capricorn men in relationship...

if they start out at the beginning doing so much assessment and appearing rather uninterested (eg busy), will they become more involved over time if u passed the assessment?

just curious, cause my two month capricorn bf seems to be so reserved and unaffectionate, I am thinking of ending things or being patient...

thanks...

Maybe that's his nature? Why do you think he is doing an assessment of you.

Granted Caps are ass men but still.

pardon my virgo need for details n that worrier nature, trying to get more replies!
still glad to hear u know me now 🙂

Maybe he doesn't know yet if he wants you into his life. Give him time and less attention. Be busier than him, if he's yours he will come back 🙂 just stop worrying so much after all, more confidence girl ! xx

it took a few months to start seeing physical affection from mine, smfh.
Be patient if you can be.

Posted by nightvirgo8888
if they start out at the beginning doing so much assessment and appearing rather uninterested (eg busy), will they become more involved over time if u passed the assessment?

just curious, cause my two month capricorn bf seems to be so reserved and unaffectionate, I am thinking of ending things or being patient...

thanks...

I don't know about that. All the cap men I met were very affectionate upfront. Some more than others. Like this last one, I swear the way he was on me I would??ve sworn he was damn Cancer (thank GOD he's not), but seriously. I loved it though. One even told me —I'm very affectionate, I hope you can handle that.?? Lol.
Other caps I dated gave no warning, they just went for it. Lol. I never realized it until now but I like this sign. I had one bad apple for a cap, the rest were complete sweethearts. It's true that some can be a bit reserved at first, but for the most part they are happy driven people. Didn't mention they are driven??_geesh. Maybe his mind is preoccupied with work, family, or something. Try talking to him??_maybe?
Don't ask him why he's not affectionate but try to get him to open up??_if he feels more comfortable it may help.

I cannot speak for all caps, but from my experience I feel if a cap wants you, you'll know it. Now they may not give you 100% , right upfront, but you wouldn't be sitting around with doubt either.

My capricorn always gave me his full attention in the beginning. He still does. We've been together for years and he made the effort to hang on longer than I expected last night. It was great 🙂

Yeh, I pretty much got 100% from my Cap, in terms of initiating and pursuing or arranging dates, timing etc...
Never been off radar the entire time, in fact.
So, I dunno, when they want ya they want ya and you get it on the spot every time.

It's true when they want you, you never have to question it.

He probably is really busy and he may be acting a little reserved because he needs reassurance that your actually interested too.

thanks for ur advices 🙂 appreciate it. i dunno whether to press it further or wait for him to respond. he's a tough nut to crack...

and u are all right to say when he wants u u never have to question it. I felt the same when we started. but things have quieten down a lot. communication, calls, etc. if he is not interested he would be telling me in my face, or is he waiting for me to do the breaking instead?

I can be patient with him of course, just ur advices will give my a good gauge if I am really just fooling myself...

Nightvirgo I need more details of your interaction with him. How are you acting towards him? Are you playing hard to get? Do you flirt? Share a scenario of a convo or a date with the two of you.

thanks for ur reply creativecap 🙂

personally I feel that I have tried to give him his time and space when he is working so I try not to text him so much at work. he works 7 days a week now due to some programme they r launching at work. when he doesn't reply after couple of hours ( despite having seen my text) I'll just leave it or text "busy?" that's all. nothing too pushy.

he responds after a while, all the work related things he will be texting me even know I know nth about them...

he tries to meet me for dinner on 1-2 weekdays and always late because of work ( I understand, never allowed it to bother me, I'll find things to do.) and verbally says he tries to keep weekends for me which he does generally... (we are in the second mth of dating and not many weekends to talk about)

we talk about things like work, plans, friends, movies.. generally things...

we r planning a holiday but it seems he is unsure if he is able to confirm it even though he brings it up. when I asked how about fixing a date he says ok but let's see, then me being not pushy will just let the topic go at that

he has intro me to 2 of his friends over meals...

I feel a little uneasy about the occasional disappearing acts but have assured myself that it's just me-time he needs.

we had a conversation last night and he says jokingly not to think so much.

what do u think?

this cap has a Sagittarius moon and a venus in cap.

I have a libra moon and venus in Leo.

appreciates!

Posted by nightvirgo8888
if they start out at the beginning doing so much assessment and appearing rather uninterested (eg busy), will they become more involved over time if u passed the assessment?

just curious, cause my two month capricorn bf seems to be so reserved and unaffectionate, I am thinking of ending things or being patient...

thanks...

Yes, in my experience they definitely become more affectionate and involved if you pass the assessment.
Just be yourself, and do your thing. Assess him back haha 🙂