Feed back on how you would handle a situation....

Sounds like YOU were the inconsiderate one who had a million and one things "come up" and a million and one excuses for why it should be acceptable that you weren't CONSIDERATE or MATURE enough to even (find a way, allll day long!) to let him know what was going on until AFTER you stood him up without warning.

And if that's the case, I call bullshit on YOUR self-centered antics. If HE pulled this on YOU, you would be FURIOUS.

/ $ 0.02

how would i handle this? lol shoot, i might just say something to the effect of... "excuse me for taking up so much of your precious time. maybe next time you wanna get bent over time, you should appreciate your lover's time too with a little bit of respect" *click*

It's not even the action of being stood up that would anger me... it's the hypocrisy of it all. i'd find it extremely hypocritical to have my time wasted, and the wastER of my time tell me they would allow me to essentially bitch to them when deep down they don't want to be bothered at that moment... as if it were a privilege graciously granted to me. Deal breaker.

And kids aren't a trump or get-out-of-jail-free card. They are kids... set a *good* example.

So you haven't talked to him since the end of June? That is a bit dramatic but its interesting you said he always have to pay you back which makes it seem as if these mistakes happen more then he'd like. I know what its like to hurt people without trying but you have to put yourself their shoes and wonder what its like to keep getting hurt. You can't expect him to be considerate by communicating or even considerate of your feelings after you've done it your way up to the point where he gives the payback.

An Aries view:

If you are really hurt dont speak to him at least 3 weeks (better 4). Explanations do not work with those creatures; the only good tool is fear of loosing you.

Not completely serious but not completely not serious either 😉

Ooops did not see you were guilty. Then try not to do it often as Caps have limitations

You both are childish and stupid. Especially considering the ages involved here.

With each time you did me this way, I would have gotten a little colder. You expected him to understand when you did it, but you got upset when he did? You did deserve the payback. Sometimes getting a taste of one's own medicine is good for the soul. By the way, I would have already cut ties with you. But then again, I don't get along with aries very well anyway.

Posted by aries415

And I think that you are stupid for even having the nerve to insult me and my man. Age doesn't matter as you have read through all these forums. People are in their seventies still playing games. Many people do not know how to handle being hurt especially those of my age who have had failed relationships, so instead they come up with defense mechanisms that are not always rational.

Wait, I'M stupid for calling YOU both out on your immature bullshit? Then you turn around and try to justify behaving like a 12 year old because everyone else does it?

Sure. I'M the stupid one here...

My comment still stands. Both of you need to grow up and quit acting so stupid.