeing someone and it feels great.he said he's happy to hear that and he asked if the guy is treating me well and I said he is.and then I said I hope you're doing well.and he didn't respond. A week later I post pics of me out and having fun and he texts me out of the blue and asks me to contact one of my friends who owns a company to help him get a job.When we were together I tried to help my ex find a job and I kept doing everything for my ex.I basically smothered him with tons of love and attention. So when he texted me that I just said ok I'll contact him and he said thanks dude....It really bugged me that he called me dude so I said no problem dudette. When we were together I was always very romantic and called him love and cutesy stuff like that.So then he contacts me the next day and sends me a funny gif and then says but no it would really help me out if you helped me.I responded and said my friend said he doesn't need workers and then my ex said oh ok thanks for trying to help and I responded and just said no problem.I kept responding and being very distant.When we were together I always responded with enthusiasm and love and care so I have a feeling that he's wondering why I'm not acting the way I used to act.Guys I'm trying to figure out why he's suddenly contacting me after I told him I'm seeing someone and moved on?My ex never asked me to do anything for him in the past but I always did and I remember when I tried to help him find a job, it sorta bugged him and he said focus on yourself and your life and now he's asking me for help?why?Is it really cause he wants a job? Or is he testing me to see if he still has me?
